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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Adoption & tracing birth parents
From the first paragraph we are drawn into the mind and world of a
trusting young child. Polly was adopted by a couple who already had
a child of their own. We watch as her confidence and self-esteem
are eroded by an increasingly abusive childhood. As she moves into
teenage years and adulthood, Polly does not judge her adoptive
parents but conveys her sheer desperation to prove somehow that she
is loveable. We follow Polly's search for her birth mother, whom
she eventually meets in the USA. She longs for a fairytale ending.
But real life isn't quite like that... This heartfelt book about a
relationship with two mothers is written in the present tense which
gives it an immediacy and makes for a compelling read. "I was
emotionally drained reading Polly's story. I was there with her
every step. It's cruel that anyone would treat a human being in
this way, especially a child. It's a miracle that she did survive."
Helen Robinson, former Chief Executive, Lincoln MIND This book and
its two related books, "A Mind To Be Free" and "Crossing The
Borderline" are available as a single-volume trilogy under the
title, "Letting Go," at a lower price than buying all three
individually.
When Italian citizen Roberto G. Ferrari embarked on a journey to
adopt a young Chinese boy, the twenty-five days the adoptive father
spent there offered him a rare insider's vantage of the famously
closed country during an intensely intimate time for his family. To
process the experience, the adoptive father chronicled those days
in China, exploring the country through the deeply personal lens of
his son's connection to his homeland. Ferrari also took in China
from the perspective of a Westerner attempting to make sense of
this burgeoning global power. Both reflective and informative,
Ferrari's detailed account of the adoption process takes in modern
China as it increasingly opens its doors to the Western world. In
doing so, "Away from China" offers invaluable practical guidance on
the international adoption process, as well as the author's insight
on key locales in the country from the point of view of a seasoned
traveler. From the monuments of Taiyuan to Tienanmen Square, "Away
from China" considers this fascinating, rapidly changing nation for
an adoptive father and his Chinese son.
St. Gerard Campus in St. Augustine, Florida, is a place where every
life is of extreme value. The unborn, the young mother, the parents
and staff, the adoptive families and the counselors. Since the
doors opened in the 1980's, more than 31,000 babies have been born
who might not have been. These are the stories of some of those
mothers and babies and how we can all make a difference, one person
at a time.
Born to a fourteen-year-old girl and an eighteen-year-old high
school dropout, the odds of Mark Molzen being in prison, dying
young or becoming a drug addict were far more likely than any other
outcome. So how did he beat the odds - becoming a successful,
highly regarded public relations professional for an $18 billion,
Fortune 150 Company? It's all because of the plan God had for him-a
plan that started when his understanding of adoption radically
changed. Mark Molzen's debut explores the stigma surrounding
adoption, delves into what the Bible says about this issue, and
examines the inherent power of choosing to accept that adoption is
part of God's plan for our lives. Adopted into the United Nations
of Adoption, a family consisting of two biological children as well
as four adopted children of Native American, Asian American, and
African American descent, Molzen's life circumstances changed
dramatically the day he was adopted. But his adoption isn't really
the story. This life-altering book will teach adopted children,
young and old, and their parents that to change how they feel about
adoption, they must first understand how God feels about adoption
and then choose to accept what that means for their life. And the
good news is, the power to do this is already theirs - the power to
choose to believe is available to all. Exploring identity, biblical
adoption and salvation as well as other adoption issues, Molzen's
debut should be viewed as just the beginning, a resounding blast of
personal honesty and biblical perspective designed to foment a
fundamental wave of change in how adoption is viewed. Written to
encourage adopted children and their adoptive parents, Chosen With
Purpose: A Story of Adoption and Identity is as enlightening as it
is uplifting, demonstrating how the word of God can change
everything.
What Readers are Saying "An amazing captivating story. It gives
grandparents raising kids the comfort of knowing, you are not
alone." -Bill Trammell, a single grandfather from Wisconsin,
raising his adopted grandson. "Karen is honest and vulnerable and
takes even the worst of what happened and makes something beautiful
out of it. A compelling story, from someone who's been there "
-Laura Montane Bailey, LMFT, author of Courageous Love "Karen tells
her story with integrity in a compelling style, leaving the reader
wanting more. Through her challenges, she found the way to
empowerment, giving the reader a gift." -Lynne R. Gassel, author of
Fifth Child: The Turbulent Path that Led to Raising Our Child's
Child "By sharing her moving, poignant journey of raising her three
granddaughters, Karen reveals her challenges, commitment, and
courage along with her desire to empower other grandparents."
-Donne Davis, Founder GaGa Sisterhood, a social network for
grandmas I Love You from the Edges is Karen's love story of raising
her young granddaughters for several years, letting them capture
her heart, her life, and her soul, and then having to give them
back - resulting in a painful, yet spiritual journey of love,
healing, and reunion. Along with her story, she includes
suggestions on the "how's, what's and why's" one should consider
when beginning the journey of raising someone else's child.
Included is the health and wellness assessment program Karen
designed specifically for grandparents and relatives raising
children. Using her holistic approach, this assessment focuses on
six aspects of wellness: physical, emotional, social, spiritual,
mental/intellectual, and environmental. Whether you are a
grandparent, great-something, aunt, uncle, or any relative raising
someone else's child, this book is for you.
This is a book written by a birth mother about a daughter who is
put up for adoption by her own parents without a thought for her
own feelings. A family unit of a mother, father and two sisters
wait to be re-united. It is a story spanning forty years of
difficult relationships with a less than happy ending.
The Want Ad is a true adoption story which took place during the
last years of the Great Depression. It is a story of a father's
desperation in taking care of seven children by himself, and his
determination that his child should have a better life by letting
her be adopted by another couple. This book tracks her journey from
the age of four (when she was adopted) to the finding of her nine
siblings fifty-one years later. This story is shared with the hope
this record might help others begin their journey to be reunited
with their family.
Claudia Chapman has some big questions. Questions like: were all my
friends this obnoxious before they had kids? Will the social worker
notice if I only vacuum the middle of the rooms? Does God really
hate me, or does it just feel that way? And, most importantly, will
anybody find out that sometimes, I pretend my cat is a baby?
Claudia doesn't want to have these questions. Claudia and her
husband Jay want children, but they find out fast that it isn't
going to happen the fun way. Confronted with the choices of a
medically risky pregnancy, remaining childless or adopting, they
decide to adopt internationally. After all, thinks Claudia, how
hard can it be? Ha. From England to Ethiopia and back again, this
memoir is the story of what happens next. It's a story about doing
something different from what everybody else is doing. It's a story
about getting the house really, really clean. It's a story about
paperwork, pregnancy announcements, wrestling with God, falling
down, getting up, coming to terms, and - eventually - it's a story
about becoming a mother.
A book about the reasons one would want to adopt a child either
domestically or internationally. This story is about the great joys
and experiences you will have as a parent.
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