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Love or power ? these are the opposing poles of a choice every
child is compelled to make, very early in its life, in a drama that
sets it irrevocably on its path through life. This startling new
insight into a formative experience fundamental to our development
is the subject of THE BETRAYAL OF THE SELF, Dr. Arno Gruen's
passionately argued contribution to the psychoanalytic view of the
human soul, and what distorts it into pathology. What happens to an
infant when it learns that the love it craves from its parents is
available only at the price of submission to their will? In paying
this price, as Dr. Gruen found in many years of experience with his
patients, the infant renounces its true, autonomous self and
instead embarks on a search for power with which to manipulate the
world around it-a quest that will henceforth rule its life. Dr.
Gruen maps out the process by which this striving for power, once
the fatal choice has been made, masks the child's inner emptiness,
dulls its fears, and soothes its secret feelings of self-loathing.
Its need for power soon bars all access to its real emotions, and
corrupts all of its relationships into ones based on mastery and
domination. The power-oriented world around it, which puts a
premium on stoic "strength" and "invulnerability," further confirms
the child in this pursuit of power, leading it on to a path of
dehumanization which pervades our entire society. Thus human
destructiveness and evil are not innate, but develop in a complex
process of growth marked by the failure to attain autonomy. In
contrast, Dr. Gruen defines autonomy as that state of integration
in which we live in full harmony with our feelings and needs. It is
anatural state of being experienced in early childhood when the
infant is loved unconditionally and without the need to earn this
love by the self-sacrifice of submission. It allows the child to
remain vulnerable to feelings of self-doubt, helplessness, pain,
and rage ? the very emotions the infant fearfully flees in its
decision to betray its own self. The fear of these emotions, Dr.
Gruen shows, alienates the male in particular, destroying his soul,
depriving him of his ability to love, and imposing on him the need
to oppress others, women especially. How can therapy help the
patient to find the way back to health and his autonomous self? Dr.
Gruen discovered the clue to the therapeutic process in the active
role the patient originally played in his choice between love and
power, when he took refuge in power in his flight from pain. The
therapist's task in helping the patient is to teach him how to
accept the vulnerability he once feared in order to recover his
lost autonomy. By defining man's vulnerability as his strength, Dr.
Gruen points the way to a psychoanalysis of personal courage and
social responsibility. At the same time, by exposing the childhood
split which leads man to abandon his true self, Gruen has written a
powerful indictment of our modern culture which mirrors the
individual's self-alienation in growing social violence and loss of
humanity. DR. ARNO GRUEN, who was born in Germany, emigrated to the
U.S. as a child in 1936. He received his psychoanalytic training at
New York University, and held many teaching posts in the United
States, including seventeen years as professor of psychology at
Rutgers University. Since 1979 he has lived and practiced
inSwitzerland. He is the author of many books and papers in both
German and English. His other major work available in English is
his 1992 book, THE INSANITY OF NORMALITY: TOWARD UNDERSTANDING
HUMAN DESTRUCTIVENESS (republished in 2007 by Human Development
Books).
THE INSANITY OF NORMALITY: TOWARD UNDERSTANDING HUMAN
DESTRUCTIVENESS by ARNO GRUEN According to Sigmund Freud, man is
born with an innate tendency to destruction and violence; in THE
INSANITY OF NORMALITY, the psychoanalyst Arno Gruen challenges that
assumption, arguing instead that at the root of evil lies
self-hatred, a rage originating in a self-betrayal that begins in
childhood, when autonomy is surrendered in exchange for the "love"
of those who wield power over us. To share in that subjugating
power, we create a false self, an image of ourselves that springs
from a powerful and deep-seated sense of fear. Gruen traces this
pattern of adaptation and smoldering rebellion through a number of
case studies, sociological phenomena - from Nazism to Reaganomics -
and literary works. The insanity this attitude produces,
unfortunately, goes widely unrecognized precisely because it has
become the "realism" that modern society inculcates into its
members. Gruen warns, however, that escape from this pattern lies
not simply in rebellion, for the rebel remains emotionally tied to
the object of his rebellion, but in the development of a personal
autonomy. His elegant and far-reaching conclusion is that while
autonomy is not easily attained, its absence proves catastrophic to
both individual and society. "With compassion and conviction Dr.
Gruen carefully exposes the undiagnosed and undisclosed insanity
unwittingly accepted as normality... This is a text for leaders and
followers, for conformists and rebels alike, for members of the
healing professions who seek to repair the destructive fallout from
our pursuit of normality and for all who strive for a more
compassionate and saner social order."-Montague Ullman, M.D. DR.
ARNO GRUEN was born in Germany and emigrated to the United States
as a child in 1936. After completing his graduate studies in
psychology at New York University, he trained in psychoanalysis
under Theodor Reik. Dr. Gruen has held many teaching posts in this
country, including seventeen years as professor of psychology at
Rutgers University. Since 1979 he has lived and practiced in
Switzerland. His groundbreaking first book, THE BETRAYAL OF THE
SELF, was published by in 1988. THE INSANITY OF NORMALITY was first
published in Germany by Ksel Verlag under the title Der Wahnsinn
der Normalitt-Realismus als Krankheit: eine grundlegende Theorie
zur menschlichen Destruktivitt. The book was first published in
English in 1992.
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