This is a delightful Valentines gift to warm your relationship. This " how to" book teaches ways to explore fantasy play with your lover. It is hard to talk about fantasy even with person you are closest too. This book has short scenarios (nothing too risque) and boxes you can check off that say "Not in this life time," "Maybe ask me later," "Sure let's try it" You never have to say a thing, simply find a fantasy that excites you, check off the box. Hand the book to your lover and let them see how reserved or totally wicked you would like to be. It is reusable over and over there is room for comments and a hotness meter. This is a great gift for anniversaries, bachelor or bachelorette parties. Everybody likes getting this book. It is definitely a fun way to plan a date night.