All too many women, anxious to please and having learned the womanly art of compromise, find themselves 'settling' for a man who seems on some level like 'Prince Charming' but who never connects to their deepest selves. These men may appear to be the 'perfect' partner: handsome, making good money, appealing to others, and never missing a Valentine's Day dinner. But, in reality, they never 'hear' what their partner says, and they often break the hearts of the women who have rearranged their lives, or given up their own dreams, to 'make it work' or to 'help him change'.Christine Arylo, in her groundbreaking book "Choosing ME Before We", invites women on an inner adventure to discover their true selves and to fall madly in love with that person before looking for someone else to 'complete' them or fill up the holes in their lives. Readers will discover that the most important love affair in their lives is the one they have with their own truest selves, and that no other love will last until they honour themselves. Christine teaches women to stop settling, to stop chasing fairy tales, and to start exploring and understanding what they truly want in themselves and in a partner. Women will discover the possibilities, tools, and realities needed to create the lives and partnerships that can support them and help them thrive.

Bestselling authors Christine Arylo and Amy Ahlers show women how to take their self-bullying Inner Mean Girls to reform school with their internationally recognized seven-step program. There is a silent epidemic spreading like wildfire among women-and no one seems to be talking about it. It's in our boardrooms, classrooms, and living rooms on every continent, and it's creating depression, stress, and isolation. Who is this culprit? Meet your Inner Mean Girl, the judgmental, critical, and belittling inner bully that almost every woman hears running through her mind on a daily basis. The Inner Mean Girl creates undue anxiety, cajoles you into making bad choices, and then berates you when they don't work out. But there is a cure. Reform Your Inner Mean Girl introduces the universal seven-step program that helps women transform their relationships with themselves from self-sabotage to self-love. With a mix of play, humor, creativity, and self-inquiry, Reform Your Inner Mean Girl transforms a woman's self-bullying thoughts, emotions, actions, and feelings, and helps her get in touch with a much more powerful voice-her Inner Wisdom. After graduating, women can finally make choices that create more happiness, peace, love, and success.