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There is one fundamental thing that has changed in our societies
since 1950: life has got longer. Over the last few generations, 20
or 30 years have been added to the duration of our lives. But after
the age of 50, human beings experience a kind of suspension: no
longer young, not really old, they are, as it were, weightless. It
is a reprieve that leaves life open like a swinging door. The
increase in life expectancy is a tremendous step forward that
upsets everything: relations between generations, patterns of
family life, the very meaning of our identity and our destiny. This
reprieve is both exciting and frightening. The deadlines are
getting shorter, the possibilities are shrinking, but there are
still discoveries, surprises and upsetting love affairs. Time has
become a paradoxical ally: instead of killing us, it carries us
forward. What to do with this ambiguous gift? Is it only a question
of living longer or living more intensely? To continue along the
same path or to branch out and start again? What about remarriage,
a new career? How to avoid the weariness of living, the melancholy
of the twilight years, how to get through great joys and great
pains? Nourished by both reflections and statistics, drawing on the
sources of literature, the arts and history, this book proposes a
philosophy of longevity based not on resignation but on resolution.
In short, an art of living this life to the full. Is there not a
profound joy in being alive at the age when our ancestors already
had one foot in the grave? This book is dedicated to all those who
dream of a new spring in the autumn of life, and want to put off
winter as long as they can.
Today we like to think that marriage is a free choice based on
love: that we freely choose whom to marry and that we do so, not so
much for survival or social advantage, but for love. The invention
of marriage for love inverted the old relationship between love and
marriage. In the past, marriage was sacred, and love, if it existed
at all, was a consequence of marriage; today, love is sacred and
marriage is secondary. But now marriage appears to be becoming
increasingly superfluous. For the past forty years or so, the
number of weddings has been declining, the number of divorces
exploding and the number of unmarried individuals and couples
growing, while single-parent families are becoming more numerous.
Love has triumphed over marriage but now it is destroying it from
inside. So has the ideal of marriage for love failed, and has love
finally been liberated from the shackles of marriage? In this
brilliant and provocative book Pascal Bruckner argues that the old
tension between love and marriage has not been resolved in favour
of love, it has simply been displaced onto other levels. Even if it
seems more straightforward, the contemporary landscape of love is
far from euphoric: as in the past, infidelity, loss and betrayal
are central to the plots of modern love, and the disenchantment is
all the greater because marriages are voluntary and not imposed.
But the collapse of the ideal of marriage for love is not
necessarily a cause for remorse, because it demonstrates that love
retains its subversive power. Love is not a glue to be put in the
service of the institution of marriage: it is an explosive that
blows up in our faces, dynamite pure and simple.
The planet is sick. Human beings are guilty of damaging it. We have
to pay. Today, that is the orthodoxy throughout the Western world.
Distrust of progress and science, calls for individual and
collective self-sacrifice to save the planet and cultivation of
fear: behind the carbon commissars, a dangerous and
counterproductive ecological catastrophism is gaining ground.
Modern society s susceptibility to this kind of thinking derives
from what Bruckner calls the seductive attraction of disaster, as
exemplified by the popular appeal of disaster movies. But
ecological catastrophism is harmful in that it draws attention away
from other, more solvable problems and injustices in the world in
order to focus on something that is portrayed as an Apocalypse.
Rather than preaching catastrophe and pessimism, we need to develop
a democratic and generous ecology that addresses specific problems
in a practical way.
The planet is sick. Human beings are guilty of damaging it. We
have to pay. Today, that is the orthodoxy throughout the Western
world. Distrust of progress and science, calls for individual and
collective self-sacrifice to 'save the planet' and cultivation of
fear: behind the carbon commissars, a dangerous and
counterproductive ecological catastrophism is gaining ground.
Modern society's susceptibility to this kind of thinking derives
from what Bruckner calls "the seductive attraction of disaster," as
exemplified by the popular appeal of disaster movies. But
ecological catastrophism is harmful in that it draws attention away
from other, more solvable problems and injustices in the world in
order to focus on something that is portrayed as an Apocalypse.
Rather than preaching catastrophe and pessimism, we need to develop
a democratic and generous ecology that addresses specific problems
in a practical way.
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