These selections from Theodor Reik's work concern the love life
and sexual activity of men and women. Reik establishes the theme of
this work in the following way: "The sex urge hunts for lustful
pleasure; love is in search of joy and happiness." Over a third of
this volume had never been published in book form before it
originally appeared half a century ago. Its appearance in
paperback, for the first time, is a welcome addition to current
debates, liberated from ideological and political constraints.
The first part of the book is so far ahead of its time that it
is still current. It reveals Reik's departure from Freud's theories
and from those of most of his contemporaries in psychology and
psychoanalysis. Part Two is a greatly abbreviated version of
Masochism in Modern Man, retaining those parts with a direct
bearing on the subject of this volume. Part Three offers two essays
on why people remain single. In the author's usual direct style,
they deal with the marriage shyness of the male and the
psychological fears and resistance of both men and women to
acceptance of the marriage bond. Part Four is Reik at his wisest.
"The first lady whom I asked to read the manuscript said smilingly:
'Many of your impressions about us (women) are correct. No man
should read the book ' A few seconds later, she said: 'Or rather,
every man should read the book '"
As Paul Roazen noted, "in contrast to some of Freud's other
followers, Reik was prescient early on in distinguishing self-love
from narcissism. Reik believed that genuine self-regard was the
ultimate basis for developing the capacity to love."
At times Reik seems to defend women, at times to critique them.
Yet he writes with sympathy and understanding. He challenges other
authorities who have written on the subject, but he also agrees
with many of them. Love and Lust is civilized writing at its most
provocative. Reik is authoritative, and his book reflects the glow
of a rich personality. It is mellow, but uncompromising.
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