Sex Is Not a Four-Letter Word but Relationship Often Is is a sharp and refreshing departure from conventional books about sex and relationship that are based on psychological theories and principles. "If those things really worked," writes Gary Douglas, "wouldn't you have been free, expansive and joyful in your relationship a long time ago?" Funny, frank, and delightfully irreverent, Sex Is Not a Four-Letter Word but Relationship Often Is offers readers an entirely fresh view of how to create great intimacy and exceptional sex, and provides answers to questions you may never have thought to ask. How can you use energy to attract the person you're interested in? How can you claim and own the totality of your sexualness? How do know where your partner wants to be touched? How can you create sex unlike anything you've experienced before? What's so important about being able to receive? What's wrong with deciding you've chosen the "perfect" partner? What are the elements that create a free, expansive and joyful relationship? How do you create the relationship you truly desire? Sex Is Not a Four-Letter Word but Relationship Often Is is based on Gary's highly popular Access Seminar, How to Have More Sex and Better Relationships with Clarity and Ease.