With more than 100,000 copies sold, this new edition of the revolutionary guide to how attachment in childhood shapes our approach to marriage now features an updated cover, additional diagrams, and expanded content. Based on the authors' combined decades of marriage and family counseling, How We Love helps readers identify core relational patterns and create a clear, personalized plan for relationship growth. Readers will find immediate solutions to marriage problems and helpful, accessible principles for building a stronger, more passionate relationship.

One "Small Change" in How You Love
One "Big Change" in your Kids
Having problems with your kids? What if "you" are the problem and you just can't see it? "How We Love Our Kids" offers a unique approach, to help you as a parent transform your kids by making specific changes in how you love. It's the "only" book specifically for parents that reveals the unseen forces that shape every interaction with your kids.
Identify which of the five love styles you have.Discover the surprising dynamics that shape your parenting.Get rid of your "buttons" so your kids can't push them.Create a close connection with your kids that will last a lifetime.Learn the seven gifts every child needs. Based on years of research in the area of attachment and bonding, "How We Love Our Kids" shows parents how to overcome the predictable challenges that arise out of the five love styles and helps parents cultivate a secure, deep connection with a child of any age. Retool your reactions and refocus on how you love. Start today. Watch your kids flourish and thrive as they receive what was missing in your love.
"With four self-assessments and powerful application tools to use with children of all ages."