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'A master synthesizer of attachment science, medical practice, and
his own experience as a father, Harold Koplewicz capably and
compassionately leads us through the art of scaffolding, from early
childhood through the important adolescent period.' - Daniel J.
Siegel, MD, author of The Whole Brain Child Prevent and counteract
the general anxiety and emotional fragility prevalent in children
and teenagers today - a new parenting philosophy and strategies
that give children the tools to flourish on their own. Just as
sturdy scaffolding is necessary when erecting a building and will
come down when the structure grows stable, good parenting provides
children with steady and warm emotional nourishment on the path
toward independence. Never-ending parental problem-solving and
involvement can have the opposite effect, enabling fragility and
anxiety over time. In The Scaffold Effect, world-renowned child
psychiatrist Harold Koplewicz introduces the powerful and
clinically tested idea that this deliberate build-up and then
gradual loosening of parental support is the single most effective
way to encourage kids to climb higher, try new things, grow from
mistakes and develop character and strength. Explaining the
building blocks of an effective scaffold from infancy through young
adulthood, he expertly guides parents through the strategies for
raising empowered, capable people, including: Lay a solid
foundation: The parent-child relationship needs to be made from the
concrete mixture of emotional availability, positive reinforcement,
clear messaging, and consistent rules. From this supportive base,
your will forge a bond that will survive adolescence and grow
stronger into adulthood. Empower growth: Skyscraper or sprawling
bungalow - the style of your child's construction is not up to you!
Scaffold parenting validates and accommodates the shape the child
is growing into. Any effort to block or control growth will
actually stunt it. Stay on their level: Imagine being on the ground
floor of a house and trying to talk to someone on the roof. The
person on the roof will have to 'talk down' to you or yell. If your
child's building and your scaffold are on the same level, you can
speak directly, look each other in the eye, and keep the lines of
communication open. Drawing on Dr Koplewicz's decades of clinical
and personal experience, The Scaffold Effect is a compassionate,
smart and essential guide for the ages. All the author's proceeds
from the sale of this book will be donated to the Child Mind
Institute.
*** WITH A FOREWORD BY MILLIE MACKINTOSH *** From the author of the
hugely successful The Sensational Baby Sleep Plan. A follow-up
guide, helping parents to handle sleep issues in toddlers and
children aged over twelve months. With clear and realistic advice
on how to: *Implement the fail-safe reassurance sleep-training
technique *Establish healthy bedtime associations *Understand your
toddler's development *Implement a routine through responsible and
positive parenting *Manage changes such as moving from a cot to a
bed and travelling *Cope with dietary intolerances and acid reflex
that might affect child's ability to fall and stay asleep
*Introduce a new baby into the family and deal with sibling issues
This book will get your child - and you - the sleep you need!
Praise for The Sensational Baby Sleep Plan: ***** 'This book is a
Godsend . . . simple, supportive and easy to apply.' *****
'Literally changes our lives . . . absolutely invaluable advice.'
***** 'This books now allows our little one to enjoy her sleep . .
. She is a happy content smiley baby now and so are mummy and
daddy!'
Richard Selznick is a child psychologist who has helped parents
with their children s struggles in school for more than 25 years.
His first book, The Shut-Down Learner, identified the problems
faced by spatial learners and recommended ways that parents and
teachers can help them learn. School Struggles offers aid, comfort,
and perspective to parents whose children have difficulty in school
for a multitude of reasons. Selznick addresses reading and writing
issues, task analysis, learning disabilities, behavioral problems,
difficulties with organization, social skills, medication, parents
interactions with teachers, and more, in a practical, down-to-earth
manner. The book is filled with takeaway points, surprising
insights, and new actions to try with your child that are a godsend
for families struggling with school and behavioral issues. Through
his work with thousands of academically struggling kids and their
families, Dr. Selznick has developed techniques and easily
applicable tools on pretty much any topic that plagues parents and
children alike, including the excessive use of technology, parental
indulgence of their children, and the difficulty of being patient
with a frustrating situation. This is an indispensable guide for
any parent who stays awake at night worrying about their child s
school experience, whether the issues are academic or social, or
both.
In Lifeline, Dr. Denise Morett provides validation and support
along with tools and strategies on how to cope with a child's life
threatening illness. Denise Morett, Psy. D., is a psychologist with
over 25 years of experience treating individuals and families,
including those with a family member facing serious or
life-threatening medical issues. Dr. Morett found herself in those
exact circumstances when her son was diagnosed with a very rare,
life-threatening illness. Driven by her own search for supportive
re-sources, Dr. Morett provides ways to cope with one of the most
challenging circumstances a parent can encounter.
Behind Closed Doors tells the story of two mothers who began
investigating serious health issues in their own son and
daughter-and ended up writing an expose about the declining health
of an entire generation of American children. In their relentless
attempts to improve the health of their own children, they
uncovered harmful trends in our food, pharmaceuticals, and
environment, all stemming from weak laws and conflicts of interest.
What they discovered shocked and ultimately empowered them to get
actively involved in questioning and reforming these harmful,
out-of-balance practices, and to inspire other moms to do the same.
Behind Closed Doors not only offers scientifically verified
evidence of how declining industry practices are harming our kids,
but showcases solutions like environmental medicine and other
integrative health practices, shares personal success stories, and
provides tools and solutions parents can immediately
implement-equipping and inspiring us all to stand together for
change.
The Primal Wound is a book which will revolutionize the way we think about adoption.
In its application of information about pre-and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding, and loss, it clarifies the effects of separation from the birthmother on adopted children. In addition, it gives those children, whose pain has long been unacknowledged or misunderstood, validation for their feelings, as well as explanations for their behavior.
The insight which Ms. Verrier brings to the experiences of abandonment and loss will contribute not only to the healing of adoptees, their adoptive families, and birthmothers, but will bring understanding and encouragement to anyone who has ever felt abandoned.
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