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A family built, a family lost. Truth Has a Different Shape is a
story of the power of compassion, of love and loss, revelations and
relationship, and the evolution of self. Growing up in the 1970s
and 1980s, Kari O'Driscoll was taught that strength and stoicism
were one and the same. She was also taught that a girl's job was to
take care of everyone else. For decades, she believed these ideas,
doing everything she could to try and keep the remaining parts of
her family together, systematically anticipating disaster and
fixing catastrophes one by one. Truth Has a Different Shape is one
woman's meditation on how societal and familial expectations of
mothering influenced her sense of self and purpose, as well as her
ideas about caretaking. As an adult, finding herself a caretaker
both to her own children and to her aging parents, O'Driscoll
finally reckons with the childhood trauma that shaped her world.
Adoption, loss, and divorce defined her approach to motherhood, but
in Truth Has a Different Shape, O'Driscoll finally pushes back.
This memoir tracks her progress as she discovers how to truly care
for those she loves without putting herself at risk, using
mindfulness and compassion as tools for healing both herself and
her difficult relationships.
This text helps those who went through the adoption process, or
experienced early childhood trauma, re-examine their life and
realise who they are. It is a book about becoming aware of the
reasons for certain attitudes and behaviours.
Twelve year old Danielle has been excluded from a special school and her former foster family can no longer cope. She arrives as an emergency placement at the home of foster carer Angela, who soon suspects that there is more to the young girl's disruptive behaviour than meets the eye. Can Angela's specialist training unlock the horrors of Danielle's past and help her start a brave new life?
The Girl With Two Lives is the fourth book from well loved foster carer and Sunday Times bestselling author Angela Hart. Another true story from the experienced and bestselling foster carer – sharing the tale of one of the many children she has fostered over the years. A story of the difference that quiet care, a watchful eye and sympathetic ear can make to those children whose upbringing has been less fortunate than others.
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It Was Always You and Me
(Paperback)
Diane Diprospero-Cook; Compiled by Suzanne Blessing; Cover design or artwork by Elle J Rossi
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'A writer of genuine accomplishment' Good Book Guide A story of
adoption and queer parenting from the award-winning author of The
Spring of Kasper Meier, The Other Hoffmann Sister and An Honest Man
A pause. 'Ah, Herr Fergusson. It's Frau Schwenk.' Our social
worker, I now understood. 'Thank you for getting back to me. I'm
calling because we have a little boy, four weeks old, who needs a
family.' In 2018, after the introduction of marriage equality in
Germany, Ben Fergusson and his German husband Tom became one of the
first same-sex married couples to adopt in the country. In Tales
from the Fatherland Fergusson reflects on his long journey to
fatherhood and the social changes that enabled it. He uses his
outsider status as both a gay father and a parent adopting in a
foreign country to explore the history and sociology of fatherhood
and motherhood around the world, queer parenting and adoption and,
ultimately, the meaning of family and love. Tales from the
Fatherland makes an impassioned case for the value of diversity in
family life, arguing that diverse families are good for all
families and that misogyny lies at the heart of many of the
struggles of straight and queer families alike.
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