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Four young children caught between love and hate-hostages to the
cruelty of revenge. A deceitful American father and a naive
decision by a Filipino mother transformed their lives forever.
Valorie, Veronica, Vance, and Vincent's perfect world turned into a
nightmare one hot afternoon in 1959 in Cebu, Philippines. What was
to be a quick lunch with their father turned into a flight to
America, where four dreadfully long years of running from state to
state, hiding, and vanishing into the night followed. Kidnapped
from the only world they knew, confusion quickly set in. At nine,
Valorie, the eldest, liked seeing their father after his absence
for over a year. Vance, a timid six-year-old, went along with
whatever Valorie did. Vincent, the baby at three, cried for his
mother while clinging to Veronica for comfort. Veronica, eight, was
the only one who was truly panicked by what was happening around
them-and she recognized instantly that she and her siblings would
have to stick together in order to survive. In that moment, her
childhood ended and the warrior within her emerged. Moving from
state to state and school to school, avoiding the law, looking over
their shoulders at every turn, the four Slaughter children found
themselves fighting not only the heartbreak of separation from
their loving mother but also poverty, discrimination, and abuse.
Their only weapons were their deep love for one another and an
unwavering determination to survive the trials they faced-and find
their way back to their mother.
How do you instill godly virtues in kids who live in a "me-first"
world? Encouraging you to model positive behavior for your kids,
Korie Robertson identifies nine specific traits and provides
biblical insights to help you train up your children in the way
they should go. As stars of the hit reality show "Duck Dynasty",
Korie and Willie Robertson receive thousands of letters and
messages from fans asking how they raised such good kids. According
to Korie, it wasn't easy. When Korie and Willie discussed the
character traits they most wanted to pass on to their children,
both agreed they wanted them to be strong to endure in this world
and to be kindhearted people. A straightforward approach to
parenting, Strong and Kind helps parents identify the
characteristics they want to see in their children and provides
them with the tools for putting them in place. Korie Robertson
identifies nine specific traits-strength, kindness, self-control,
honesty, loyalty, humility, compassion, patience, and joy-that were
the keys to her children's upbringing. This practical guide to
parenthood: Helps parents identify the character traits they want
to see in their children, no matter what age they are Gives parents
the tools to imprint those traits in their children's lives
Includes an 8-page color photo insert with Robertson family
pictures Includes anecdotes from Korie's husband, Duck Commander
CEO Willie Robertson Although there are no perfect parents or
perfect children, Korie shares principles-based on biblical wisdom
and time-tested practices-that will help you parent your own
one-of-a-kind child.
DO YOU WORRY THAT YOUR CHILD IS TOO SHY?
DOES YOUR CHILD SIT ON THE SIDELINES, OFTEN AVOIDING GROUP
ACTIVITIES?
DOES YOUR CHILD FEEL NERVOUS WHEN BEING CALLED ON BY THE TEACHER,
GIVING A REPORT IN CLASS, OR READING ALOUD?
DOES YOUR CHILD COMPLAIN OF "BUTTERFLIES" IN THE STOMACH,
DIZZINESS, SHAKY HANDS, OR BLUSHING?
DO YOU WISH YOU KNEW HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD BREAK OUT OF HIS OR HER
SHELL?
With the right kind of care and attention, every child has the
chance to overcome his or her shyness. "Nurturing the Shy Child"
provides parents, teachers, guidance counselors and other concerned
adults with the latest information and practical tools that they
need to help shy and socially anxious kids. This book covers the
entire shy spectrum-from shyness in only certain situations to
social anxiety disorder-and provides proven methods adults can use
to ease the child's discomfort, tailored to specific ages and
levels of anxiety.
Unlike other books on shyness, "Nurturing the Shy Child" also
offers much needed information on problems that can go along with
shyness and social anxiety, including depression, school anxiety,
separation anxiety, excessive worry, selective mutism, and more.
Written by psychologists Barbara and Gregory Markway, co-authors of
"Painfully Shy" and respected experts in the field, this book's
sensible and reassuring tone goes a long way toward preventing
needless suffering in children and offers their parents some
long-overdue hope.
How are children raised in different cultures? What is the role of
children in society? How are families and communities structured
around them? Now in its third edition, this deeply engaging book
delves into these questions by reviewing and cataloging the
findings of over 100 years of anthropological scholarship dealing
with childhood and adolescence. It is organized developmentally,
moving from infancy through to adolescence and early adulthood, and
enriched with anecdotes from ethnography and the daily media, to
paint a nuanced and credible picture of childhood in different
cultures, past and present. This new edition has been expanded and
updated with over 350 new sources, and introduces a number of new
topics, including how children learn from the environment, middle
childhood, and how culture is 'transmitted' between generations. It
remains the essential book to read to understand what it means to
be a child in our complex, ever-changing world.
"Jo's pioneering 'spaced soothing' technique is a failsafe method
that teaches babies to enjoy their sleep and empowers parents to
understand their babies better." - Made for Mums Baby Secrets will
guide you through the early weeks of your baby's life and take you
into the blissful world of nighttime peace. Help your baby to find
a calmer night time routine through a unique and proven method of
intermittent soothing. Unlock top maternity nurse and sleep expert
Jo Tantum's secrets, just as Barbara Want did when she gave birth
to twins and found herself completely unprepared. You too can begin
a happy, flexible routine based on your baby's natural patterns.
Discover: * The secrets of sleeping through the night * How to cope
with more than one * How to calm their crying * Simple feeding
routines * Flexible nap times This is the ultimate
first-time-parenting guide, covering all aspects of caring for your
baby. Jo's approach is warm, empowering for you as a parent and
easy to follow and, as Barbara will testify, it works!
Individuals with ASD and related disorders are supported by a
variety of people throughout their day, whether in educational and
work settings, transition programs or at home. Structured work
systems are one method that can be used to ensure that they develop
and maintain their ability to work on their own, without assistance
and prompting from others. Briefly, structured work systems are
designed to give visual information about what work needs to be
done, how much works needs to be done, when the work is completed
and what will happen next. Due to the predictability and sense of
accomplishment that are built into the system, many individuals
with ASD find the structured work time their favourite time of the
day. Full of colour photos and case examples spanning age and
levels of functioning, the book provides an A-Z guide to work
systems, including assessment, how to build them into the
curriculum, IEPs, lesson planning and more.
Unnerved by the ceaseless demands of your toddler? Concerned that your two-year-old isn’t developing on schedule? You clearly need to spend some time with Tracy Hogg. Nicknamed the “baby whisperer” by grateful parents because of her extraordinary gift for understanding and connecting with children, Tracy became internationally famous after the smashing success of her New York Times bestseller Secrets of the Baby Whisperer. Now Tracy is back with the same winning blend of common sense and uncanny intuition. Starting with the simple but essential premise that there is no such thing as a “typical” child, Tracy guides you through her unique programs, including
• H.E.L.P. (Hold back, Explain, Limit, Praise): the mantra that will remind you of the four elements that are critical to fostering your child’s growth and independence, while at the same time keeping him safe. • Using T.L.C. (Talk, Listen, Clarify) to communicate with your toddler, to figure out what she is really thinking, and to best help her express herself. • R&R: Routines and Rituals that give structure and predictability to daily life and a sense of continuity to holidays and special occasions. • Rehearsals for Change: ways of preparing your toddler for new experiences by encouraging her to practice her skills in the safe, controlled setting of your family. • Conscious Discipline: a way of teaching your toddler how to behave and manage his emotions, while being mindful of the lessons you teach with your own behavior.
Practical, reassuring, and written with wit and energy and boundless enthusiasm for real children and their everyday behavior, this book will be your constant companion during the magical, challenging toddler years.
No longer little children, but not yet teenagers, children in the
primary school years (between seven and twelve) face big emotional,
social, psychological and physical changes. How can parents best
support their children whilst also embracing their growing
independence? Inspired by the Waldorf approach to child
development, Lou Harvey-Zahra explains the three major transitions,
or 'rubicons', of middle childhood at ages seven, nine and twelve.
She offers practical tips and guidance to help parents through the
challenges of the middle years, including: -- Creative solutions
for common discipline issues -- Helpful routines for busy
households to strengthen family bonds -- Suggested responses to
tricky childhood questions -- Sensitive advice to help children
manage anger and anxiety Growing Children, Thriving Children
empowers parents to navigate the middle years with confidence.
All over the U.S. and in over twenty countries around the world,
Touchpoints has become required reading for anxious parents of
babies and small children. T. Berry Brazelton's great empathy for
the universal concerns of parenthood, and honesty about the complex
feelings it engenders, as well as his uncanny insight into the
predictable leaps and regressions of early childhood, have
comforted and supported families since its publication in 1992. In
this completely revised edition Dr. Brazelton introduces new
information on physical, emotional, and behavioural development. He
also addresses the new stresses on families and fears of children,
with a fresh focus on the role of fathers and other caregivers.
This updated volume also offers new insights on prematurity, sleep
patterns, early communication, toilet training, co-sleeping, play
and learning, SIDS, cognitive development and signs of
developmental delay, childcare, asthma, a child's immune system,
and safety. Dr. Sparrow, Brazelton's co-author on several other
books, brings a child psychiatrist's insights into the many
perennial childhood issues covered in this comprehensive book. No
parent should be without the reassurance and wisdom Touchpoints
provides.
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Sarah Strydom; Edited by Nicky Strydom
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could not wait for my eighth birthday, but everybody was crying. I
didn't understand why they were so upset - don't they know that I
will be fine? I did not know it then but my life was about to
change - forever. I will tell you what it's like to lose your hair,
vomit for hours and learn how to walk again. I will share with you
the sadness of losing a friend in the ward next to me, but I will
also share my happiest moments with you. Join me on my journey of
becoming a cancer survivor, and against all odds a provincial
badminton player. The words in this book are Sarah's, or Spunky as
she is affectionately known. She started to write them only a short
time after her diagnosis - she was eight years old. Her story is
one of bravery and determination. Publisher's Note This true story
is a snap shot of a difficult time in the life of a little girl -
Sarah, or rather Spunky as she is known by her family and friends.
Never has a name fitted a person so well. Sarah at eight years old
wrote this book but she was helped by her mother, Nicky. Nicky gave
understanding to the medical terms and did the initial edit, but
they are Sarah's words. We have been lenient with the edit for
Spunky's words, where we retained incorrect tenses and grammar to
preserve her "voice." As the publisher, many have asked me what I
enjoyed the most about the manuscript. Obviously Sarah's bravery
inspired me, as did her positive outlook. But the best was to get
to know Sarah through her candid descriptions. I am sure you will
be as enchanted as I was. I am humbled by the privilege of bringing
her story to the world.
Sleep, or rather the lack of it, is the issue of paramount concern
to the overwhelming majority of new parents. Getting enough sleep
is vital for the health of a growing baby or toddler, and the
sanity of mums and dads. Yet striking the right balance between
their differing needs can be hard to achieve. Once sleep problems
set in, they can fast demoralise and exhaust parents, undermining
confidence in their ability to cope. Gina Ford has come to the
rescue with her answer: the key to a good night's sleep for the
whole family lies in teaching parents to understand the changing
sleep needs of their growing baby. This book informs and reassures
parents, dispelling many common myths and anxieties and offering
practical solutions that work. By creating a structure of regular
feeding, sleeping and playing times, Gina explains how parents can
help their baby to find a rhythm that will be comfortable for all
concerned. Whether parents want to establish good sleeping habits
from the start, or find they need to cure sleep problems and get
their child back on track, Gina has the answers.
Often described as "social phobia's cousin" and misdiagnosed as
autism, selective mutism is a debilitating fear of speaking in some
situations experienced by some children. The disorder usually
presents in children before the age of five, but it may not be
recognized until the child starts school. When requested to speak,
children with selective mutism often look down, blush, or otherwise
express anxiety that disrupts their engagement with people and
activities. Selective mutism is related to social anxiety and
social phobia, and more than 90 percent of children with selective
mutism also manifest symptoms of one of these problems.
This book is the first available for parents of children with
selective mutism. It offers a broad overview of the condition and
reviews the diagnostic criteria for the disorder. The book details
a plan you can use to coordinate professional treatment of your
child's disorder. It also explains the steps you can take on your
own to encourage your child to speak comfortably in school and in
his or her peer group. All of the book's strategies employ a
gradual, "stepladder" approach. The techniques gently encourage
children to speak more, while at the same time helping them feel
safe and supported.
Angela E. McHolm, Ph.D., is director of the Selective Mutism
Service at McMaster Children's Hospital in Hamilton, ON. The
Selective Mutism Service offers outpatient psychiatric consultation
to families and professionals such as school personnel, speech and
language pathologists, and mental health clinicians who support
children with selective mutism. She is assistant professor in the
Department of Psychiatry and Behavioural Neurosciences in the
Faculty of Health Sciences at McMaster University in Hamilton,
ON.
Toddlers can drive you bonkers...so adorable and fun one
minute...so stubborn and demanding the next! Yet, as unbelievable
as it sounds, there is a way to turn the daily stream of "nos" and
"don'ts" into "yeses" and hugs...if you know how to speak your
toddler's language. In one of the most useful advances in parenting
techniques of the past twenty-five years, Dr. Karp reveals that
toddlers, with their immature brains and stormy outbursts, should
be thought of not as pint-size people but as pintsize...cavemen.
Having noticed that the usual techniques often failed to calm
crying toddlers, Dr. Karp discovered that the key to effective
communication was to speak to them in their own primitive language.
When he did, suddenly he was able to soothe their outbursts almost
every time! This amazing success led him to the realization that
children between the ages of one and four go through four stages of
"evolutionary" growth, each linked to the development of the brain,
and each echoing a step in prehistoric humankind's journey to
civilization: - The "Charming Chimp-Child" (12 to 18 months):
Wobbles around on two legs, grabs everything in reach, plays a
nonstop game of "monkey see monkey do."- The "Knee-High
Neanderthal" (18 to 24 months): Strong-willed, fun-loving, messy,
with a vocabulary of about thirty words, the favorites being "no"
and "mine."- The "Clever Caveman" (24 to 36 months): Just beginning
to learn how to share, make friends, take turns, and use the
potty.- The "Versatile Villager" (36 to 48 months): Loves to tell
stories, sing songs and dance, while trying hard to behave.To speak
to these children, Dr. Karp has developed two extraordinarily
effective techniques: 1) The "fastfood" rule -- restating what your
child has said to make sure you got it right; 2) The four-step rule
-- using gesture, repetition, simplicity, and tone to help your
irate Stone-Ager be happy again.Once you've mastered "toddler-ese,"
you will be ready to apply behavioral techniques specific to each
stage of your child's development, such as teaching patience and
calm, doing time-outs (and time-ins), praise through "gossiping,"
and many other strategies. Then all the major challenges of the
toddler years -- including separation anxiety, sibling rivalry,
toilet training, night fears, sleep problems, picky eating, biting
and hitting, medicine taking -- can be handled in a way that will
make your toddler feel understood. The result: fewer tantrums, less
yelling, and, best of all, more happy, loving time for you and your
child.
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