Drawing on years of experience counseling couples and groups, Sandra Bender contends that married people need intentional, focused direction to create the marriage they want. In this companion to the Couple's Guide, Bender provides clear advice for group leaders on helping married couples improve their marriage skills. Bender advises leaders on how to prepare for each session, present the material to couples, and answer questions. She walks them through each session, providing helpful advice and giving leaders the information they need to lead a successful marriage group.

Drawing on years of experience counseling couples and groups, Sandra Bender contends that married people need intentional, focused direction to create the marriage they want. Recreating Marriage with the Same Old Spouse educates couples in the skills of being married. Beginning with a discussion of the Myers-Briggs personality framework, Bender covers topics like identity, intimacy, insecurity, and reflective listening.