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A New York Times Bestseller Acclaimed psychologists Randy Frost and
Gail Sketetee's groundbreaking study on the compulsion of hoarding,
"Stuff invites readers to reevaluate their desire for things"
(Boston Globe). What possesses someone to save every scrap of paper
that's ever come into his home? What compulsions drive a woman like
Irene, whose hoarding cost her her marriage? Or Ralph, whose
imagined uses for castoff items like leaky old buckets almost lost
him his house? Or Jerry and Alvin, wealthy twin bachelors who
filled up matching luxury apartments with countless pieces of fine
art, not even leaving themselves room to sleep? When Frost and
Steketee became the first scientists to study hoarding, they
expected to find a few sufferers. Instead, they uncovered an
epidemic, treating hundreds of patients and fielding thousands of
calls from the families of others, exploring the compulsion through
a series of compelling case studies in the vein of Oliver Sacks.
With vivid portraits that show us the traits by which you can
identify a hoarder--piles on sofas and beds that make the furniture
useless, houses that can be navigated only by following small paths
called goat trails, vast piles of paper that the hoarders "churn"
but never discard, even collections of animals and garbage--Frost
and Steketee explain the causes and outline the often ineffective
treatments for the disorder.They also illuminate the pull that
possessions exert on all of us. Whether we're savers, collectors,
or compulsive cleaners, none of us is free of the impulses that
drive hoarders to the extremes in which they live. For the six
million sufferers, their relatives and friends, and all the rest of
us with complicated relationships to our things, Stuff answers the
question of what happens when our stuff starts to own us.
Is your perfectionism causing you anxiety, stress, and worry? If
you identify as a perfectionist, you may not see your perfectionism
as a problem. But striving for unrealistic standards, basing your
self-worth on meeting those standards, and engaging in persistent
self-criticism will ultimately lead to anxiety, stress, worry,
burnout, and unhappiness. So, how can you distinguish between
"helpful" and "hurtful" perfectionism and stop holding yourself and
others to unrealistically high standards? Written by two clinical
psychologists, The Anxious Perfectionist shines a much-needed light
on the hidden costs of "being the best," and offers essential
skills based in acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) to help you
cope with the anxiety that is driven by your perfectionism. You'll
learn how your "need to be perfect" can actually hinder your
productivity, and keep you from reaching your goals. You'll also
learn skills to help you gain distance from negative self-talk and
criticism, let go of unhelpful and self-limiting labels such as
"success" or "failure," and give yourself and others permission to
make mistakes while still honoring your high aspirations. If you're
struggling with feelings of anxiety and stress, and suspect your
perfectionism may be to blame, this guide will show you how to stop
getting in the way of your own success, and live a life guided by
your deepest values.
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