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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Adoption & tracing birth parents
Adopting a child can be an exciting and anxious time in prospective
parents' lives. There are rooms to decorate and clothes and toys to
buy. There are many preparations to make before welcoming the new
arrival. In "Before You Finalize the Adoption-The Pre-Adoption
Workbook," author Joyce Vrooman provides advice and information for
parents who are thinking about adopting a child.
Based on personal experience, Vrooman developed this workbook to
guide parents through the adoption process to ensure they are
knowledgeable and informed. In addition, Vrooman discusses
information that parents need to know so the child will receive the
proper counseling, therapy, medical treatments, or educational
assistance.
Loaded with an array of helpful details, "Before You Finalize
the Adoption-The Pre-Adoption Workbook" contains forms, checklists,
worksheets, and questionnaires to help adoptive parents learn
everything about their new child prior to the finalization of the
adoption. All information pertaining to this child and their
adoption is contained in one book.
A classic and the first to deal with how sealed and open records
affect adoptees, birth parents and adoptive parents. Originally
published in 1978," ... it is as true and open as the changes
advocated ... comprehensive, factual, forward looking, totally
honest, readable and thoughful ..." Los Angeles Times.
An insightful account of a woman's perseverance through adoption
secrecy and red tape, Shadows in Paradise traces Carolann Dowding's
search for her biological family. Despite a wholesome upbringing by
her adoptive family in a beautiful Queensland, Australia, Carolann
is compelled to reconcile the silences of her past. As an adult,
she reconnects with her birth mother and describes the
unpredictable, awkward struggles of their relationship until later
in life, a truce is drawn between them. Through her own
determination, and with a boost from a private investigator,
Carolann courageously pursues a trail of clues leading to her
mysterious birth father, changing her life forever. Illuminated by
compassion, tragedy and gratitude which span the generations,
Shadows in Paradise reveals the breadth of our need for truth and
connection.
'A writer of genuine accomplishment' Good Book Guide A story of
adoption and queer parenting from the award-winning author of The
Spring of Kasper Meier, The Other Hoffmann Sister and An Honest Man
A pause. 'Ah, Herr Fergusson. It's Frau Schwenk.' Our social
worker, I now understood. 'Thank you for getting back to me. I'm
calling because we have a little boy, four weeks old, who needs a
family.' In 2018, after the introduction of marriage equality in
Germany, Ben Fergusson and his German husband Tom became one of the
first same-sex married couples to adopt in the country. In Tales
from the Fatherland Fergusson reflects on his long journey to
fatherhood and the social changes that enabled it. He uses his
outsider status as both a gay father and a parent adopting in a
foreign country to explore the history and sociology of fatherhood
and motherhood around the world, queer parenting and adoption and,
ultimately, the meaning of family and love. Tales from the
Fatherland makes an impassioned case for the value of diversity in
family life, arguing that diverse families are good for all
families and that misogyny lies at the heart of many of the
struggles of straight and queer families alike.
Tilly hates her stepfather, Dave. He abuses her mother, but she
refuses to leave him. Frightened for her own safety, Tilly asks to
go into foster care and is placed with Cathy. Tilly arrives with a
graze on her cheek and Cathy becomes increasingly concerned by
Dave's behaviour, especially when she learns he has been showering
Tilly with gifts. While she's busy looking after Tilly and trying
to keep her safe, Cathy is also worried about her own daughter,
Lucy. She has a very difficult decision to make that will affect
the rest of her life, and Cathy hopes she makes the right choice.
Perfect for fans of Maggie Hartley, Lisa Stone and Ann Cusack!
Not Exactly As Planned is a captivating, deeply moving account of
adoption and the unexpected challenges of raising a child with
fetal alcohol syndrome. Linda Rosenbaum's life takes a major turn
when her son, adopted at birth, is diagnosed with irreversible
brain damage. With love, hope and all the medical knowledge she can
accumulate, she sets out to change his prognosis and live with as
much joy as she can while struggling to accept her new reality. Not
Exactly As Planned is more than a story of motherlove. It's about
birdwatching, bar mitzvahs, the collision of '60's ideals with the
real world, family secrets and woodcarving.
With knowledge and compassion, Caring for Your Adopted Child offers
the wisdom that adoptive parents need to provide the best possible
care for their children. Whether a child joins a family through
domestic adoption, international adoption, or foster care, he or
she may have needs that require additional consideration. The
coauthors, both adoptive parents, weave professional and personal
experiences with essential information on: ; Partnering with a
pediatrician before adoption ; Helping a child transition into a
family ; Understanding health issues and conditions that are more
prevalent in children who are adopted ; Supporting a child's
emotional health and attachment ; And promoting positive adoption
conversation as a child matures This comprehensive resource offers
trusted parenting advice from a leading adoption medicine expert
and the American Academy of Pediatrics, focusing on the physical
and emotional well-being of adopted children.
Imagine this. You're 50 years old. An only child, from a Jewish
family. The people youthought of as your mother and father are
dead. Then, in the middle of the night you get a phone call from
the other side of the planet telling you they've found your mother.
Alive. Your real mother. Suddenly, you become the oldest of seven
across two families. All your assumptions about yourself are swept
away. From Ground Zero, you begin a journey of rediscovery to
reclaim your identity. But the truths you gather are relative,
subjective. Like speculating on the nature of the universe from the
perspective of one planet and then again from another. Making each
world view your own. My Planets is in fact a suite of works - a
physical book; an enhanced eBook incorporating images, music, sound
and video with spoken word and text, a film. Like most of David P
Reiter's work, it challenges the boundaries, changing shape with
the message, inviting the reader to time-travel on a Tardis of the
mind. Making his planets your own.
'Exquisite... a deeply insightful memoir which charts our
fundamental longings for place and identity, and ultimately our
yearnings for love.' Helena Kennedy 'Extremely moving...an
unusually thoughtful take on becoming a mother, enabled by removing
babyhood and biology.' Guardian How to find an outlet for a love
that demands expression? Single, in her mid-forties and having
experienced a sudden early menopause, the realisation comes to
Peggy quietly, and clearly, she decides to adopt a child. But the
preparation is arduous and the scrutiny intense. There are
questions about past lives, about capability and expectations.
Asking big questions about identity and belonging, as well as about
what makes a mother - and a home - this is a beautiful meditation
on how the legacies of childhood might be overcome by a mother's
determination to love. 'A remarkable book...wise and arresting'
Sarah Winman
Each adoption is a unique event for the people who are personally
involved, or for those who feel connected to the parents-to-be. The
adoption period takes you to a new world and can wear you down
emotionally if you are not prepared for what can be expected. It is
not the regular pregnancy with which some people like to compare
it. It is a pregnancy between cold bureaucracy on one side and the
daily feelings of vulnerable tenderness on the other. Many books
have been written about the ins and outs of pregnancies but there
was never a book to prepare oneself for that very special time we
call adoption. Geeri Bakker takes you there with her positive
attitude and her sense of humor. She takes you along the
unpredictable, uncomfortable and sometimes seemingly endless path
that is the adoption procedure. THE ADOPTION HANDBOOK teaches
adoptive parents-to-be how to face stress in its many appearances
during the sometimes dark and winding road that leads to their
adoptive child. To illustrate the book, Geeri Bakker shares her own
story of the procedures that she and her husband endured when
adopting their two children. It is not the (Dutch) procedure that
makes this story so touching and at times breathtaking. It is the
way that stress burrows into hearts that desperately wish to adopt
a child; something that anyone going through an adoption procedure
will recognize. THE ADOPTION HANDBOOK helps adoptive parents
acknowledge their feelings of stress during their long-term
'pregnancy' and deal with them: facing the main goal, and feeling
energetically able, both physically and mentally, to 'conceive'
their child when the time is right. It is only normal that pregnant
couples gather information to prepare themselves. So now it is time
that adoptive parents prepare themselves, as well. For the
well-being of this special child, given to you to have, hold, love,
cherish, and to let it grow and grow up in your family.
The panda-tastic sequel to Sarah Horne's huggable debut, Panda at
the Door! 'Adorable fun!' SARAH MCINTYRE Life is good for Callum's
family and Pudding, their panda. Pudding and Dad's hit stage show,
Panda-mime, has been wowing audiences - but then an ambitious
journalist, Penni P, twigs that Pudding's a real-life talking
panda. If she exposes the truth, her story will be everywhere.
Penni woos the family with false promises of fame and fortune in
Hollywood in order to find her proof. Soon, everyone's starry-eyed
except Callum. Can he expose Penni and stop her from breaking the
story that could tear his family apart? The follow-up to
bestselling illustrator Sarah Horne's huggable debut Panda at the
Door. A modern-day family adventure: Paddington Bear meets Mary
Poppins! A funny, lively story which touches on themes of family,
belonging and truth - perfect for readers aged 6+. Quirky
integrated illustrations throughout.
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