If anyone suggests that autistic people should not have children,
in the mistaken belief that they would not be good parents because
of their neurodiversity, they are wrong. Completely wrong. This is
not to say that every autistic person should have a child, any more
than every neuro-majority person should. People usually know for
themselves whether or not they want to become parents, and if they
don't, they shouldn't. It's as simple as that. Of course, that
doesn't mean that every moment will be sunshine, rainbows, and
cute, cuddly babies who sleep all night and never throw their
oatmeal on the floor. Babies are just teenagers on hold, and
teenagers are adults in waiting. At every step in the growing up
process there will be hard times, and there will be joyful times.
Parents have made this same journey since people began peopling,
and the journey will continue after our children's children have
grandchildren of their own. We're part of a huge spectrum of
parenting through the ages. Isn't it a wonder and a privilege to be
a link in this chain? Having a different brain, as autists,
ADHDers, and AuDHDers do, does not mean that you shouldn't be part
of this link, if your heart leads you to parenting. You'll be
amazing! You and I both know, though, that being neurodivergent in
a neuro-majority world is not easy. Parenting isn't easy, either,
but you can do difficult things. You've been doing them all along,
haven't you? Parenting is just one more challenge you can manage,
and it's worth it. This book is here to help you navigate the
unique aspects of parenting while autistic. Throughout the book
you'll find side trips to focus on various aspects of parenting
while autistic. Here's a description of each one. Sensory Smarts In
this section we'll discuss some of the sensory issues related to
different stages of the parenting journey. You'll find strategies
for coping with heightened sensory reactions. Make Family Meetings
Fun Your family's need for Family Meetings, and what you will focus
on in these meetings, will change as your children grow. Keep up
with their needs, and yours, while making it fun for everyone.
Weekends That Work You deserve a break at the end of a busy week,
and so do your kids. How can you create the kind of weekend that
works for all of you? You'll find tips in this section. Fictional
Families Throughout the book the topics and challenges at your
child's developmental stages will be illustrated by fictional
families who, like you, are parenting while autistic. Follow them
on their journeys, and see what you may have in common with them.
Parent To Parent It's important to listen to the authentic voices
of actually autistic parents. Here you will find words of wisdom
from neurodivergent moms and dads who have walked the ND parenting
path before you, and who want you to succeed, too. You've got this.
Let's go.
General
Imprint: |
Future Horizons Incorporated
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Country of origin: |
United States |
Series: |
Adulting while Autistic |
Release date: |
December 2023 |
Authors: |
Wendela Whitcomb Marsh
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Dimensions: |
229 x 152mm (L x W) |
Pages: |
200 |
ISBN-13: |
978-1-957984-28-5 |
Categories: |
Books
Promotions
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LSN: |
1-957984-28-7 |
Barcode: |
9781957984285 |
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