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'A master synthesizer of attachment science, medical practice, and
his own experience as a father, Harold Koplewicz capably and
compassionately leads us through the art of scaffolding, from early
childhood through the important adolescent period.' - Daniel J.
Siegel, MD, author of The Whole Brain Child Prevent and counteract
the general anxiety and emotional fragility prevalent in children
and teenagers today - a new parenting philosophy and strategies
that give children the tools to flourish on their own. Just as
sturdy scaffolding is necessary when erecting a building and will
come down when the structure grows stable, good parenting provides
children with steady and warm emotional nourishment on the path
toward independence. Never-ending parental problem-solving and
involvement can have the opposite effect, enabling fragility and
anxiety over time. In The Scaffold Effect, world-renowned child
psychiatrist Harold Koplewicz introduces the powerful and
clinically tested idea that this deliberate build-up and then
gradual loosening of parental support is the single most effective
way to encourage kids to climb higher, try new things, grow from
mistakes and develop character and strength. Explaining the
building blocks of an effective scaffold from infancy through young
adulthood, he expertly guides parents through the strategies for
raising empowered, capable people, including: Lay a solid
foundation: The parent-child relationship needs to be made from the
concrete mixture of emotional availability, positive reinforcement,
clear messaging, and consistent rules. From this supportive base,
your will forge a bond that will survive adolescence and grow
stronger into adulthood. Empower growth: Skyscraper or sprawling
bungalow - the style of your child's construction is not up to you!
Scaffold parenting validates and accommodates the shape the child
is growing into. Any effort to block or control growth will
actually stunt it. Stay on their level: Imagine being on the ground
floor of a house and trying to talk to someone on the roof. The
person on the roof will have to 'talk down' to you or yell. If your
child's building and your scaffold are on the same level, you can
speak directly, look each other in the eye, and keep the lines of
communication open. Drawing on Dr Koplewicz's decades of clinical
and personal experience, The Scaffold Effect is a compassionate,
smart and essential guide for the ages. All the author's proceeds
from the sale of this book will be donated to the Child Mind
Institute.
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Jo Frost comes to the toddler rescue in this essential companion to
her No. 1 bestseller, CONFIDENT TODDLER CARE. Jo Frost Saves Our
Sanities in this essential toddler guide. The toddler years can
test the most patient and energetic of parents and in this new
toddler book, Jo Frost provides her invaluable advice on the
hot-spots of toddler care. She answers the most pressing of
problems - head on - including: tantrums, whining, potty-training,
sleeping and mealtime dilemmas. This essential guide is the perfect
complement to Jo's No. 1 bestselling book CONFIDENT TODDLER CARE
and will satisfy all of your toddler questions such as: How do I
get my toddler to eat vegetables? What do I do when my toddler has
a tantrum in public? How can I get my toddler to sleep through the
night? This is a must-have book for all parents with toddlers.
Light-hearted yet authoritative, JO FROST'S TODDLER SOS will
provide the answers to parents' most testing questions.
The transition from nursing to weaning is a rite of passage. It can
either be a time full of stress, regret and confusion, or a joyous
celebration of growth. This book is for mothers and nursing
children, to help them both communicate their deep love and respect
for one another. The author believes that it is never too early for
mums and dads to talk to their baby with tenderness and dignity,
and to explain that nursing together is a cherished and special
time. Yet, when mother no longer chooses this mutual task, or for
health or other reasons cannot continue, then it is better for
parent and child to begin the weaning. There is no other book like
this, although many adult books are devoted to the process of
weaning. Ready to Wean is a childrens picture book, designed to
empower mothers in the weaning process. The friendly text reassures
and prepares the child, in a confident way, for this new stage of
growth, and bolsters mother's confidence that she will continue to
grow with her child, beyond this particular form. Already, national
and state WIC (Women, Infants and Children) agencies are asking
about the appearance of this book, calling it a crucial addition to
the literature. Without making any general statement about how long
nursing should continue, the book cleverly and gently allows each
mum to insert her own deadline date, and encourages her to start
planning for this date with her child. The author knows that
parents and children will be sharing this bonding experience
differently, and so she suggests many lovely, nurturing
alternatives that babies and young children can relate to as the
date approaches.
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