Dr. Cole writes to share about what it's like to grow-up with an abusive father and no one else knows about it. Connect and understand her journey as she shares, learns, connects with others, and finally accepts and grow to an independent adult. It's a world that finally knows what's it like to finally understand that God has a purpose and loves all of his children. Learning to love oneself, family, friends, with the guidance of God's love, faith, trust, and confidence is a major accomplishment for Dr. Cole. She feels and knows there are many like herself, now, past and future that she needs to share her personal experience to help others to cry out with faith, love, confidence, and trust in God that she will overcome the inequities of abuse to a Christian life.