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Packed full of great ideas for fun games and activities, this book
encourages positive attachments between a parent or carer and their
child. When it comes to choosing the best games to play with
children who have difficulties attaching, it is often hard to know
how to play with a purpose. This book contains fun, age-appropriate
games along with an explanation of why they matter. All the games
included are designed for specific age ranges, from infants to
older children, and help to address particular needs in children
that are known to affect attachment, including fetal alcohol
spectrum disorder. It provides an easy-to-understand description of
attachment and reveals the crucial role that play has in forming
attachments. Written for parents and carers, as well as for use by
professionals, it is full of strategies to help build healthy
attachments in children who have experienced early trauma.
Peter Levine's work in trauma is grounded in medical biophysics,
psychophysiology and psychology, as well as his own innovative
research into the instinctual behaviour of wild animals. Over the
past 35 years, he has developed and refined a method called Somatic
Experiencing (SE), which provides the foundation for this guide to
dealing with trauma in children. At the core of this book is the
understanding that trauma begets violence, and violence begets
trauma. The effects of trauma can result not only from catastrophic
events such as abuse and violence but from everyday, common
incidents such as minor auto accidents, routine medical procedures,
family stresses, even something as seemingly innocent as falling
off a bicycle. "Trauma Through a Child's Eyes" offers a hopeful
alternative to children acting "in" (on themselves) or "out" (on
others) in response to pain and injury. Most children possess an
innate natural resiliency, and Levine explains how adults can help
them tap into and strengthen that resiliency to resolve the effects
of trauma and cope successfully with future harmful situations.
Current statistics indicate that a young African-American man is more likely to be incarcerated or killed than to graduate from college. Yet, despite many obstacles, some are beating the odds against them and achieving at society's highest standard of success. How do they avoid such pitfalls, and what can African-American parents do to help their sons succeed? Based on extensive research and interviews with successful young African-American males and their parents, Beating the Odds emphasizes the unique combinations of supportive and challenging parenting practices that parents have adopted to help their sons cope and achieve in both the African-American community and mainstream white society.
When to hold on; when to let go--a constant dilemma of parenthood.
This timely book examines the balance between these powerful
dynamics. How parents can instill confidence and security in
children and how professionals can recognize and respond when this
process goes awry. Holding too long and too tight? Letting go too
soon and too easily? Includes down-to-earth descriptions of family
systems and identity development and guidance on remaining an
emotional anchor in children's lives as they launch toward
independence. Psychologist Benjamin Garber is author of Keeping
Kids Out of the Middle and Developmental Psychology for Family Law
Professionals.
Reveals the impossible choices and downright terror mixed-status
families often face for their loved ones Living in a mixed-status
immigrant family might mean that your grandmother could be deported
at any moment, your son could be arrested at work, or your mother's
deportation hearing is postponed-again. Such uncertainty and fear
are the reality of life for mixed-status families-those that
include both undocumented immigrants and US citizens. In Contested
Americans, Cassaundra Rodriguez explores how members of
mixed-status families experience and articulate belonging in the
United States. The sixteen million people in the US who fall under
this classification share the fear of a family member's possible
deportation or the anxiety of leaving behind a child or elderly
relative. Rodriguez highlights how different members of the same
mixed-status families mediate undocumented statuses while
maintaining the collective whole of a family. For many young
adults, this may mean negotiating the sponsorship of their
immigrant parents, and for the parents, planning for the emotional,
physical, and financial well-being of their children in case of
deportation. Contested Americans is a timely book, filled with
vivid storytelling, that shows how immigration policies, racism,
and privilege collide in the backdrop of the lives of millions of
mixed-status families.
Stand Tall Like a Mountain is specifically designed to help parents
empower their children to: - Learn tools for dealing with everyday
emotions - Express how they are feeling - Learn about their bodies
and minds in easy-to-read and understandable language - Develop
tools for nourishment and coping with challenges - Use easy and fun
yoga poses to promote positive feelings We teach our children how
to brush their teeth and cross the road safely; this book is about
broadening their toolkit to include emotional first aid. Suzy
Reading introduces practices to encourage noticing emotions,
feeling calm, expressing feelings, falling asleep more easily,
coping with anger and feelings of anxiety and nurturing confidence
and kindness. Children are natural masters of curiosity and
mindfulness, so the learning is not a one-way street. The book
encourages parents to observe and seek opportunities to learn from
their children too. "It's not easy to remember to care for
ourselves and connect with our loved ones in this fast-paced life.
Stand Tall like a Mountain gently stops you in your tracks, reminds
you to breathe and gives practical support for living a kinder,
calmer family life." - Lauren Seager-Smith, CEO Kidscape
A HANDY PARENT'S GUIDE THAT TURNS PROFESSIONAL LANGUAGE DEVELOPMENT
INTO CHILD'S PLAY Are you concerned that your child is not
verbalizing? The solution may be as simple as a game. Talking with
Your Toddler teaches you how to stimulate speech using everyday
play. It makes learning to talk fun and engaging for your child.
With proven therapies and easy-to-follow activities, Talking with
Your Toddler makes an ideal home companion. - Tips to promote
talking throughout the day - Hands-on games that teach new words-
Tricks for turning drive time into talk time - Fun ways to promote
further practice - Techniques for keeping kids engaged Written by
experienced speech professionals, this book's straightforward
approach is equally useful for parents at home, teachers in the
classroom or therapists in a clinic.
Written by a pediatrician and based in proven-effective mindfulness
techniques, this book will help you and your child with attention
deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) stay calm and in the present
moment. If you are a parent of a child with attention
deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), you probably face many
unique daily challenges. Kids with ADHD are often inattentive,
hyperactive, and impulsive-and as a result, you might become
frustrated or stressed out. In this book, a pediatrician presents a
proven-effective program for helping both you and your child with
ADHD stay cool and collected while living more fully in the present
moment. In the book, Mark Bertin, addresses the various symptoms of
ADHD using non-technical language and a user-friendly format. In
addition, the book will help you learn how to let go of judgments,
reasonably assess your child's strengths and weaknesses, lower
stress levels for both yourself and your child, communicate
effectively, and cultivate balance and harmony at home and at
school. If you are a parent, caregiver, or mental health
professional, this book provides a valuable guide.
The ultimate guide to raising girls. Have you ever wondered why...
It's the end of the world if her best friend won't play with her?
She moans about wearing school uniform, then goes out dressed
exactly the same as all the other girls? She spends all day with
her friends but still needs to talk to them all evening? Written by
head teachers and staff from some of the finest girls' schools in
the country, Your Daughter is full of practical advice to help you
negotiate the challenges of raising a daughter in the twenty-first
century: why girls are different the importance of her friends
family relationships self esteem eating disorders girls' bullying
social networking and the internet influence of the media helping
her succeed at school You may be bringing up one, two or even three
daughters, but the authors of this book have hundreds of thousands
of girls passing through their care each year. Your Daughter helps
you to understand what makes her tick, from her first day at school
until she flies the nest.
The revised and updated edition of the groundbreaking book
Asperger's and Girls describes the unique challenges of females on
the autism spectrum. In it, you'll follow the lives of women with
autism through childhood, the social and academic challenges of the
education system, and into the career and dating worlds. You'll
also hear from top experts on crucial and often under-discussed
subjects, including: Diagnosing girls with ASD Navigating the
neurotypical social world Puberty, sexual health, and personal
safety Independence, relationships, and marriage The importance of
the right career And so much more. This book is a necessity for
women with autism and those who love and support them. Direct
advice from leading professionals and candid stories written by the
indomitable women who have lived them send an important message: we
are women with autism. Give us the right tools and we can change
the world. First edition was winner of the Gold Award, Foreword
Book of the Year.
72 per cent of children show behaviours linked to stress Small
amounts of stress are normal, but it can be difficult to know how
best to support a child when they feel overwhelmed with worry. This
practical guide offers strategies to help alleviate the physical
symptoms and emotional signs of stress. By adopting simple tips,
lifestyle changes and mood-boosting activities, you can help your
child overcome challenging situations and live a happier and more
carefree life. Identify the source(s) of your child's stress Tackle
challenging moments together Establish positive daily habits and
routines Develop skills for communicating emotions Know when to
seek support
Help kids develop a positive relationship with food, so they can
become healthy and adventurous eaters for life! Is your child a
picky eater? Do they insist on having the same foods served over
and over again? Be it chicken nuggets, pizza, pancakes, or French
fries--if your child is only eating a few foods regularly, their
diet may be seriously lacking in the nutrition and vitamins they
need to grow and be healthy. And you may feel stressed out and
frustrated at mealtime. For many kids, picky eating is a sensory
issue--whether it's the smell, taste, texture, or appearance of
food. So, how can you help your child overcome these sensory
sensitivities and ensure that they get the nourishment they need?
Written by a pediatric occupational therapist with a specialty
certification in feeding, eating, and swallowing, Raising
Adventurous Eaters offers eight evidence-based sensory strategies
to help kids foster a healthy relationship with food. You'll learn
all about how picky eating can be caused by sensory processing
differences, and find step-by-step strategies for dealing with each
sense. By learning to lean into their senses, children will better
understand what's going on in their bodies. This fosters an
intuitive eating approach, teaching kids to listen to their body's
hunger and fullness cues and respect and respond to those cues
appropriately. Whether or not your child has a diagnosis of sensory
processing disorder (SPD), or simply has sensory sensitivities when
it comes to food, this book will help you set your child up for
successful mealtimes, turning the most stressful time of the day
into a time that your family can spend relaxing and bonding
together around the table.
Healthy children need healthy immune systems, to fight off bugs and
infections they can pick up at school. The most effective way to
strengthen your child's immune system is through a healthy diet.
With suggestions to suit children from 0-18, top nutritionist Lucy
Burney shows you how. Discover: The importance of good nutrition;
The immune-boosting diet for all children, from babies to
teenagers; The pros and cons of vaccinations for kids; The latest
research on food allergies - and how to avoid them; How to fight
infections naturally, and avoid antibiotics; Tips on food storage
and preparation, to avoid bugs and preserve nutrients;
Easy-to-follow menu plans and over 160 easy-to-make recipes that
all your family will love
Young children can erupt like little volcanoes when they are
feeling angry. It can be overwhelming and difficult to deal with,
and can produce angry feelings in the parent or caregiver too. This
book is packed with advice and strategies for those working with
children under five on how to understand and manage anger in
children, and also how to help their parents or caregivers to deal
with anger. The authors outline the different reasons children may
feel angry so that their emotions can be fully understood, and
offer strategies to combat negative feelings and minimize
outbursts. These include putting in place behavioural boundaries
and helping a child to feel secure. Simple activities and exercises
are also given to help children and adults to express their anger
positively. In addition, a selection of poems and stories will help
adults to pass on the lessons of the book to children. This
practical and accessible book will be of essential use to any
professional helper of parents and young children such as early
childhood educators, caregivers and social workers, as well as to
parents themselves.
Learn how to make a positive impact in these milestone years of
your child's development, when he or she goes from crawling to
walking, and from knowing just a few words to speaking in complete
sentences. Armin Brott guides you through this crucial phase of
fatherhood three months at a time, in the third volume of the New
Father series trusted by millions of dads nationwide. Each chapter
covers: Your child's physical, intellectual, verbal, and
emotional/social development What you're experiencing as a father
Age-appropriate activities you and your child can enjoy together
Family matters, including your relationship with your partner,
sibling relationships, and more This new edition of The New Father:
A Dad's Guide to the Toddler Years has been thoroughly updated to
cover the issues dads face today, from balancing work and family to
managing kids' screen time. Dads will rely on this friendly yet
authoritative book-and mums will find it helpful, too.
Mike Linderman wrestles cattle at the crack of dawn, then spends
his days working with troubled teens before coming home at night to
three healthy teens of his own. Where so many other therapists can
only offer futile advice to struggling parents, Linderman has
mastered a blend of downhome honesty and military-like discipline -
not to mention a layer of trust and love very rarely found in the
therapist's office. Most of the teens Linderman treats are angry,
abused, violent, and dangerous-they are children without hope. Yet,
despite their difficult pasts, Linderman has achieved an
extraordinary success rate with these teens, helping them turn
their lives around and earning him the nickname "the Teen
Whisperer."The son of a poor ranching family, Linderman learned at
an early age the values of honesty, tough love, and hard work.
Miraculously, it is those three values that have transformed the
hardened clients at his school into loving, rational, productive
teens. Finally, Linderman shares these and other secrets with
parents everywhere as he explains his methods for turning around
America's toughest teens. Centering on the Five Primary Needs of
Teens (Survival, Fun, Freedom, Power, and Belonging), his approach
demonstrates the importance each of these concepts plays in teen's
family life and the negative impact that occurs when a family is
incapable of fulfilling these Needs.Interacting with teens on their
terms and in their language, Linderman allows parents to see that
in order to help kids you must meet them at their level and treat
them as peers not subordinates. With powerful and effective words,
he calls on readers to understand that our teenagers deserve our
love - not our fear - and ultimately it is this unique and
straightforward perspective that sets him apart.
When Karen Siff Exkorn's son Jake was diagnosed with autism, she
struggled to pull together comprehensive information about the
disorder. Fortunately, she was able to educate herself, and her
extensive at-home treatment of her son led to his amazing full
recovery. But the journey wasn't easy, and now, in "The Autism
Sourcebook", Siff Exkorn shares with parents the wisdom she wishes
she'd had at the beginning. Recent studies show that there is a
worldwide epidemic of autism. Early detection and early
intervention are two of the key factors in improving prognosis-but
too often, writes Siff Exkorn, parents get bogged down in denial or
confusion about the still mysterious disorder, and are unable to
take the necessary steps. Providing accessible medical information
gleaned from the world's foremost experts, Siff Exkorn offers an
inside look at families with children who have autism, and ties in
her own first-hand experience as a parent.The author shares
valuable knowledge about the following: what the diagnosis really
means; understanding and accessing treatment options; knowing your
child's rights in the school system; coping with common marital and
familial stress; and making the stigma of autism a thing of the
past. With extensive appendices, including the Modified Checklist
for Autism in Toddlers, Diagnostic Criteria for the Five Pervasive
Developmental Disorders, and carefully selected lists of Internet
resources, recommended readings, and top autism organisations
worldwide, "The Autism Sourcebook" is the single most
comprehensive, practical resource available to parents and loved
ones of children with autism.
We all know the benefits of eating fruit and vegetables every day.
But how are you supposed to get your kids to eat the recommended
five portions? Or even one or two for that matter? And what exactly
is 5-a-day for babies and children? The answer is in this book.
5-a-day For Kids Made Easy gives you easy ways of making your
children eat healthily and eat five portions of fruit and
vegetables a day, with no whining or complaining from those fussy
eaters. They won't even know they're eating them. With simple
methods and meal planners, and over 100 practical family recipes,
you'll be safe in the knowledge your kids are getting the vitamins
and goodness they need, with minimum fuss. Ideal for busy parents,
everything is quick and easy to prepare - from lunch boxes and
snacks to main meals, party food and eating on holiday. And don't
worry, you don't have to spend a fortune to prepare healthy food
your kids will love!
Today Sophie Spikey has a very big problem. She has lost her shoes,
again! There is no way she is asking her mum for help, though. I
can fix it all by myself, she thought. Sophie did not have an easy
start in life and now she cannot trust grown-ups to help her.
Luckily, her new mum is good at guessing when Sophie needs a
helping hand. Written by a mum who understands, and her daughter
(who did not like asking for help), this is a story for children
functioning at age 3-10.
More and more children are expressing spiritual qualities, and
parents, caregivers, pediatricians, teachers, and therapists are
increasingly taking notice of children's spiritual lives. Mollie
Painton, Psy.D., a well-known child therapist, helps parents
understand this phenomenon in the framework of "spiritual
intelligence." By understanding this concept, we can honor our
children's gifts and develop our own spiritual intelligence along
the way.
Any parent whose child has had an imaginary friend, talked with
a deceased relative, or been receptive to the pain and emotion of
others will find guidance and inspiration in "Encouraging your
Child's Spiritual Intelligence." Dr. Painton's thoughtful quizzes
and advice provide added support and insight throughout the book.
Adults, who have had their own spiritual experiences in childhood
dismissed, will rediscover their original spiritual connection and
become valuable spiritual partners with their children.
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