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How can we love with excellence the millions of orphaned and
vulnerable children in our world who have lost their parents, have
no relatives to love them well, and likely will not be adopted?
In Pursuit of Orphan Excellence frames a conversation around
this question through a collaborative effort involving fifteen
authors from orphan care organizations around the world, bringing
to the table an often-neglected component of orphan care. After
discussing why everyone in the world, Christian and non-Christian
alike, should care to the core about caring for orphans, In Pursuit
examines a framework-from family to spiritual formation (and a
whole lot in between)-of what excellent, best-practice orphan care
looks like in situations where kinship care, legal adoption,
quality foster care, or reunification with biological family is not
possible, feasible, or likely to occur.
As you read this book, you will be invited to learn from others
seeking best-practice orphan care, engage in the conversation, and
advocate for orphans around the world . . . and in your own
backyard.
"But then, even then, are the twists and turns of the path we
chose prevalent because from one single act of love a life is
conceived and a new journey begins."
Love will always find a way in Frederick E. Hoff's touching new
book, "Guiding Crosses."
Based on the shocking true story, Hoff details the saga behind a
teenage girl's heartbreaking decision to give up her son for
adoption, only to unexpectedly reconnect with him decades
later.
Darlene's unplanned pregnancy at the age of seventeen is
devastating to her entire family. But her strict father makes it
clear that the only option for her unborn child will be
adoption.
The years pass, and a young man named Chad prepares to marry the
girl of his dreams. Despite a childhood offering him every
advantage, Chad's knowledge that he was adopted has haunted him all
the way to adulthood.
As the wedding nears, a new twist, a tiny clue, causes Chad to
embark on the emotional journey to find the biological mother he
has always yearned to know.
Are you wanting to adopt domestically, but you are overwhelmed
about the process? My husband and I supply information on what we
learned after adopting twice in the U.S, good and bad, and offer
advice that was given to us by adoption professionals. We share
what expenses we incurred, and "talk" to you as if you are sitting
in front of us. Questions answered: 1. Why join a support group? 2.
What should be in your adoption profile? 3. Reasons why family
members and friends are unsupportive, and some advice to handle
this. 4. What types of information that your social worker is
looking for to complete your homestudy, and questions he of she
will most likely ask you 5. Meeting the expectant family for the
first time and hospital visits 6. Expenses we encountered,
information about taxes and so on. 7. Information about open
adoption, and how we contact with our children's biological
families. 8. Twenty questions to ask an agency and/or attorney
before you work with he or she on an adoption placement. 9. Many
tips throughout the book on what we learned good and bad with our
adoptions and others we know that have adopted, or are adopted. 10.
A few of my favorite web links to help you with your journey to
adopt or learn more about the process.
A heartfelt true story of a birth mother's emotional journey
surrounding the choice of adoption for her two children. It is an
in depth account of the ongoing struggle involved in keeping the
secret, and the impacts those choices had on family members and
future relationships. It is a story of truth and acceptance coming
full circle. A must read for anyone involved in the adoption
process including those in counseling, or any child or adult who
grapples with trying to understand why they were adopted.
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Pregnant of Heart
(Paperback)
Betty Kuperus Epperly; Illustrated by Yasmin Ladha; Renia Veldt
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R240
Discovery Miles 2 400
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When our son, Michael, joined our family, I was unprepared for the
many lessons that I would learn through him. It has been both
humbling and inspiring to experience this serendipity. God has
created us all so differently, and if we allow our eyes and hearts
to be open, we can learn important lessons from one another as we
walk together on this side of heaven. - Renia Veldt
More than just one woman's search for information about the
biological mother she believed had died in childbirth, this book
explores the mind and feelings of an adopted child. Call Me Ella is
a heartwarming and uplifting story about a young girl who
considered her adoptive parents her "real parents," yet needed to
know more. She needed to know her roots. Her heritage. With a
burning desire to have someone who "looked like her," she couldn't
wait to marry and have children of her own. She had no idea that
her twenty-four year search, which did not begin until after both
of her parents had passed away, would involve Sopranos-like tales
of organized crime, gambling, and infidelity. Kaufman grew up
thinking she killed her mother. As a child, when her adoptive mom
answered her question, "Where did I come from?" by saying her birth
mother died in childbirth, she believed in her heart she killed the
woman who gave her life. She kept asking her mom the same question,
hoping to get a different answer. Maybe she'd learn her birth
mother had been ill, that it wasn't her fault she died. When
Kaufman finally got old enough to figure out it took two people, a
man and a woman, to have a child, she asked a new question: "What
happened to my birth father? Did he die too?" That's when her mom
shot her foot through the kitchen wall screaming, "Don't ever ask
me that again." It took her years to realize why that question hit
a nerve. In New Jersey, when a baby is adopted, their original
birth certificate is sealed, making it seem as if the child did not
exist before the adoption. Kaufman never even knew her birth
mother's last name until she discovered her adoption papers a week
before her mom passed away. Unfortunately, when her mom died with
her secrets intact, she thought she'd never learn about her ethnic
background or medical history. She wasn't ready to give up. She
needed to know more. She needed to know the big secret that kept
her mom from answering her questions. With determination and the
unexpected help from a self-proclaimed "romantic" stranger, she set
out to find her roots. Call Me Ella is a memoir of love, family,
loss and perseverance. It shows how we can work to achieve our
happy endings.
In the late 1960s, at the age of nineteen and living far from home
amidst the thriving counterculture of Ottawa, Marilyn Churley got
pregnant. Like thousands of other women of the time she kept the
event a secret. Faced with few options, she gave the baby up for
adoption. Over twenty years later, as the Ontario NDP government's
minister responsible for all birth, death, and adoption records,
including those of her own child, Churley found herself in a
surprising and powerful position ? fully engaged in the long and
difficult battle to reform adoption disclosure laws and find her
son. Both a personal and political story, Shameless is a powerful
memoir about a mother's struggle with loss, love, secrets, and lies
? and an adoption system shrouded in shame.
The Bear Who Waited is a tale for children who have waited to be
adopted. It portrays many feelings that children and parents have
while awaiting the big event. The main character is a lovable,
humorous stuffed bear purchased around the holidays. He thinks he
will be a Christmas present but instead, is placed on a window
ledge. He sees the seasons change, and questions the purpose of his
existence. Eventually the Bear realizes he was purchased for a
child who waited to be adopted. This book contains a message to
parents, and a message to professionals.
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