This book re-examines what love actually is, versus how love is commonly presented. Jay Vincent and Marcy Lynn have lived what they are presenting for 21 years. Instead of accepting the fear based triggers of standard relationships, you will see in this book how to eliminate your worry, and replacing it with winning. Marriages are failing at fifty percent for first marriages, and up to eighty percent for second marriages. The system is not only broken, it is demanding more than one option. This book covers jealousy, cheating, how to cheat-proof your relationship, how to communicate through to full honesty in your relationship, suggestions on how to bring up the subject of non-monogamy with your partner, and many other high-level tools that are powerful tools you can use to change your life. Jay tells about extramarital affairs that he had, which caused him to hold onto guilt, shame, and fear about being discovered for years. You will then see the way this was brought out in conversation, and how it was very easily transitioned into full honesty in their relationship. Overall, this book is a game changer