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This book presents an integrated approach toward changing attitudes about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered (LGBT) students, faculty, and staff on contemporary college campuses. From Addressing Homophobia and Heterosexism on College Campuses you can learn specific classroom techniques for handling homophobia and heterosexism in the classroom. This book tackles a wide variety of subjects including academic freedom, diversity training, nontraditional families, and religion, each of which plays an integral part in the sense of community found on any college campus. Addressing Homophobia and Heterosexism on College Campuses provides you with the basic tools to set up sensible programs that have worked for others in the past and can work for you in the future In Addressing Homophobia and Heterosexism on College Campuses you'll also find: a list of helpful feature films and documentaries case studies from the US, Canada, and Australia methods to combat homophobia and heterosexism among social work students practical ways to set up Safe Zone or Allies programs techniques for reducing "trans-anxieties" lectures and role-playing games geared toward changing thoughts and live
You've been thinking about her all day. Over and over in your mind you've been imagining the two of you making love tonight. You don't just want the evening to be a good experience. It needs to be a great experience for both of you. Searching your thoughts for the best wine to select or the right words to say, it dawns on you that the way to make the night memorable for you both is to ensure it ends with her having an explosive orgasm that rocks her world and shows you are an attentive and amazing lover. If that's the case, this book is for you. Mysterious, explosive, transcendent, hot, joyous, pulsing, out-of-control release; no matter how you describe it, orgasm is a one-of-a-kind experience. Every woman is a little different in how she feels it, and how she feels about it. Yet, this unique and supremely pleasurable moment is one of the most sought-after and misunderstood in our sexual lives. "Make Her Orgasm Again and Again" takes you through the experience of female orgasm. You will know what to say to your lover to heat up her mood. You will learn foreplay tricks that put your woman on her toes and ready for what's to come next. It shows you different types of orgasms and the techniques to achieve them. You will know the real truth about female ejaculation, the G-spot and how to stimulate it, and simple techniques to give her multiple mind-blowing, squirting orgasms in the same night.
Fellatio, the art (trust me, it's an art) of oral sex, is like playing an instrument. Mouth, hands, motion and emotion all mix together at the same time - and the beautiful music of your lover's satisfaction is heard. Anyone can pick up an instrument and make noise, but to really play it takes knowledge, skill, and practice, practice, practice. "Blow By Blow" will guide you, step by step, to the mind-blowing blow jobs that your man will be willing to do almost anything for you to get one. Once you start following this guide, you will become one of the very few women who can really give great blow jobs, and more importantly, enjoy doing so yourself. And your man will never look at another woman ever again. Here are some of the things you will learn in this guide: - How to become comfortable and relaxed about performing oral sex... - Avoid these common mistakes during fellatio that would turn him off and leave him disappointed... - How to communicate with your partner BEFORE fellatio. Fail to do this will make your entire effort go down the drain - Understand every sensitive part of the male member and how to correctly stimulate them... - Postures and positions that keep you from sore jaws, stiff neck, & achy backs and still give him maximum pleasure... - What to do if he is uncircumcised... - What to do if he smells... - How to deep throating without gagging... - What to do AFTER he ejaculates...Doing it wrong will cut your effort in half - Safety tips about virus & STD's... - And much more...
Submission can be described by a lot of words but "easy" isn't one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you. The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another. Submissive women need support, care and nurture to continue on this journey in a healthy fashion. "Care and Nurture for the Submissive" offers tips, understandings, and pathways to tend the fragile and beautiful souls of submissive women. Self-care is not selfish; it is essential. Only when you are taking care of yourself as a healthy, whole being can you give that self to another with a full heart and free joy.
Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn't just a "good idea" when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive's experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to "get in the same rhythm" and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.
BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In "BDSM Primer for Women," you will learn: The vocabulary, roles, and rituals The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle Ways and places to get started Safety concerns and legal issues Emotions, consequences, and actions What actions meet what needs What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs How to communicate healthfully How to create your sexual self And much more...
**WARNING ** Explicit Adult Content. Must Be 18 Sasha is a dual citizen, who has become a homicide detective with her own special way of solving crimes. There's nothing that she won't do to bring down a suspect, and most times this means going out on the limb and doing things that would be considered homicidal. The adrenaline rush of the job causes her to seek out male or female companionship on a fairly regular basis. She's going to run across a killer, who leaves his victims in the public eye in various forms of bondage. This will lead her into a world that she has never known, guided by a professor, who will show her that there is different and intriguing sides to sex. If she can possibly immerse herself into this world of kinky sex, then she might be able to find a way to work behind the scenes. This killer will test her ability to adapt, never quite knowing what is going to happen from one moment to the next. Can she trust the professor, and what exactly has he gotten her into?
There are a number of reasons a woman may choose online submission. It's a good way to ease into the community by making friends and observing other people at a safe distance. Creating an online persona allows women to keep their real names and identifiers private. This not only helps maintain physical safety but also gives her the freedom to talk about sexual fantasies and naughty ideas without fearing judgment from other people or consequences on the job. Online submission also allows for a sexual experience rooted in the world of fantasy. A woman can take on any role or persona she wants, and perform acts she would not be willing or able to do in real life. She can express emotion, devotion and talk as dirty as she likes without feeling self-conscious or uncomfortable. While the scenarios sometimes described in online submission can be pure fantasy (seemingly endless sexual romps with multiple orgasms and no pain or soreness), the feelings of lust, love, loyalty, friendship, and arousal are all very real and can be a part of a vibrant sexual life. This Submissive Training guide will take you into the world of online submission, along with safety protocols and techniques for making the digital fantasy a physical reality. You will also learn how to make the transition from online submission to a real life meeting.
Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don't know how to get started? The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn't dirty. There's nothing shameful or wrong about it. Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that's completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it's done. Hearing the words, screamed, moaned, whimpered, or whispered just flat out does it for most men. Women like to hear the words and imagine what those words or phrases will mean to them, how their partner will react, or how something will feel, even seconds or milliseconds beforehand, giving their brains time to process the possibilities, thus heightening the sensations. In this guide you will learn 131 tried-and-tested, proven-to-work phrases you can use for getting your partner in the mood, during foreplay, during & after love making. Both for-man & for-woman phrases are included. You will learn many ways to get started talking dirty and how to build it up gradually so you are comfortable & sound confident when you say them. Using correctly they will make your lover addicted to your voice & drive him/her wild in bed.
Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity. Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are distinct roles and categories that developed to help women define their preferences and find like-minded people and playmates. Women in BDSM relationships no longer have to start with the basic tenets of submission to wrap that skin around their differences. Now you can look into the whole spectrum of submissive behavior and find the place you feel most fulfilled and comfortable. From women who enjoy the occasional bondage session handcuffed to their headboard to the girls who want to be fed out of a bowl and locked in a crate at night - there is a place for everyone. In this Submissive Training guide we will look at twelve subcultures of submission (including the New Misogyny), explaining the overall principles and practices of each one and illustrating the pros and cons inherent in each style of sexual diversity. All people are different and you may not find one that covers everything you like, or don't like - but chances are you'll see something in one of these subcultures that makes you say, "That's what I want."
The world is full of advice on how to charge, or re-charge, our sexual relationships, but nothing adds more of a jolt to a couple than when they say those three lovely words: Let's have anal. Anal sex is a sensual and high-powered addition to your sexual repertoire. This form of sexuality is one of the most intimate personal connections a couple can have. Considered taboo by some modern societies, it is often elusive, and misunderstood. Better Anal Sex is a guide that helps demystify the process and provide some history, biology and tips on how to have a great experience with the forbidden frolic. It will show you how much power, pleasure and potential lies in anal sex. Following these tips and techniques, there is no reason you can't have that ultimate pleasure in your sexual repertoire as well.
There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship - the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey - are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins. In "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 2," I listed 25 things you must know about your new sub if you want to create a satisfying relationship with a devoted submissive. It's not enough to just ask "What do you like?" or "Would you like to be my sub?" You need to know things about your sub that are deeper, more practical and helpful. Without the knowledge of these 25 things, you may be able to create momentarily excitement but it will surly turn into a frustrating short-term relationship headed for drama, disaster and end. Following this guide allows your sub to communicate freely and provides a mechanism for her to reveal her true self - even if she doesn't have the words to do so. There are a million things subs want their Doms to know. These questions will help your sub tell you.
A Dom/sub relationship doesn't just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to "fit" one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read "50 Shades of Grey" and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship - trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life.
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