This book was written to help people with the many choices they have to make in life. Based upon my learning, my mistakes, my correct choices, and my education as well as work experience, I have put together my thoughts on how to deal with many of the challenges people face in life. I talk about many topics that I feel are important for a person to succeed in life. As a kid, I always heard about the importance of education, but I did not hear enough about other areas of life that are just as important. This book can be used as a guide to help you focus on important aspects of your life while you are on your journey to become successful.

This Book was written in a funny manner to not only touch upon some old school ways but to also make us laugh, cry, and think about how some of the things we do impact kids, family, friends, neighbors, and society in general. Some stuff is made up and some stuff is just based upon what I have seen over the years. This book doesn't target any race because all races can be Ghetto. For Ghetto is not about Colors, Black, White, or Pink, but about how you act, how you live, and how you think. This book is not meant to disrespect anyone, it is just meant for laughs and to make you think so if I offend anyone please accept my apologies.

I think society has watered down what a real man is and because women have rightfully been obtaining more success some tend to look down on men who are not as successful. There are also some men who feel less adequate in dealing with women that have a higher stature than them. Nonetheless, it is my attempt in this book to not only educate women on what a real man is but to also educate men on what a real man is because in my opinion, many of them have lost their way.

Only a man knows how he wants to be treated and what makes him happy. Men think differently than women and this causes communication issues. After being in several relationships you begin to mature and understand what you like. I felt that there should be some type of guide to let women know how to treat a man in order to make him happy. So I wrote this book to help women to do the things that will keep their man happy. If you have a good man then it is worth listening to some of the advice in this book, but if you don't have a good man then just save some of these lessons for when you meet that good man in the future.