How can you stay in love with your spouse? Practice forgiveness. It's that simple. But it's also really difficult. Saying "I'm sorry" and meaning it may be one of the biggest challenges you've ever faced. But your marriage may depend on it. Bill and Pam Farrel write from many years of experience as counselors to engaged and married couples. Over and over again, they've seen that healthy and happy couples have learned the power of forgiveness. They've been able to understand and accept God's dramatic sacrifice of forgiveness in Jesus' death on the cross. And they've been able to offer that same kind of forgiveness to each other. In Love, Honor & Forgive the Farrels speak honestly about forgiveness in marriage, offering plenty of stories for thought and suggestions for action. You'll discover what forgiveness is and isn't how to find motivation to forgive when you're hurt or angry conversational techniques to help you ask for forgiveness tips for keeping the "little things" from turning into big ones steps to rebuilding trust with your spouse how to restore passion in your relationship after it's been damaged or broken the heavy toll bitterness takes--on you and your marriage how to forgive even when your spouse doesn't want forgiveness The Farrels offer honest, practical and motivating counsel to help you restore or grow the love in your marriage. Asking and offering forgiveness is at the center. Itis possible. And here's how.

Do you dream of making a difference for God--but wonder how to begin? Do you find it difficult to keep your focus amid the urgency of everyday living? Do you feel ill-equipped to help those who turn to you for guidance? Are you searching for direction for your life--a ministry that matters? Pam Farrel has been there, as have so many countless other women she has discipled. In this book she shares what she has learned about disciplemaking, discovering a personal ministry, and staying focused on your goals. By the time you work your way to the end, you'll have discovered why a woman of influence: is impassioned is an individual is intimate with God is idealistic is interdependent takes initiative has integrity is intense is inquiring is infectious Though many still debate the proper role for women in leadership, no one denies that women have a great influence on their families and friends, on the job and in the church. In Woman of Influence Farrel shows how you can be a faithful servant of God in all of those relationships and circumstances. Here's a book that women everywhere will welcome--full of encouraging counsel for finding God's leading in your life and then following him. This revised edition--containing even more stories of women, updated examples and a Bible study--can give you fresh perspective and direction in your life as you discover all the ways God wants to use you to influence others for him.

Sometimes, choosing to love your husband is hard. Whether you've been married one year or 31 years, chances are he's done things that have frustrated you, angered you, hurt you, or flabbergasted you. But after arguing over how to load the dishwasher yet again, you might be wondering how you can show him that you really do love him. In as little as 15 minutes a day, you can do something meaningful for your husband and grow in your faith. From washing his car to writing a positive post about him on social media to watching his favorite movie with him, these pages are full of creative, simple, and interactive ideas on how to bless your husband. You'll discover daily Scripture verses, inspirational readings, and journaling prompts to encourage you as well!

No matter how you became a single mom, you share the same challenges and fears all single moms have. You may feel stretched to the limit. You may suspect your children need more than you're able to give. How are you going to do this on your own? With humor, Scripture, and sage advice, Pam Farrel (child of a single mother) and PeggySue Wells (single parent of 7 children) show you how to

• be decisive
• create a nurturing home
• be proactive
• date wisely
• pray for your child
• embrace your happily-ever-after
• and more

This easy-to-use study guide based on Bill and Pam Farrel's bestselling book "Men Are like Waffles--Women Are like Spaghetti" will take readers to a new level in their appreciation of the differences and special delights of their mates. Designed to address the important issues of a happy marriage, this guide willmake planning time with each other fun and excitinghelp couples coordinate parenting so kids get the best of Mom and Dadbring out the best each spouse has to give in sex, romance, and communication

Ideal for individual or group study, small group leaders will find this guide a useful tool for leading couples in biblically based discussions, and couples who choose to go through it together will find the "Men Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti Study Guide "perfect for a create-your-own marriage retreat.

Boy meets Girl; Boy wonders what in the world Girl is talking about and how he will ever keep up. Girl wonders what is wrong with Boy. Enter, "Waffles and Spaghetti"--every teen's guide to figuring out the opposite sex and understanding and valuing our unique differences.

In a pivotal time of their development and social lives, teens are left to try and understand one another without much guidance. The purpose of this book is to help better understand themselves as well those from the "alien gender."

Guys' brains are like waffles--they keep their lives compartmentalized in boxes. Girls' brains are like spaghetti--everything in their life is connected to everything else. This book for teens includes brain development, social habits, differences in emotions, and relationship building skills for teens to develop early in their life. Loaded with humor and fun examples, this is a great way for teens to learn about healthy relationships with the opposite sex.

With their trademark insight, humor, and candid personal perspectives, Bill and Pam Farrel reveal the truths about the sexual relationship in marriage and what husbands and wives need to know to keep the embers burning."Sex is like fireworks "--why a little skill turns marriage into red-hot monogamyHow sex works best emotionally, physically, and physiologicallyHow to avoid the pleasure thieves that steal your chance for fulfillment

The Farrels present difficult-to-discuss topics and biblical truths in universal language with sensitivity, fun, and understanding.

For newlyweds, golden anniversary celebrants, and all couples in between--this book inspires the gift of romance and passion to fuel lives with love.

You've got so many hats to wear in life. Peanut butter sandwich-maker, carpooler, worship committee member, daughter, best friend, wife...They're all good jobs, but what will keep you from becoming overwhelmed and exhausted?

Popular speaker and author Pam Farrel can teach you the seven simple skills that will enable you to stay motivated and energized. This new book will equip you toset priorities and stick to them influence those you care about most find time to care for yourself focus on your relationship with God face each day with hope and optimism

God created you to use all of the gifts He's given you to bring Him glory. Learn the skills that can transform your attitude and bring success in your relationships, work, and walk with God.

Why is it so hard for married couples to get in sync with each other? How is it that your mate can be a source of joy and of frustration all on the same day?

Marriages operate by a secret language--a collection of key words, actions, insights, and attitudes that determine how a couple's relationship works. If that language is uncovered, love grows and flourishes. If that language remains a mystery, love gets buried behind misunderstandings and irritations.

Bill and Pam Farrel, authors of the bestselling Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti, offer biblical and practical insight into this language that God has programmed into each married couple. Laced with the Farrels' trademark humor, The Secret Language of Successful Couples is packed with ideas to help couples connect at a richer, deeper level. As both partners grow in relationship with God and rely on the Spirit for insights into the heart of their mate, they can replace their old, selfish languages with a new one that leads to greater intimacy in every area of life.

Rerelease of The Marriage Code.

From Bill and Pam Farrel, bestselling authors of Men Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti and Red-Hot Monogamy, comes a new book especially for dating and engaged couples. Filled with their trademark wisdom, humor, and insight, The Before-You-Marry Book of Questions will help couples

• delight in their differences
• plan their financial future
• sort through family obstacles
• lay a strong foundation for a marriage that goes the distance
• give their marriage to God

With "his and hers" quizzes and ideas for dates where couples can talk openly and freely about their relationship and future, The Before-You-Marry Book of Questions is a practical and essential guide for any couple building a life together.

With the same candor and creativity that made Men Are Life Waffles?Women Are Like Spaghetti (more than 270,000 copies sold) a bestseller, author Pam Farrel gives wives 52 ways to wow their husbands and add spark to their marriages. Pam delivers humor in her fun woman-to-woman style through inspirational stories, godly advice, and easy-to-read offerings that include:

• wow assignments: simple ways to support, love, and encourage husbands
• wow wisdom: Bible verses and wisdom to help women cover their spouse with prayer
• wow dates: creative ideas for everything from shared meals to weekend getaways

Newlyweds, married with kids, or empty nesters will appreciate these ideas crafted for the busy life. A woman can try one idea a week for a year or take on a few at a time to deepen her spiritual, emotional, and physical bond with her loved one.

Bill and Pam Farrel, bestselling authors of "Men Are Like Waffles - Women Are Like Spaghetti", lead husbands and wives through the ten most influential decisions a couple can make to shape a lasting and loving marriage. Exploring romance, communication, sex, conflict resolution, family, and personalities, the Farrels walk couples through the ten decisions that will: turn me and me into "we"; strengthen the foundation of their family; redeem past bad choices and give hope for a solid future; bring balance to roller coaster emotions; and, create a life together of trust, grace, and understanding. Filled with practical advice, biblical insights, and the Farrels' trademark warmth and wit, this manual is a terrific gift for newlyweds and just as valuable to longtime marriage partners. It is a re-release of "Every Marriage Is a Fixer-Upper".

From Christian marriage experts and bestselling authors Bill and Pam Farrel comes a new book for women about romance, passion, and becoming the godly woman your husband needs. With an in-depth look at the qualities a man finds attractive in a woman, you'll learn

• how to build and maintain a Christian marriage
• romantic ideas and tips for stoking the flames of love...and keeping them burning
• what the Bible says about marriage

With wisdom, humor, and devotional questions to provoke discussion, Red-Hot Romance Tips for Women will keep your marriage sizzling

Jill Savage, founder of Hearts at Home ministries, and Pam Farrel, cofounder of Masterful Living Ministries, can shout "Yes" to the question, "Got Teens?" They offer common sense solutions, insightful research, and creative ideas to help women guide their children successfully into adulthood. Moms don't have to be perfect, just prepared with practical, biblical tools to identify and develop each child's strengths make choices over what kids can do and who with turn around destructive behavior or bad habits Tweens and teens need strong moms who know which parental role to play at the right time. Moms will discover how to serve as a defender, a shepherd, a CEO or one of the other twelve vital roles.

"What an incredibly unique and creative Bible study! It's multilayered, dimensional, theologically rich, touching the senses-enlightening the mind, capturing the heart." -Kay Arthur, cofounder of Precept Ministries International "I love the encouragement, inspiration, and delightful details woven throughout." -Darlene Schacht, Time-Warp Wife and bestselling author of Messy Beautiful Love This Isn't Your Average Bible Study Explore God's Word on a deeper level and engage with his truth in fresh ways! This study of 10 psalms of hope invites you to discover the incredible design and purpose of inspired Hebrew poetry. Perfect for group discussion or personal reflection, Discovering Hope in the Psalms offers compelling teachings, motivating devotions, and plenty of creative options for interacting with the psalms-including beautiful artwork to color. This discovery book will show you how to... rejoice in God's mercy when sin knocks you down request help with hope when troubles surround respond with thanksgiving for each answered prayer Immerse your mind, heart, and soul in the hope flowing through the psalms.

In the same tradition as "Raising a Modern-Day Knight," this book is designed to equip parents to cultivate strong relationships with their adolescents. "Raising a Modern-Day Princess" stresses the importance of creating a rite of passage for teen girls--a defining moment in which girls can be blessed by significant adults in their lives, and a call for their families and communities to celebrate and support them as they enter womanhood. This book offers practical help in raising a generation of women to see themselves as God sees them--as daughters of the King.

Every couple plants seeds of success or failure in the first five years of their marriage. If they lack basic communication skills and the ability to solve conflicts in areas like sex, finances, and emotional intimacy, they won't make it past the five-year-mark. Authors, speakers, and columnists Bill and Pam Farrel offer sound, simple-to-apply advice to help couples establish firm foundations for their relationships. Based on their own successful twenty-five-year-marriage, Bill (who is also a marriage counselor) and Pam have developed strong principles for staying the course when life challenges their relationship. Lively, fun, and practical for newlyweds anywhere in The First Five Years, this book is the best investment a couple can make in building a happy, long-lasting marriage.