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**From the Sunday Times Bestselling Author** Life-affirming - THE
TELEGRAPH Wonderful - INDEPENDENT She made it her mission to learn
how to be default happy rather than default disgruntled - RADIO 4 -
WOMAN'S HOUR Take a leaf out of Gray's book and be kinder to
yourself by appreciating life just as it is - IRISH TIMES This book
came to me in an hour of need - during lockdown when I had to focus
on the positive, appreciate simple things, not lose my shit, and
value each day. It was a pure joy for me and held my hand - SADIE
FROST Interesting and joyful. Lights a path that could help us to
build resilience against society's urging to compare life
milestones with peers - LANCET PSYCHIATRY Underwhelmed by your
ordinary existence? Disillusioned with your middlin' wage, average
body, 'bijou' living situation and imperfect loved ones? Welcome to
the club. There are billions of us. The 'default disenchanted'.
But, it's not us being brats. Two deeply inconvenient psychological
phenomenons conspire against our satisfaction. We have
negatively-biased brains, which zoom like doom-drones in on what's
wrong with our day, rather than what's right. (Back in the mists of
time, this negative bias saved our skins, but now it just makes us
anxious). Also, something called the 'hedonic treadmill' means we
eternally quest for better, faster, more, like someone stuck on a
dystopian, never-ending treadmill. Thankfully, there are
scientifically-proven ways in which we can train our brains to be
more positive-seeking. And to take a rest from this tireless
pursuit. Whew. Catherine Gray knits together illuminating science
and hilarious storytelling, unveiling captivating research showing
that big bucks don't mean big happiness, extraordinary experiences
have a 'comedown' and budget weddings predict a lower chance of
divorce. She reminds us what an average body actually is, reveals
that exercising for weight loss means we do less exercise, and
explores the modern tendency to not just try to keep up with the
Murphys, but keep up with the Mega-Murphies (see: the social media
elite). Come on in to this soulful and life-affirming read, to
discover why an ordinary life may well be the most satisfying one
of all. PRAISE FOR CATHERINE GRAY'S WRITING: "Uplifting and
inspiring" - The Evening Standard "Not remotely preachy" - The
Times "Jaunty, shrewd and convincing" - The Telegraph "Admirably
honest, light, bubbly and remarkably rarely annoying" - The
Guardian "An empathetic, warm and hilarious tale from a hugely
likeable human" - The Lancet Psychiatry
From the Sunday Times bestselling author 'This refreshing, unusual
book needs to exist. A culture shift which repositions a single
person as someone who is relationship-free, complete, and not
lacking is long overdue.' - The i 'Absolutely f*cking brilliant' -
Florence Given Having a secret single freak-out? Feeling the red,
heart-shaped urgency intensify as the years roll on by? Oh hi!
You're in the right place. Over half of Brits aged 25-44 are now
single. It's become the norm to remain solo until much later in
life, given the average marriage ages of 35 (women) and 38 (men).
Many of us are choosing never to marry at all. But society, films,
song lyrics and our parents are adamant that a happy ending has to
be couple-shaped. That we're incomplete without an 'other half'*,
like a bisected panto pony. Cue: single sorrow. Dating like it's a
job. Spending half our lives waiting for somebody-we-fancy to text
us back. Feeling haunted by the terms 'spinster' or 'confirmed
bachelor.' Catherine Gray took a whole year off dating to find
single satisfaction. She lifted the lid on the reasons behind the
global single revolution, explored the bizarre ways cultures
single-shame, detached from 'all the good ones are gone!' panic and
debunked the myth that married people are much happier. Let's start
the reverse brainwash, in order to locate - and luxuriate in -
single happiness. Are you in? *Spoiler: you're already whole PRAISE
FOR CATHERINE GRAY'S WRITING: "Fascinating." - Bryony Gordon "Not
remotely preachy." - The Times "Jaunty, shrewd and convincing." -
The Telegraph "Admirably honest, light, bubbly and remarkably
rarely annoying." - The Guardian "Truthful, modern and real." -
Stylist "Brave, witty and brilliantly written." - Marie Claire
"Haunting, admirable and enlightening." - The Pool
The long-awaited sequel to THE UNEXPECTED JOY OF BEING SOBER - the
Sunday Times bestseller 'Exquisite' - Fearne Cotton, Happy Place 'A
paean to the longer-term pleasures of staying booze-free' - The
Guardian 'The kind of book that changes lives, and very possibly
saves them' - The Lancet Psychiatry 'A reflective, raw and riveting
read. A beautiful book on what it takes to root for yourself' -
Emma Gannon, Ctrl Alt Delete 'No other author writes about sober
living with as much warmth or emotional range as Catherine Gray.
Her deep insight into the subtle psychologies of drinking, and of
life, means that everything she writes is both utterly relatable
and stretches our minds. Hers is a rare wisdom.' - Dr Richard
Piper, CEO, Alcohol Change UK What's it like to give up drinking
forever? We know now that being teetotal for one, three, even
twelve months brings surprising joys and a recharged body... but
nothing has been written about going years deep into being
alcohol-free. As Catherine Gray, author of runaway bestseller The
Unexpected Joy of Being Sober, streaks towards a decade sober, she
explores this uncharted territory in her trademark funny,
disruptive and warm way. This is a must-read for anyone
sober-curious, whether they've put down the bottle yet or not.
Praise for The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: 'Fascinating' -
Bryony Gordon 'Truthful, modern and real' - Stylist 'Brave, witty
and brilliantly written' - Marie Claire 'Gray's tale of going sober
is uplifting and inspiring' - Evening Standard 'Not remotely
preachy' - Sunday Times 'Jaunty, shrewd and convincing' - Sunday
Telegraph 'Admirably honest, light, bubbly and remarkably rarely
annoying' - Guardian 'An empathetic, warm and hilarious tale from a
hugely likeable human' - The Lancet Psychiatry
THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER 'Gray's tale of going sober is
uplifting and inspiring' - The Evening Standard 'An icon of the
Quit Lit movement' - Conde Nast Traveller 'Fascinating' - Bryony
Gordon 'Not remotely preachy' - The Times 'Jaunty, shrewd and
convincing' - Sunday Telegraph 'Admirably honest, light, bubbly and
remarkably rarely annoying' - Alice O'Keeffe, Guardian 'Truthful,
modern and real' - Stylist 'Brave, witty and brilliantly written' -
Marie Claire 'The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober came to me at a
time when I much needed it... The book became my best friend, and
got me through, and took me on a journey.' - Sadie Frost
'Particularly lovely, because it's not a deep and dark dive into
someone's terrible addiction. It's a celebration of everything that
she has gained from not drinking' - Laura Donnelly Ever sworn off
alcohol for a month and found yourself drinking by the 7th? Think
there's 'no point' in just one drink? Welcome! There are millions
of us. 64% of Brits want to drink less. Catherine Gray was stuck in
a hellish whirligig of Drink, Make horrible decisions, Hangover,
Repeat. She had her fair share of 'drunk tank' jail cells and
topless-in-a-hot-tub misadventures. But this book goes beyond the
binges and blackouts to deep-dive into uncharted territory: What
happens after you quit drinking? This gripping, heart-breaking and
witty book takes us down the rabbit-hole of an alternative reality.
A life with zero hangovers, through sober weddings, sex,
Christmases and breakups. In The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober,
Catherine Gray shines a light on society's drink-pushing and talks
to top neuroscientists and psychologists about why we drink,
delving into the science behind what it does to our brains and
bodies. Much more than a tale from the netherworld of addicted
drinking, this book is about the escape, and why a sober life can
be more intoxicating than you ever imagined. Whether you're a
hopelessly devoted drinker, merely sober-curious, or you've already
ditched the drink, you will love this book. 'Haunting, admirable
and enlightening' - The Pool 'A riveting, raw, yet humorous memoir
with actionable advice. A truly unique blend of storytelling and
science that holds a universe of hope.' - Annie Grace, author of
This Naked Mind 'Like listening to your best friend teach you to be
sober. Lighthearted but serious, it's packed with ideas, tools,
tips and, most importantly, reasons for living a sober life. This
book is excellent.'- Eric Zimmer, host of podcast The One You Feed
'Gray's fizzy writing succeeds in making this potentially
boring-as-hell subject both engaging and highly seductive' - The
Bookseller 'Catherine Gray is an exceptional writer. Her
exquisitely crafted thoughts on the joys of being sober are not
only deeply honest and pragmatic, but she manages to infuse tons of
humor. This is a delightful, informative, and compelling read for
all those who are sober or seeking sobriety.' - Sasha Tozzi,
Huffington Post columnist 'Catherine's writing style and voice
captivate me. She has a way of translating her story into an
experience I don't want to end. I want to drink every drop she
produces.' - Holly Whitaker, founder of Hip Sobriety School and
co-presenter of Home podcast 'This book is great. A balanced,
informative and entertaining melange of memoir, sociology and
psychology. I identified very strongly with huge sections of it.' -
Jon Stewart, guitarist of Sleeper and Leaving AA, Staying Sober
blogger > 'Sober is too often equated with "sombre" in our
culture. Gray's book turns that idea on its head. Her experience of
sobriety is joyful and life-affirming. A must-read for anyone who
has a nagging suspicion that alcohol may be taking away more than
it's giving.' - Hilda Burke, psychotherapist and couples counsellor
'Catherine Gray really captures the FUN we can have in sobriety.
This book challenges the status quo; sobriet sounds as liberating
as taking a trip to the jungle. Fun and inspirational. What an
important book for our time! A joy to read.' - Samantha Moyo,
founder of Morning Gloryville 'No other author writes about sober
living with as much warmth or emotional range as Catherine Gray.
Her deep insight into the subtle psychologies of drinking, and of
life, means that everything she writes is both utterly relatable
and stretches our minds. Hers is a rare wisdom.' - Dr Richard
Piper, CEO, Alcohol Change UK
The guided sobriety journal inspired by the Sunday Times bestseller
Ever sworn off alcohol for a month and found yourself drinking by
the 7th? Think there's 'no point' in just one drink? Welcome!
Quitting drinking, whether for a month or for life, is enormously
satisfying, but also fiendishly difficult. -There's the getting
started ('But I have that party next week!') -There's the feeling
clenched and socially anxious. -Throw in a sizeable amount of
social pressure and suspicious questions ('So, do you have a
drinking problem?' -Finally, chuck in the hundreds of pro-drinking
messages we see every day; films where a round of shots always
comes with a whoop; fridge magnets that say 'I don't trust people
who don't drink'; pub clapboards announcing 'Strong people need
strong drinks'; and memes declaring 'Beer: it's a holiday in a
glass.' Whew. It's no wonder we find it tricky to stay teetotal.
But don't worry. We're going to tackle all of the above. I'm going
to give you tools that enable you to clear all of these stumbling
blocks with the grace of a gazelle. So, let's get started, shall
we? PRAISE FOR CATHERINE GRAY'S WRITING: "An icon of the Quit Lit
movement." - Conde Nast Traveller "Fascinating." - Bryony Gordon.
"Not remotely preachy." - The Times "Jaunty, shrewd and
convincing." - The Telegraph "Admirably honest, light, bubbly and
remarkably rarely annoying." - The Guardian "Truthful, modern and
real." - Stylist "Brave, witty and brilliantly written." - Marie
Claire "Haunting, admirable and enlightening." - The Pool 'No other
author writes about sober living with as much warmth or emotional
range as Catherine Gray. Her deep insight into the subtle
psychologies of drinking, and of life, means that everything she
writes is both utterly relatable and stretches our minds. Hers is a
rare wisdom.' - Dr Richard Piper, CEO, Alcohol Change UK
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