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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting > Child care & upbringing > General
Already best-selling authors with How to Talk So Kids Will Listen
& Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
turned their minds to the battle of the siblings. Parents
themselves, they were determined to figure out how to help their
children get along. The result was Siblings Without Rivalry. This
wise, groundbreaking book gives parents the practical tools they
need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce
competition, and make it possible for children to experience the
joys of their special relationship. With humor and understanding
much gained from raising their own children Faber and Mazlish
explain how and when to intervene in fights, provide suggestions on
how to help children channel their hostility into creative outlets,
and demonstrate how to treat children unequally and still be fair.
Updated to incorporate fresh thoughts after years of conducting
workshops for parents and professionals, this edition also includes
a new afterword."
Does your baby have trouble sleeping? You're not alone. Designed
specifically for the very many parents encountering the same issues
as you, this practical, no-nonsense book gives you the insights,
tools and strategies to help your baby get the rest they need -
however difficult the challenge. Featuring up-to-date safe sleeping
guidance, and drawing on the latest clinical expertise, this book
will help you to devise a gentle, sustainable sleep plan which will
work for you and your baby. It is based on Andrea Grace's work with
hundreds of families, and her decades of experience as the UK's
longest-standing sleep consultant, to successfully formulate a
gentle, sustainable approach without crying it out, or unnecessary
distress for you or your child. It includes coverage of a variety
of different needs, from colic to reflux and eczema, and provides
welcome support for other carers and family members, from
babysitters and childminders to grandparents and siblings. WHAT
PARENTS SAY: 'We loved Andrea's method because it was gentle, kind
and based around the needs of the baby.' 'Andrea has transformed
our lives, she is amazing, a sleep guru!' 'I trusted Andrea and the
results spoke for themselves from the very start.' 'I can't
recommend Andrea Grace highly enough.'
The perfect gift for baby showers and for those already in the
throes of parenting, Fowl Language: Children are a Gift is here to
let you know that you're not alone. Parenting is hard and often
gross. Laughing about it helps. Everyone's favorite parenting
cartoon featuring ducks presents a comprehensive view of the early
parenting years in all of their maddening cuteness and
sanity-depriving chaos. The new collection will include fifty
comics that have appeared on the website and will feature fifty
never-before-seen cartoons. Fowl Language: Children are a Gift is
organized into 10 thematic chapters-including Babies: Oh Dear God,
What Have we Done?; Pooping: Get Your S*** Together; and Holidays:
Magic Traditions and Tragic Overeating-each of which begins with a
hilarious, illustrated 500-word essay.
This beloved parenting guide has taught thousands of parents to
effectively manage the most common behavior problems in a loving
yet firm way and increase your child's frustration tolerance and
ability to delay gratification. Written for a new generation of
parents and children, this completely revised and updated edition
of Discipline with Love and Limitsaddresses key issues such as,
talking back, travel meltdowns, and overeating, with new sections
on: The surprising reasons that bribing and giving-in -- unhealthy
discipline -- can cause toxic stress without parents and teachers
even knowing it.The new, easy-to-remember Mind S.E.T. (R) -- 3
positive steps that lower stress for you and your child in the heat
of the moment.The recommended discipline solutions called for in
the new December 2018 policy statement of The American Academy of
Pediatrics for effective discipline by setting limits and teaching
acceptable behaviors.The addition of over 50 new, common
"asked-for" everyday behaviors challenging today's parents.Why and
how our practical parenting solutions promote healthy brain
development a million times a second, every day in children birth-5
years of age.With its easy-to-use format that breaks down the
symptom, cause, preventative steps, and practical solutions for
each issue, Discipline with Love and Limits is every parent's guide
to building positive relationships with their children, teaching
empathy and inclusiveness, and empowering their children to
function at their best.
'Funny, honest and most importantly really, really useful.' - Helen
McGinn, author of The Knackered Mother's Wine Club So, you're
losing your sh*t with your kids. You scream, you shout, you snap at
them. You're cranky and irritable more often than you'd like to
admit. You know how you want to parent; you want to be a calmer,
more rational and intentional parent, but no matter how hard you
try, you can't help it. You keep losing your sh*t. Just remember:
YOU ARE NOT A BAD PARENT. How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your
Kids is as honest and compassionate as it is pragmatic about
helping you work through your sh*t to be a more present and
positive parent. Increasingly relevant to today's parents, who are
more overloaded, overwhelmed, and overworked than ever before,
Carla Naumburg has the antidote to the feelings of complete despair
and rage. How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your Kids is a simple,
accessible and humorous guide to more effective and mindful
parenting. 'This book is life-changing; it really will stop you
from losing your sh*t with your kids!' - Esther Walker
The Autism Inventory Development (AID) was designed to be a tool to
gather critical information for the process of assessing for Autism
Spectrum Disorder. The critical informational areas the AID covers
include the following: Family History Child History Medical History
Developmental Milestones Communication Cognitive and Executive
Functioning Abilities Social Functioning Interests Sensory
Integration and Processing Behaviors The AID was created with two
purposes in mind. First, it was created for clinicians to obtain a
comprehensive record of a child's history to assist in the
diagnostic process. Second, and equally important, it was created
for parents, caregivers, and/or family members to create a record
for themselves that holds critical and important historical
information for the individual being assessed. Avoid lost forms and
unanswered questions with this indispensable aid in autism
assessment and diagnosis!
In Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids , contrarian economist Bryan
Caplan argues that we've needlessly turned parenting into an
unpleasant chore, and don't know the real plusses and minuses of
having kids. Parents today spend more time investing in their kids
than ever, but twin and adoption research shows that upbringing is
much less important than we imagine, especially in the long-run.
Kids aren't like clay that parents mould for life they're more like
flexible plastic that pops back to its original shape once you
relax your grip. These revelations are wonderful news for anyone
with kids. Being a great parent is less work and more fun than you
think,so instead of struggling to change your children, you can
safely relax and enjoy your journey together. Raise your children
in the way that feels right for you they'll still probably turn out
just fine. Indeed, as Caplan strikingly argues, modern parents
should have more kids. Parents who endure needless toil and
sacrifice are overcharging themselves for every child. Once you
escape the drudgery and worry that other parents take for granted,
bringing another child into the world becomes a much better deal.
You might want to stock up.
- In 2013, Disney released its most egalitarian film to date - but
59% of all the lines in Frozen are spoken by male characters. - 57%
of children's books published annually have central male
characters; just 31% have central female characters. Raising your
child beyond the limitations placed on them by gender is, let's
face it, an uphill battle. If you don't know where to start, or how
to start, you will find inspiration, insight and plenty of
practical strategies in Childhood Unlimited. From navigating the
gendered constructs that dominate children's films, television and
media generally, to choosing appropriate and stimulating toys
beyond the binary divide, this accessible and relatable book will
make the whole process much less daunting. Based on interviews
with, and research by, some of the best thought-leaders from the
fields of psychology, neuroscience and education, the insights in
this book will not only open the eyes of any parent or caregiver,
they will inspire you to help your child to look at the world in a
critical, creative and empowered way. Free from the restraints of
the stereotypes that surround gender, your child has the
opportunity to reach their true potential - and this is the book
that you need to launch them on that journey.
With decades of experience working with ADD children, Dr. Edward
Hallowell-a pediatric psychiatric clinician, father of two ADD
children, and himself an adult with ADD-understands how easily the
gifts of this condition are lost on a child amid negative comments
from doctors, teachers, and even loving but frustrated parents.
Hallowell has long argued that ADD is too often misunderstood,
mistreated, and mislabeled as a "disability." Now he teams up with
top academic ADD researcher Peter S. Jensen, M.D., who is himself a
father of an ADD child, to bring you an upbeat and encouraging new
approach to living with and helping your ADD child. The practical
strength-based techniques Drs. Hallowell and Jensen present put the
talents, charms, and positive essence of your child ahead of any
presumed shortcomings. Clearly outlined and organized,
Superparenting for ADD offers a specific game plan that includes
- UNCONDITIONAL LOVE Tune out the diagnosticians and labelers and
simply notice and nourish the spirit of your child for who he is.
Providing this unshakable base of support will set the tone for all
interactions to come.
- VIEWING THE MIRROR TRAITS There are positive sides of the
negative symptoms associated with ADD: stubbornness = persistence;
impulsiveness = creativity; intrusiveness = eagerness. By
recognizing the mirror traits, you avoid the ravages of shame and
fear.
- THE CYCLE OF EXCELLENCE Use this critical 5-step process to help
a child develop self- and social awareness. Nurture an environment
in which a child can safely take risks, reserve time to let a child
dabble as a way to learn, encourage playful practice, support
mastery of a skill (whatever the skill may be), and then recognize
a child's accomplishments.
- IDENTIFYING AND TAPPING THE SOURCE Pinpoint your child's inner,
conative strengths, which drive what he naturally and spontaneously
does, as opposed to what he is told to do or feels he must do. Your
child will do his best when allowed to use these conative
strengths.
Drs. Hallowell and Jensen fully understand the real and everyday
challenges-both at home and at school-facing parents of an ADD
child. Now this important book shows you how to unwrap the
wonderful, surprising gifts of ADD and turn what is too often
labeled a lifelong disability into a lifelong blessing.
"From the Hardcover edition."
WINNER Mom's Choice Gold Award for parenting books -- Mom's Choice
Awards: The best in family-friendly media
"My kid is smart, but..."
It takes more than school smarts to create a fulfilling life. In
fact, many bright children face special challenges: Some are driven
by perfectionism;Some are afraid of effort, because they're used to
instant success;Some routinely butt heads with authority
figures;Some struggle to get along with their peers;Some are
outwardly successful but just don't feel good about themselves.
This practical and compassionate book explains the reasons
behind these struggles and offers parents do-able strategies to
help children cope with feelings, embrace learning, and build
satisfying relationships. Drawing from research as well as the
authors' clinical experience, it focuses on the essential skills
children need to make the most of their abilities and become
capable, confident, and caring people.
Praise for the author: 'Dyregrov's writing is clear in its
description, and explicit in its advice, and demonstrates that the
daunting task of helping a child through grief is both manageable
and rewarding' - Bereavement Care 'This insightful text will be of
great help to all who care for pre-school children - parents,
kindergarten teachers, ministers of religion, police, welfare
workers - the list is endless. If they learn the values reflected
in this small book, then bereaved children everywhere will grow up
with far fewer hang-ups about the only certainty in life.' - from
the foreword by Professor William Yule It is a common misconception
that pre-school children are not capable of experiencing grief in
the same way that older children do. Grief in Young Children
challenges this assumption, demonstrating that although young
children may not express grief in the same way as older children,
they still need to be supported through loss. Illustrated
throughout with case examples, the author explores young children's
reactions to death and loss, both immediately after the event and
over time. For example, young children may engage in `magic
thinking', believing that wishing that someone were dead can
actually cause death, which leads to feelings of guilt. Full of
practical advice on issues such as how to keep children in touch
with their memories, answer their questions, allay their fears and
explore their feelings through play, this accessible book enables
adults to work with children to develop an acceptance of grief and
an understanding of death and loss. This book is essential reading
for parents, carers, counsellors and teachers, and is complemented
by the companion volume Grief in Children: A Handbook for Adults,
Second Edition, which caters for school-age children, also written
by Atle Dyregrov and published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
How much childcare can I realistically take on at my age? How will
I fill the day if the child is bored? Can I cope with two children
at a time? What about all these new theories I hear about, how can
I get up to date? What equipment will I need to buy, and who should
pay for it? A Grandparent's Survival Guide to Childcare provides
the answers to these and many more questions. Written by a doctor
and a Montessori teacher both with extensive experience as
grandparents themselves, this down-to-earth guide provides vital
information on deciding what you will offer in the way of
childcare, how to sort out who will do what (and pay for what), how
to structure a day of childcare, how to ensure that their days with
you are as full of fun and learning as the rest of your
grandchild's week, and what to do to prevent accidents and deal
with emergencies should they arise. This book will ensure that you
develop that very special relationship with the grandchildren you
care for and have fun doing it!
Celebrate a child's birth with a photo journal inspired by the
beloved modern classic On the Day You Were Born. Simply add eight
photographs to the supplied sturdy frames, a few details--and a lot
of love--to create a wonderful book to share with a child about the
family's first day together. Debra Frasier's On the Day You Were
Born has been loved by more than a million families since its
publication. Now families can extend the celebration of a child's
birth with this easy-to-use photo journal inspired by that modern
classic. "By adding eight photographs and filling in a few details,
parents can create a very special journal for their child,
rejoicing together in all the natural wonders of the universe. Here
is is an ideal gift for the new parents with a vibrant connection
to nature." --Emilie Coulter, Amazon.com
A HANDY PARENT'S GUIDE THAT TURNS PROFESSIONAL LANGUAGE DEVELOPMENT
INTO CHILD'S PLAY Are you concerned that your child is not
verbalizing? The solution may be as simple as a game. Talking with
Your Toddler teaches you how to stimulate speech using everyday
play. It makes learning to talk fun and engaging for your child.
With proven therapies and easy-to-follow activities, Talking with
Your Toddler makes an ideal home companion. - Tips to promote
talking throughout the day - Hands-on games that teach new words-
Tricks for turning drive time into talk time - Fun ways to promote
further practice - Techniques for keeping kids engaged Written by
experienced speech professionals, this book's straightforward
approach is equally useful for parents at home, teachers in the
classroom or therapists in a clinic.
'Uplifting and honest, [Tender is] about resilience and learning to
look after oneself so as to be better able to care for others.'
KATE MOSSE 'A beautiful and important book that is both deeply
engaging and usefully practical. I loved it.' CATHY RENTZENBRINK
'An insightful and well-timed book ... forces us to confront the
stereotypes - and prejudices - we hold.' SUNDAY TIMES 'profoundly
important...full of wisdom and bright insights on what it really
means to love someone, by a fearless and generous writer. ' CLOVER
STROUD 'A beautiful and timely reminder that each and every one of
us has the ability to care, the capacity for empathy, and the
potential to grow.' ANDY PUDDICOMBE, FOUNDER OF HEADSPACE 'A
wonderful book: compassionate, honest, carefully-reasoned and
genuinely helpful... This will benefit many people.' KATHERINE MAY,
author of WINTERING 'An invaluable tool for any invisible carers or
anyone who wants to learn how to better support their loved ones...
we ALL have many, many things to learn from Penny's beautiful,
wise, charming, thoughtful words' - SCARLETT CURTIS, Sunday Times
bestselling author 'Moving and beautifully written, nuanced and
wise, alert to every paradox at the heart of love. A hugely
important book not only for current or future carers, but anyone
learning to accept that life tends to resist our control.' - OLIVIA
SUDJIC, author of EXPOSURE 'Tender captures the powerful capacity
of people to care for others, and all the heartbreaking and
heartwarming complexity that this involves. Penny brings the
crucial, yet often overlooked, role of caring into our collective
consciousness and, in doing so, demonstrates what it means to be
human.' -DR EMMA HEPBURN, author of A TOOLKIT FOR MODERN LIFE
'Penny Wincer's TENDER manages to combine both unromanticised
honesty about the realities of care with a genuine uplifting
hopefulness... is a must-read.'- RUTH WHIPPMAN, author of THE
PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS We are all likely - at some point in our lives
- to face the prospect of caring for another, whether it's a
parent, child or partner. It is estimated that there are 7 million
people in the UK caring for loved ones. And yet these are the
unpaid, unsung people whose number is rising all the time. In
Tender: the imperfect art of caring, Penny Wincer combines her own
experiences as a carer with the experiences of others to offer real
and transformative tools and insights for navigating a situation
that many of us are either facing or will face at some time. Penny
Wincer has twice been a carer: first to her mother, and now as a
single parent to her autistic son. Tender shows how looking after
oneself is a fundamental part of caring for another, and describes
the qualities that we can look to cultivate in ourselves through
what may otherwise feel to be an exhausting task. Weaving her lived
experience with research into resilience, perfectionism and
self-compassion, Penny combines the stories of other carers
alongside those who receive support - offering an often surprising
and hopeful perspective. Penny hosts a podcast Not Too Busy To
Write.
"Indistractable provides a framework that will deliver the focus
you need to get results." --James Clear, author of Atomic Habits
"If you value your time, your focus, or your relationships, this
book is essential reading. I'm putting these ideas into practice."
--Jonathan Haidt, author of The Righteous Mind National Bestseller
Winner of the Outstanding Works of Literature (OWL) Award Included
in the Top 5 Best Personal Development Books of the Year by Audible
Included in the Top 20 Best Business and Leadership Books of the
Year by Amazon Featured in The Amazon Book Review Newsletter,
January 2020 Goodreads Best Science & Technology of 2019
Finalist You sit down at your desk to work on an important project,
but a notification on your phone interrupts your morning. Later, as
you're about to get back to work, a colleague taps you on the
shoulder to chat. At home, screens get in the way of quality time
with your family. Another day goes by, and once again, your most
important personal and professional goals are put on hold. What
would be possible if you followed through on your best intentions?
What could you accomplish if you could stay focused? What if you
had the power to become "indistractable?" International bestselling
author, former Stanford lecturer, and behavioral design expert, Nir
Eyal, wrote Silicon Valley's handbook for making technology
habit-forming. Five years after publishing Hooked, Eyal reveals
distraction's Achilles' heel in his groundbreaking new book. In
Indistractable, Eyal reveals the hidden psychology driving us to
distraction. He describes why solving the problem is not as simple
as swearing off our devices: Abstinence is impractical and often
makes us want more. Eyal lays bare the secret of finally doing what
you say you will do with a four-step, research-backed model.
Indistractable reveals the key to getting the best out of
technology, without letting it get the best of us. Inside, Eyal
overturns conventional wisdom and reveals: Why distraction at work
is a symptom of a dysfunctional company culture--and how to fix it
What really drives human behavior and why "time management is pain
management" Why your relationships (and your sex life) depend on
you becoming indistractable How to raise indistractable children in
an increasingly distracting world Empowering and optimistic,
Indistractable provides practical, novel techniques to control your
time and attention--helping you live the life you really want.
This volume explores the intersections of welfare, gender and
mothering work in the context this political reality. It explores
austerity and the policies of neoliberal governments that work to
deprive some mothers of their welfare. This volume also explores
how motherhood is socially constructed in various social locations
and places around the world. Last, it examines different ways of
thinking about mothering and what changes to laws and policies are
required to assist all who are mothering and provide better support
to their families.
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