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The southern High Sierra, including Sequoia and Kings Canyon
National Parks and the surrounding John Muir, Jennie Lakes, and
Monarch Wildernesses, is one of the most magnificent natural areas
in the world. Blessed with the largest trees on Earth (giant
sequoias), one of the deepest canyons in North America (Kings
Canyon), and the highest mountain in the continental U.S. (Mt.
Whitney), the greater Sequoia-Kings Canyon region offers
unparalleled mountain majesty. Along with such superlatives,
hundreds of miles of trails provides access to a boundless number
of high mountain lakes, wildflower-covered meadows, cascading
streams, deep forests, and craggy peaks. Mike White's Top Trails:
Sequoia and Kings Canyon National Parks guide presents the best
curated selection of trips suitable for varied skill-level to this
portion of John Muir's Range of Light.
An updated and revised edition of the controversial classic--now
more relevant than ever--argues that boys are the ones languishing
socially and academically, resulting in staggering social and
economic costs. Girls and women were once second-class citizens in
the nation's schools. Americans responded with concerted efforts to
give girls and women the attention and assistance that was long
overdue. Now, after two major waves of feminism and decades of
policy reform, women have made massive strides in education. Today
they outperform men in nearly every measure of social, academic,
and vocational well-being. Christina Hoff Sommers contends that
it's time to take a hard look at present-day realities and
recognize that boys need help. Called "provocative and
controversial...impassioned and articulate" (The Christian Science
Monitor), this edition of The War Against Boys offers a new preface
and six radically revised chapters, plus updates on the current
status of boys throughout the book. Sommers argues that the problem
of male underachievement is persistent and worsening. Among the new
topics Sommers tackles: how the war against boys is harming our
economic future, and how boy-averse trends such as the decline of
recess and zero-tolerance disciplinary policies have turned our
schools into hostile environments for boys. As our schools become
more feelings-centered, risk-averse, competition-free, and
sedentary, they move further and further from the characteristic
needs of boys. She offers realistic, achievable solutions to these
problems that include boy-friendly pedagogy, character and
vocational education, and the choice of single-sex classrooms. The
War Against Boys is an incisive, rigorous, and heartfelt argument
in favor of recognizing and confronting a new reality: boys are
languishing in education and the price of continued neglect is
economically and socially prohibitive.
Thank you, n(ex)t.After burst pipes destroy Esme's city-centre
flat, she temporarily relocates to a delightful and small cottage
in a village on the edge of town. The change is a big one, but Esme
soon settles in and, as the art gallery she co-owns with her
business partner, David, continues to thrive, life is sweet. Until
Elliot - an ex whom she hasn't seen or spoken to for years - moves
in next door, along with his perfect new girlfriend, Morgan.
Suddenly, Esme's past is right on her doorstep, or at least just
over the fence. When Elliot and Esme decide to keep their former
relationship a secret from those around them, their subterfuge sets
off a chain of events which not only forces Esme to re-evaluate her
past relationship with Elliot, but also puts her friendship with
David under the microscope and under pressure. A laugh-out-loud
romance of second chances and near misses, perfect for fans of
Mhairi McFarlane and Jenny Colgan.
Margaret Nelson investigates the lives of single, working-class
mothers in this compelling and timely book. Through personal
interviews, she uncovers the different challenges that mothers and
their children face in small town America--a place greatly changed
over the past fifty years as factory work has dried up and national
chains like Walmart have moved in.
Through a qualitative critical discourse analysis, the research in
this revealing book compares the standpoints of women and men who
contributed articles to Free Love publications originating from
utopian communities between the years 1850 and 1900. The purpose of
the research presented in this intriguing volume is to examine the
situated knowledge of women and men who participated in the Free
Love movement and contributed to its exposure by writing and
publishing their ideas, arguments and concerns. By analyzing the
words of participation author Schroer describes the concept of Free
Love in its historical context and exposes the sex and gender power
differentials within the movement and external to it. Schroer's
research reveals that the Free Love movement was a complex form of
political resistance against institutionalized gender inequality.
Andrew Christensen, co-developer (along with the late Neil
Jacobson) of Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy and Brian Doss
provide an essential manual for their evidence-based practice. The
authors offer guidance on formulation, assessment and feedback of
couples' distress from an IBCT perspective. They also detail
techniques to achieve acceptance and deliberate change. In this
updated edition of the work, readers learn about innovations to the
IBCT approach in the 20+ years since the publication of the
original edition-including refinements of core therapeutic
techniques. Additionally, this edition provides new guidance on
working with diverse couples, complex clinical issues and
integrating technology into a course of treatment.
After taking a few weeks off work, Casey is presented with a new
foster child: 14-year-old Elise, whose Mum left her at just five
years old. At first, she's no trouble at all, that is until she
falsely accuses another carer, Jan, of acting inappropriately
towards her. It turns out this isn't the first lie Elise has told -
her previous carer was constantly following up allegations Elise
had made of people bullying her, trying to have sex with her, or
hurting her physically. With some reservations, Casey agrees to
take Elise on long-term, but when she makes some dark claims about
her mum, Casey doesn't know whether to believe her. In any case,
she is determined to find out the truth...
In this New York Times bestseller, Hollywood power couple DeVon
Franklin and Meagan Good candidly share their courtship and
marriage, and the key to their success-waiting. President/CEO of
Franklin Entertainment and former Sony Pictures executive DeVon
Franklin and award-winning actress Meagan Good have learned
firsthand that some people must wait patiently for "the one" to
come into their lives. They spent years crossing paths but it
wasn't until they were thrown together while working on the film
Jumping the Broom that their storybook romance began. DeVon and
Meagan chose to do something almost unheard of in today's
society-abstain from sex until they were married. The Wait is
filled with candid his-and-hers accounts and practical advice on
how waiting for everything-from dating to sex-can transform
relationships.
'Deserves to be an instant classic. I haven't loved a book this
much in a long time . . . What Strange Paradise . . . reads as a
parable for our times . . . Such beautiful writing . . . This is an
extraordinary book.' - New York Times From the widely acclaimed
author of American War, Omar El Akkad, a beautifully written,
unrelentingly dramatic and profoundly moving novel that brings the
global refugee crisis down to the level of a child's eyes. More
bodies have washed up on the shores of a small island. Another
over-filled, ill-equipped, dilapidated ship has sunk under the
weight of its too-many passengers: Syrians, Ethiopians, Egyptians,
Lebanese, Palestinians, all of them desperate to escape untenable
lives in their homelands. And only one had made the passage:
nine-year-old Amir, a Syrian boy who has the good fortune to fall
into the hands not of the officials, but of Vanna: a teenage girl,
native to the island, who lives inside her own sense of
homelessness in a place and among people she has come to disdain.
And though Vanna and Amir are complete strangers and don't speak a
common language, Vanna determines to do whatever it takes to save
him. In alternating chapters, we learn the story of Amir's life and
of how he came to be on the boat; and we follow the duo as they
make their way towards a vision of safety. But as the novel
unfurls, we begin to understand that this is not merely the story
of two children finding their way through a hostile world. Omar El
Akkad's What Strange Paradise is the story of our collective moment
in this time: of empathy and indifference, of hope and despair -
and of the way each of those things can blind us to reality, or
guide us to a better one.
A stunning, gothic debut from a brilliant new literary voice,
perfect for fans of Daisy Johnson, Max Porter and Fiona Mozley You
don't pass through the North Shore on the way to anywhere else: it
is the end of the road. The village was like many along that wild
coast; inhabited by those who had always lived there, and always
would. The residents know nature's tempestuous ways. They batten
down the hatches when the storms rip through, and they clear the
debris together in the aftermath. But the morning after one
particularly ferocious storm, something is washed up on the beach
that has never appeared before. Something that opens the question
of what nature, and the North Shore, are truly capable of. The
North Shore is both a powerful story of transformation and a
coming-of-age tale. It speaks of the mysteries that lie between the
land and the water and the ways in which we use myths and folklore
to understand the strangeness of the world.
A clinical psychologist's exploration of the modern dilemmas women
face in the wake of new motherhood When Molly Millwood became a
mother, she was fully prepared for what she would gain: an adorable
baby boy; hard-won mothering skills; and a messy, chaotic,
beautiful life. But what she did not expect was what she would
lose: aspects of her identity, a baseline level of happiness, a
general sense of wellbeing. And though she had the benefit of a
supportive husband during this transition, she also at times
resented the fact that the disruption to his life seemed to pale in
comparison to hers. As a clinical psychologist, Molly knew her
experience was a normal response to a life-changing event. But
without the advantage of such a perspective, many of the patients
she treated in her private practice grappled with self-doubt,
guilt, and fear, and suffered the dual pain of not only the
struggle to adjust but also the overwhelming shame for struggling
at all. In To Have and to Hold, Molly explores the complex terrain
of new motherhood, illuminating the ways it affects women
psychologically, emotionally, physically, and professionally-as
well as how it impacts their partnership. Along with the arrival of
a bundle of joy come thorny issues such as self-worth, control,
autonomy, and dependency. And for most new mothers, these issues
are experienced within the context of an intimate relationship,
adding another layer of tension, conflict, and confusion to an
already challenging time. As Molly examines the inextricable link
between women's well-being as new mothers and the well-being of
their relationships, she offers guidance to help readers reclaim
their identities, overcome their guilt and shame, and repair their
relationships. A blend of personal narrative, scientific research,
and stories from Molly's clinical practice, To Have and to Hold
provides a much-needed lifeline to new mothers everywhere.
Originally published in 1891, this hilarious (and informative)
collection is a treasure trove of essential advice any man or
woman, or couple, would be foolish to ignore. From advice about how
to find the perfect partner... * Don't marry a villain. * Don't
marry a duke, or anyone who travels on his title. * If money is
your object, the older and uglier he is, the better. * Avoid
slovenly dressed girls or heedless men. ...to advice about how to
wed... * Don't propose on a wash-day, in the rain, at breakfast or
in a tunnel. * Marry at home or at church, in good form, without
display. ...as well as general words of wisdom... * Don't expect
too much from your marriage. * Don't cross your husband.
...Hildreth's Advice for Marriage is a delightful collection that
is as relevant today as it was 100 years ago.
Planning your wedding is all about the details, and this book will
help make one detail much easier, understandable, and fun - the
wedding cake. Through 346 images, a delicious variety of cakes will
whet your appetite and spark your creativity, as well as help you
decide on the type, style, and design for your big day. Do you
prefer the splendor of an all-white cake or one with modern
simplicity? White buttercream roses and lilies or fondant flowers
and leaves? Maybe you'd like icing lace to match your wedding
dress? The choices are made much easier by using this wedding cake
guide. Details of the beautiful cake designs accompany the images
while the text explores the history and traditions involved with
wedding cakes. With a glossary of cake decoration terms and tips on
choosing a cake designer, this is a great resource for any bride
(and groom)-to-be, wedding planner, and bakery owner.
In a world full of many influences, The Parenting Project shows you
how, through the practice of daily conversation, to maintain
influence in your child's life. Are you losing the influence game
with your children? If you want to direct your child's growth, then
they need to get to know you. In The Parenting Project, parenting
experts Dr. Amy Alamar and Dr. Kristine Schlichting show you how to
talk with your children on a regular basis to gain their trust. In
a time when kids have many things vying for their attention, you
want to become the go-to person, the one they turn to the most for
advice and comfort. Sometimes it's difficult to speak with your
children about serious subjects. That's why The Parenting Project
teaches you how to make a habit of it, providing you with prompts
to help start potentially difficult conversations across a broad
range of subjects that apply to everyday life. The authors have
divided these conversations into five categories to inform your
approach-Heart-based, Uncomfortable, Dangerous, Character, and
Brave-because each type requires different strategies and
"conversation starters." The book includes story after story of how
parents have built extraordinary relationships with kids through
the act of talking with one another, day by day. With some help
from Dr. Alamar and Dr. Schlichting, it will be become easier to
open up conversations with (rather than at) your children so that
when the big questions arise, your child will turn to you first.
A lavishly illustrated, hardworking wedding organizer, a personal
journal, and a source of ideas and information to inspire, this
three-ring binder is filled with tips for the bride. It includes
fill-in space and prompts to help keep the busy bride organized,
divided into seven sections: Ideas and Resources, To-Do Lists, A
13- Month Calendar, Vendors and Location, Bride and Wedding Party,
Guests and Gifts, and Keepsakes and Photos. It has a place for
everything the bride needs to know and everything she needs to do.
There are pockets, business card holders, photo sleeves, DVD
holders, and space to add pages to the binder. Both an organizer
and a source for the bride s dreams, inspiration, and her own
creative planning display, A Bride s Planner is packed with facts,
trivia, and advice on music, vows, cake, flowers, honeymoon
destinations, showers, classic traditions, menu suggestions, floral
arrangements, and reception themes. It also offers suggestions from
an expert and valuable tips and advice on wedding customs and
traditions, locations, and timing all to help the bride realize her
own individual style in the look and theme of her wedding
"Full of juicy, concrete advice to heal from an affair." -Esther
Perel, MA, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of Mating in
Captivity and The State of Affairs From a clinical psychologist who
served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at
Yale University, received the CPA's award for Distinguished
Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples
and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated,
award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those
who seek to survive their partner's infidelity and to rebuild the
relationship after an affair. There is nothing quite like the
devastation caused when a partner has been unfaithful. Hurt
partners often experience a profound shattering of their familiar
and valued sense of self and fall into a depression that can last
for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow.
This new third edition of After the Affair, with more than 600,000
copies sold, helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through
three stages of healing: normalizing the crisis, deciding whether
to recommit to their partner, and rekindling trust and sexual
intimacy. It includes a new section in which patients ask questions
not addressed in previous editions, and the author provides
concrete strategies for earning trust and forgiveness.
To love and be loved is arguably one of the most powerful and
fundamental driving forces sustaining self-esteem and self-identity
throughout the life course. Need for reciprocal loving does not
change as we grow older, despite failures of health, loss of a
partner, late divorce, and alterations of personality due to the
aging process. However, most studies of human sexuality have
ignored the problems and developing patterns of older adults
entering into new partnerships. To fill this gap, "Intimacy in
Later Life" brings together a wide range of distinguished
international scholars to address this neglected research area.
This volume explores how older people today think and behave in
relation to partner change. Contributors consider the choices and
constraints that influence decisions about new romantic
relationships after divorce or the death of a spouse, along with
how these differ with respect to age, gender, and culture. The
authors discuss the considerable social variety to be found between
"permissive" and morally conservative societies and cultural
milieux, as well as how standards of sexual behavior have changed
over time. Contributions include: Kate Davidson and Graham Fennell,
"New Intimate Relationships in Later Life," Sofie Ghazanfareeon
Karlsson and Klas Borell, "Intimacy and Autonomy, Gender and
Ageing: Living Apart Together," Deborah Carr and Rebecca Utz,
"Late-Life Widowhood in the United States: New Directions in
Research and Theory," Nan Stevens, "Re-Engaging: New Partnerships
in Late-Life Widowhood," Kate Davidson, "Gender Differences in New
Partnership Choices and Constraints for Older Widows and Widowers,"
Jenny De Jong Gierveld, "The Dilemma of Repartnering:
Considerations of Older Men and Women Entering New Intimate
Relationships in Later Life," Deborah K. Van Den Hoonaard,
"Attitudes of Older Widows and Widowers in New Brunswick, Canada
Towards New Partnerships," Aldine J. Moore and Dorothy C. Stratton,
"The 'Current Woman' in an Older Widower's Life," and Kalyani K.
Mehta, "Perceptions of Remarriage by Widowed People in Singapore."
Part memoir, part guide, Burning My Roti is essential reading for a
new generation of South Asian women. With chapters covering sexual
and cultural identity, body hair, colourism and mental health, and
a particular focus on the suffocating beauty standards South Asian
women are expected to adhere to, Sharan Dhaliwal speaks openly
about her journey towards loving herself, offering advice, support
and comfort to people that are encountering the same issues. This
provocative book celebrates the strides South Asian women have
made, whilst also providing powerful advice through personal
stories by Sharan and other South Asian women from all over the
world.
Photographs and short verses describe how it feels to be angry."
Parents going through separation or divorce are understandably
worried about how the change in the family will affect their
children. This guide walks parents through all the factors they
should consider and offers step-by-step guidance on how to work
together to put their children first. From sharing the news with
children in an age-appropriate way to handling the issue of
custody, from concerns about affairs or abuse to embarking on
remarriage and blending families, Co-Parenting Through Separation
and Divorce offers a roadmap through one of life's most difficult
challenges with the goal of healthy, happy kids informing every
decision along the way.
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