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Help your little one unlock their inner courage! Riley the Brave is
the story of a little bear with big feelings! Join this super-cool,
cape-wearing cub as he embarks on a journey to face his fears.
Riley is joined by all of his animal friends who care for him as he
faces his difficult feelings. Along the way, Riley learns how
sometimes, being tough or loud isn't the bravest thing to be -
sometimes it's asking for help, or being brave enough to let
someone into your heart. Written for any child who is looking to
unlock their inner courage, and particularly those healing from
difficult life experiences or trauma, this book creates a safe
space for conversations about complex thoughts and feelings. It
also features an educational afterword for grown-ups which explains
how the book helps children, and how to get the most out of it.
Shortlisted for the William Hill Sports Book of the Year Award 2022
Craig Bromfield was just 13 years old when Brian Clough, on a whim,
took him and his older brother Aaron in. They came from Southwick,
a depressed area of Sunderland, where they lived with their abusive
stepfather, and from where they longed to escape. After initially
meeting Clough while out begging for money, Clough later invited
the brothers to stay at his house. From there a relationship formed
which would see Craig living with the Cloughs for nine years, where
he was a first-hand witness to the many aspects of Clough's
character - his gruffness, his humour, his big-heartedness. This is
a beautiful, inspirational story, which has never before been told,
about Clough's gentleness and capacity for generosity. Discover a
very different side to this iconic man, one away from the cameras
and the football, which shows him for the person he really was.
What to do when you've been called to adopt and practical advice to
make it workMary Ostyn married her sweetheart at nineteen, and the
pair had four kids by their eighth anniversary. When their youngest
was three, God opened their eyes to the needs of orphans all over
the world-and answered Mary's longing for another baby. Over the
next nine years the couple adopted two boys from Korea and four
girls from Ethiopia.Ostyn, a beloved adoption writer and blogger,
shares-alongside stories from other adoptive families-the practical
tools and resources she uses to thrive as an adoptive mom. In
Forever Mom, she reveals how to:build heart connections prepare
your other children for new siblingshelp babies, toddlers, and
older children settle in implement attachment parentingaddress
misbehavior while remaining connectednurture your marriage in the
midst of it allWhether you're the parent of an adopted child or
interested in pursuing adoption, Ostyn's warm advice and fresh
perspective will inspire, inform, and affirm. You'll walk away
confident you will be the perfect mom for whatever child God brings
into your life.
Like cowboys turning in the saddle to look at where they came from,
Searching for the Castle documents the backtrail of author Barbara
Leigh Ohrstrom's adoption. It begins with her urgency as an
eighteen-year-old woman initiating her search for her birth
parents. Her recollection includes court petitions, letters,
Division of Social Service documents, and other original documents
usually buried behind the lock and key of the law. In this memoir,
she narrates the unearthing of her history and that of her family.
Some of her discoveries are filled with pain, while others are
joyful, including locating sisters, another brother, and eventually
nieces and a nephew. A story of how one woman comes to terms with
her identity, Searching for the Castle tells of real people doing
the best they can to live and love in the often heartbreaking
circumstances of life. As Ohrstrom shares her journey to find her
birth parents, she reveals her emotions throughout the process,
discovering that her identity is self-created, but also that her
being is governed, in part, by her ancestors and family lines.
Searching for the Castle communicates the message that love creates
families and that the family to which Ohrstrom belonged in foster
care gave her a mother, father, and family filled with love and
decency.
Breakthrough Treatment Offers New Hope for Recovery
Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition with 3 new chapters on
adolescents
"Gentling" represents a new paradigm in the therapeutic approach
to children who have experienced physical, emotional, and sexual
abuse and have acquired Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result.
This text redefines PTSD in child abuse survivors by identifying
child-specific behavioral signs commonly seen, and offers a means
to individualize treatment and measure therapeutic outcomes through
understanding each suffering child's unique symptom profile. The
practical and easily understood Gentling approaches and techniques
can be easily learned by clinicians, parents, foster parents,
teachers and all other care givers of these children to effect real
and lasting healing. With this book, you will: Learn child-specific
signs of PTSD in abused children Learn how to manage the often
intense reactivity seen in stress episodes Gain the practical,
gentle, and effective treatment tools that really help these
children Use the Child Stress Profile (CSP) to guide treatment and
measure outcomes Deploy handy 'Quick Teach Sheets' that can be
copied and handed to foster parents, teachers, and social workers
Clinicians Acclaim for "Gentling"
"In this world where children are often disenfranchised in trauma
care--and all too often treated with the same techniques as
adults--Krill makes a compelling case for how to adapt proven
post-trauma treatment to the world of a child."
--Michele Rosenthal, HealMyPTSD.com
"Congratulations to Krill when he says that 'being gentle' cannot
be over-emphasized in work with the abused."
--Andrew D. Gibson, PhD Author of "Got an Angry Kid? Parenting
Spike, A Seriously Difficult Child"
"William Krill's book is greatly needed. PTSD is the most common
aftermath of child abuse and often domestic abuse as well. There is
a critical scarcity of mental-health professionals who know how to
recognize child abuse, let alone treat it."
--Fr. Heyward B. Ewart, III, Ph.D., St. James the Elder
Theological Seminary, author of "AM I BAD? Recovering From Abuse"w
Cover photo by W.A. Krill/ Fighting Chance Photography
Learn more at www.Gentling.org
From the New Horizons in Therapy Series at Loving Healing Press
www.LovingHealing.com
Available in hardcover, trade paper, and eBook editions
FAM001010 Family & Relationships: Abuse - Child Abuse
PSY022040 Psychology: Psychopathology - Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder
FAM004000 Family & Relationships: Adoption &
Fostering
The Children Money Can Buy covers decades of dramatic societal
change in foster care and adoption, including the pendulum swings
regarding open adoption and attitudes toward birth parents, the
gradual acceptance of gay and lesbian adoption, the proliferation
of unregulated adoption facilitators in the U.S., ethical concerns
related to international adoption, and the role money inevitably
plays in the foster care and adoption systems. Special attention is
given to the practice of "baby brokering" and the accompanying
exorbitant finder's fees and financial incentives encouraging birth
mothers to relinquish (or pretend that they are planning to
relinquish) their babies that permeate much of U.S. infant adoption
today. The Children Money Can Buy illuminates the worlds of foster
care and adoption through the personal stories Moody witnessed and
experienced in her many years working in the foster care and
adoption systems. These compelling stories about real people and
situations illustrate larger life lessons about the way our society
values-and fails to value-parents and children. They explore the
root of ethical problems which are not only financially driven but
reflect society's basic belief that some children are more valuable
than others. Finally, Moody makes a plea for change and gives
suggestions about how the foster care and adoption systems could
work together for the benefit of children and families.
A "New York Times" Notable Book
"Casts a searing eye on the labyrinth that is the American foster
care system." -- NPR's "On Point"
Who are the children of foster care? What, as a country, do we owe
them? Cris Beam, a foster mother herself, spent five years immersed
in the world of foster care looking into these questions and
tracing firsthand stories. The result is "To the End of June," an
unforgettable portrait that takes us deep inside the lives of
foster children in their search for a stable, loving family.
Beam shows us the intricacies of growing up in the system--the
back-and-forth with agencies, the rootless shuffling between homes,
the emotionally charged tug between foster and birth parents, the
terrifying push out of foster care and into adulthood. Humanizing
and challenging a broken system, "To the End of June" offers a
tribute to resiliency and hope for real change.
" A] powerful . . . and refreshing read." -- "Chicago Tribune"
"A sharp critique of foster-care policies and a searching
exploration of the meaning of family." -- "Publishers Weekly,"
starred review
"Heart-rending and tentatively hopeful." -- "Salon"
Little Jamey, 21/2 years old, is placed with experienced foster
carer, Cathy Glass, as an emergency. The police and social services
have no choice but to remove two-year-old Jamey from home after his
mother leaves him alone all night to go out partying. When he first
arrives with foster carer Cathy Glass, he is scared, hungry and
withdrawn, craving the affection he has been denied for so long. He
is small for his age and unsteady on his feet - a result of being
left for long periods in his cot. Cathy and her family find Jamey
very easy to love, but as he settles in and makes progress, a new
threat emerges. Coronavirus and lockdown change everything.
This adoption resource contains a large amount of practical yet
thoughtful advice and brings to the attention of adoptive or
potential adoptive parent considerations that may not have been
obvious before reading the book. (Relationships)
This practice-focused guide introduces The SmartStart Toolbox as a
remedial program to help mental health professionals and adoptive
parents promote the educational and social development of
internationally adopted children aged 4-8. Recognizing the
cultural, emotional, and cognitive needs of children who have
experienced a fundamental change in their social situation of
development following international adoption, The SmartStart
Toolbox provides a range of family-based remedial activities which
stimulate children's thinking and learning while creating
scaffolded attachment opportunities during early interactions with
their adoptive families. The volume details the notions of
"psychological tools" (Vygotsky) and "mediated learning experience"
(Feuerstein) which form the theoretical foundations for The
SmartStart Toolbox and offers step-by-step guidance on conducting
activities and adapting them to the individual child. The
SmartStart methodology can also be used by professionals for
diagnostic purposes. This text will benefit researchers in child
psychology, as well as clinicians, family therapists, social
workers, and educators with an interest in child development,
cognitive and language enhancement, and adoption and fostering more
broadly. Adoptive parents will also benefit from this book and its
focus on themes of attachment, parenting, and the development of
social cognition.
A family with a dark secret. A child who refuses to speak. Rosie
must help her before it's too late. Nine-year-old Caitlin has a
secret, but she cannot tell anyone about it. When her mother is
sectioned under the Mental Health Act she and her three siblings
have to go and live with her grandmother Julie and grandad Ryan.
Caitlin finds her new living conditions challenging: cat poo on the
carpet, rubbish everywhere and the constant stare of her grandad -
she retreats more and more into herself. When foster carer Rosie
Lewis meets Caitlin she knows something is deeply wrong with this
little girl, who is withdrawn, afraid and refuses to speak. Rosie
decides to take her in, but Caitlin's silence continues, and Rosie
knows she must act. Why is Caitlin so afraid to speak? Could it be
that the family has a dark secret? One that is so shocking it can
no longer be hidden?
The experience of adoption-both adopting and being adopted-can stir
up deep emotional pain, often related to loss and early trauma. A
for Adoption provides insight and support to those families and
individuals facing these complex processes and challenges. Drawing
on both a psychoanalytic, theoretical framework and first-hand
accounts of adopters, adoptees, and professionals within the
adoption process, Alison Roy responds to the need for further and
consistent support for adoptive parents and children, to help
inform and understand the reality of their everyday lives. This
book explores both the current and historical context of adoption,
as well as its depiction within literature, before addressing
issues such as conflict in relationships, the impact of significant
trauma and loss, attachment and the importance of early
relationships, and contact with birth families. Uniquely, this book
addresses the experiences of, and provides support for, both
adoptive professionals and families. It focuses on understanding
rather than apportioning blame, and responds to a plea from a
parent who requested "a book to help me understand my child
better".
America's foster care system has a noble goal-to care for children
that for various reasons can no longer be cared for by their
families-but years of inattention and inadequate funding have left
many foster youth in a precarious state. This resource provides a
comprehensive and authoritative overview of the American foster
care system. Areas of coverage include the scaffolding of foster
care systems in the various states (each of which operate their own
unique systems through their social service agencies); conditions
under which children are taken out of their families of origin and
placed in foster care; the experiences of both young children and
older teens in foster homes; challenges for foster children who
"age out" of the system; and proposals to reform and improve foster
care across the nation. Geared for students, this book contains
chapters devoted to the background and history of foster care in
America; the systems's problems, controversies, and solutions;
original essay contributions exploring various facets of the
system; profiles of leading foster care activists and
organizations; governmental data and excerpts of primary documents
on the topic; and an annotated list of important books, scholarly
journals, and nonprint sources for further research. It closes with
a detailed chronology, glossary of terms, and subject index.
Provides a complete, accessible explanation of how the foster care
system works Emphasizes the experiences of children placed in
foster care Highlights efforts and proposals aimed at improving the
experiences and outcomes for children and families interacting with
America's child welfare system Details the challenges that face
foster children that "age out" of the system
"The power of love can save a life"
One rainy night on the Zambian savannah, a mother's heart moves the
hand of God. From a land laid waste by disease and drought emerges
this incredible story of courage, suffering, and the ultimate
triumph of the power of God's love. This is the true story of an
infant born in the bush of southern Zambia at the height of the
worst drought in years. That tiny life was awaiting the traditional
burial--lying on the chest of her mother, who died during delivery.
For months the relentless claw of death would try to snatch another
victim, but God had a purpose for her life.
Through Tedd Galloway's eloquent and inspiring words you will learn
that:
God's timing is perfect, but not always understood Genuine
Christian love is colorblind Love is costly and can be painful
Every life is precious to God The cost of loving doesn't compare to
the joy that comes
Our world would be a different place if God's people saw each other
through the eyes of the mother in this story. Be inspired as you
read about the body of Christ not just talking about loving each
other, but actually demonstrating it.
Tedd Galloway is a former pastor and missionary who served as a
pastor in six churches. For three years he worked in Zambia, where
he oversaw property development for his denomination. He has been
married to Donna for thirty-nine years and is the father of three
daughters. Due to a spinal injury, today he finds himself writing
and guest speaking.
Instructions Not Supplied is the account of one family's experience
in adopting three children, each of whom turned out to have special
needs, and the challenges they have faced along the way. Some of
the difficult situations they have faced are simply part of a
family life; others are as a direct result of the children's
disabilities and difficulties, including autism, attention deficit
hyper-activity disorder, foetal alcohol syndrome, attachment
disorder and sensory issues. A story of adoption, autism and coming
together as a family, this book describes with honesty and humour
how the behaviour of the children has often challenged the adults
around them. It also explores the process of diagnosis and the
difficulty of getting the right support both for the children and
their parents, with insights for all parents and teachers of
children with complex needs. The book is a unique insight into the
twin challenges of adoption and disability, an invaluable read for
prospective adopters and adoptive parents as well as natural
parents of children with additional support needs. It is equally
valuable for practitioners, as it gives an insight into the family
life of those parenting such children and how best to support them.
If you would like a baby NOW, but things just aren't happening,
hang in there -- We have the solution.
Frustration, anger, jealousy, and despair are common feelings in
this situation. However, holding on to these emotions too long can
further impair the ability to create your family. "Getting to Baby:
Creating your Family Faster, Easier and Less Expensive through
Fertility, Adoption, or Surrogacy" will show you how to continue
your journey with hope, optimism, and success.
Jennifer and Victoria have been there and done that. The heartfelt
experience that they went through for five years to create their
family is touching, inspiring, and provides a lot of insight on how
to create your family.
Jennifer and Victoria successfully went through the fertility
process and then suffered a miscarriage at 17 weeks; tried adoption
and held a baby for three days before returning home empty handed;
and then discovered the secret of success through surrogacy.
Katherine and Christopher, beautiful, healthy twins were born less
than 12 months from when Jennifer and Victoria met and interviewed
their surrogate.
Whether you want to have your children through fertility
treatments, adoption, or surrogacy, Jennifer and Victoria have
learned and are sharing a lot of shortcuts that will help you save
time and money.
You don't have to be a celebrity to achieve your dreams of having
a family, but we can learn from them by observing which options
were successful for them. Nicole Kidman and Celine Dion used
fertility treatments to have children. Angelina Jolie and and Rosie
O'Donnell chose to adopt children. An increasing number of
celebrities are now choosing surrogacy, to include Sarah Jessica
Parker and Dennis Quaid.
Before you continue to spend money and waste time, read "Getting
to Baby: Creating your Family Faster, Easier and Less Expensive
through Fertility, Adoption, or Surrogacy" and use it as a resource
to successfully create the family you deserve.
Therapeutic parenting is a deeply nurturing parenting style, and is
especially effective for children with attachment difficulties, or
who experienced childhood trauma. This book provides everything you
need to know in order to be able to effectively therapeutically
parent. Providing a model of intervention, The A-Z of Therapeutic
Parenting gives parents or caregivers an easy to follow process to
use when responding to issues with their children. The following
A-Z covers 60 common problems parents face, from acting
aggressively to difficulties with sleep, with advice on what might
trigger these issues, and how to respond. Easy to navigate and
written in a straightforward style, this book is a 'must have' for
all therapeutic parents.
The true story of a 6-year-old boy with a dreadful secret. Oskar's
school teacher raises the alarm. Oskar's mother is abroad and he
has been left in the care of 'friends', but has been arriving in
school hungry, unkempt, and with bruises on his arms, legs and
body. Experienced foster carer Cathy Glass is asked to look after
him, but as the weeks pass her concerns deepen. Oskar is far too
quiet for a child of six and is clearly scared of something or
someone. And who are those men parked outside his school watching
him?
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