We all need emotional blinders: the etiquette that keeps society smoothly moving depends on it. But when you absolutely must rely on another person, you have to be able to assess them objectively. Red Flags shares simple strategies anyone can use to spot deceptive, or dangerous people, who use ingratiation and social convention to draw in and lull victims. Readers will learn how even the most sceptical of us use rose coloured lenses on those around us, in three sections: Blinded by Desire - from the alluring lenses of attraction and positive attention to the blindness of marital "bliss" and the distorted lens of delusion. Overlooking Red Flags in a Professional Setting - how reassuring proximity and the false security of credibility and similarity can lead to costly mistakes. Be Afraid of What You Can't See - the ultimate cost of wearing emotional blinders around the truly disturbed criminal, from sexual predation to domestic abuse, stalking and cyberstalking. Readers will learn how to: Avoid selective attention, Observe people over time (bad guys rely on first impressions), Ask questions: most people's favourite topic is themselves, Cyber sleuth to verify information and track down inconsistencies. You need this book if you: Want to know if a potential boyfriend is trustworthy, Are interviewing or hiring new employees, Are selecting anyone to take care of your children, Are lending money or property or Have partners in business.

Apart from offering a fascinating look into the biological imperative that drives some 300,000,000 people to vacation annually in warm climates- think Hawaii, the Caribbean, Palm Springs and Acapulco, "Loving The Sun...Exposed Without Fear" gives up-to-date information on the dos and don'ts when spending time in bright sun relaxing, working or playing. There is sound advice on how to prevent over-exposure and importantly what to look for on your skin when it has suffered the affects-both early and cumulative - of too much ultra-violet radiation. Many dermatologists have said that if people had read and heeded the information in this book, they would have had fewer patients with fewer skin problems. Some of the suggestions on how you can do what many of the experts say you shouldn't are provocative, compelling and ultimately useful. In the end, if you the reader have any questions regarding the information offered herein, you should consult your dermatologist to determine what is best for you."LOVING THE SUN...Exposed Without Fear" is an expanded revision and update of "Sunbathing" which was written by the author and published by Mayflower Press in 1978.