"The act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue.It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again." Barbara de Angelis Marriage is about choices. Little ones. Big ones. They all matter. These 10 choices are the ones that must be made in order to enjoy a kind of fulfilling, God-glorifying marriage you were created to enjoy.

What you and I need is NOT more information - but Transformation. We need a completely new paradigm for living life and living marriage. As valuable as they are, more books, seminars and sermons will not do the trick.

Jesus said in John 15 - ..".apart from me you can do nothing." Why is it that we keep trying to find a fulfilling marriage without Him? Yes, we may have prayed a salvation prayer once upon a time - but is Jesus really the Lord of our daily, moment-by-moment life and our marriage relationship?

This book is NOT about principles for living, or rules for becoming a better husband. This book is about re-connecting you with the Author of marriage, and learning how to once-and-for-all enjoy your wife, and your marriage, as it was intended by God.

Most of us as husbands really don't have a marriage problem, - we have a Jesus problem.

What you and I need is NOT more information - but Transformation. We need a completely new paradigm for living life and living marriage. As valuable as they are, more books, seminars and sermons will not do the trick.

Jesus said in John 15 - ..".apart from me you can do nothing." Why is it that we keep trying to find a fulfilling marriage without Him? Yes, we may have prayed a salvation prayer once upon a time - but is Jesus really the Lord of our daily, moment-by-moment life and our marriage relationship?

This book is NOT about principles for living, or rules for becoming a better husband. This book is about re-connecting you with the Author of marriage, and learning how to once-and-for-all enjoy your wife, and your marriage, as it was intended by God.

Most of us as husbands really don't have a marriage problem, - we have a Jesus problem.

Introduction - being a good husband is hard. There is no on ramp, no practice game, no apprenticeship for this. You go from being completely self-centered and single, to being completely self-centered and married. The goal over the next thirty days is not to give you more information. Bookstores are full of good marriage information. Our goal is for you to become a more deliberate husband, and to listen to the voice of God every day. If you are willing, He will truly change your heart, and after thirty days (or even before) you will begin to witness real transformation in your life and in your marriage. Many of you will also find you will make greater progress if you complete this challenge with another man, or a small group of men. Men naturally resist it, but accountability is a great tool for change.

"Every husband needs to read this book" - Pastor Bill Elliff, The Summit Church, Maumelle, Arkansas "Refreshing. Inspiring. Encouraging." - Dr. Robert Lewis, Founder of Men's Fraternity What husbands need is not more information - but transformation. We need a completely new paradigm for living life and living marriage. As valuable as they are, more books, seminars and sermons will not do the trick. This book is NOT about more principles fro living, or rules for becoming a better husband. This book is about re-connecting you with the Author of marriage, and learning how to once-and-for-all enjoy your wife and your marriage, as it was intended by God.