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A personal account of infertility, IVF & adoption. 'After three
years and a total of nine embryo transfers, Glenn and I are hanging
up our saddles ... For many, three years might seem an insufficient
effort, but I am tired. My body is tired, my mind is tired and most
of all my heart is tired. I still believe that IVF is a modern,
medical miracle ... But I no longer believe it will be our
miracle.' What happens when the quest for a family seems to bring
only tears and despair? As Kylie and her husband Glenn discovered
you simply pick yourself up, take a deep breath and carry on. 'As
harsh as it seems, the adoption process in Western Australia can
only be described as excruciating: intrusive, intense, bureaucratic
and judgemental.' Kylie's struggle to conquer the intricacies and
inconsistencies of the adoption process push both her and Glenn to
the limits of their endurance, and just when all seems lost they
are handed a lifeline that sees their hope of becoming parents
flicker back to life. 'Is it bad news?' 'No, it is very good news
... we have a baby for you, a little boy.' Honest, perceptive and
deeply personal 'From Here to Maternity' is a warm and ultimately
joyful story about one couple's determination to overcome
infertility and bureaucracy and become a family against all the
odds.
For twenty-four years, Ray Martinez served as a police officer in
Fort Collins, Colorado, working everything from minor crimes to
hard-to-solve homicides. But all that time, a personal mystery
nagged at him. Ray was adopted, and he desperately wanted to find
his biological mother. Ray delved into his search in April 2005,
soon after retiring. He was hopeful but not overconfident since his
past searches had always ended in failure. This time, he put the
investigative skills he acquired as a police officer to full use.
By searching through public records, visiting Web sites to study
ancestry, and traveling through small towns in Colorado, Ray
gathered clues with dogged persistence. In the process, he met new
people, developed lasting relationships, and gained a fresh
perspective on life. But by far, the most significant outcome was
finding his mother, four sisters, and brother-the family he had
been without for fifty-four years. "Baby Boy-R" is a heartwarming
story of a son who refuses to give up trying to discover where he
came from and the courageous mother who welcomes back the boy she
thought died at birth.
"The book chronicles not only the adoption of their three children
abroad, but follows each of their children (including their
biological son) into young adulthood. It vividly depicts their
difficulties in raising teenagers in a cross-cultural, transracial
home, and also exposes the frightening conditions facing today's
kids in our public schools, including gang issues, drop outs, and
culture clashes. It provides valuable insights to parents and
non-parents as well. This book was a real eye-opener and awakened
me to the harsh realities our teens must face in what I would have
thought were quality schools. Although told from a parent's point
of view, they very effectively explored the emotions, indeed the
angst, of their teenage children."
--Jo-Anne Weaver, adoptive parent of a Chinese daughter placed by
Los Ninos International, and Senior Acquisitions Editor of
Education and Developmental Psychology for Harcourt Brace.
This revealing and sobering volume brings the big picture of the
HIV/AIDS epidemic into focus. Virtually every aspect of the AIDS
crisis is covered in this 2nd edition of AIDS Crisis in America,
from the basic science of AIDS to demographics and public policy
issues. Using facts and findings on the crisis in the United
States, the authors give an informative and insightful look at the
impact of the epidemic on a variety of populations, including
homosexuals, drug users, women, children, hemophiliacs, and various
ethnic groups. Other featured topics are AIDS activism, the impact
of triple combination therapy, the evolution of public opinion, and
HIV/AIDS and the law. The volume concludes with a list of
organizations, government agencies, hotlines, and internet
resources, as well as other print and nonprint resources. Students
and researchers will find everything they need to know about the
AIDS crisis in this timely work. List of organizations, government
agencies, hotlines, and internet resources Includes other print and
nonprint resources
This practical book explains the process of adopting a child from
Russia, from first contact with a Russian agency through bonding
with the adopted child back at home. Karwowski provides a resource
that parents can carry along as they navigate the paperwork, the
home assessment, court hearings, medical exams, and financial
components of what can otherwise seem like an overwhelming process.
Herself the adoptive parent of two sons from Russia, the author
also details common issues families face as they acclimate their
new child to their home, family, and American culture. Aiming to
break the process into manageable steps, Karwowski incorporates her
own experience as a backdrop. Degreed in both psychology and
sociology, she discusses sensitive issues regarding the child,
which can include issues of abandonment, trust, and attachment. She
presents methods adoptive parents can use to see the signs and cope
with these issues and more. She also addresses misconceptions
commonly held about adoptions from Russia, the country to which she
traveled four times across two years, to adopt her sons. In
addition to adoptive parents seeking children from any foreign
country, this work will also appeal to students of counseling,
family studies, social work, and family or child psychology.
We were all full of expectation as we waited patiently at
Melbourne's international airport. I hadn't slept properly for
weeks. All of us had been waiting for this moment for months. Our
fourth child was soon to arrive ...This is the story of 18-year-old
Kartya Wunderle, one of 64 babies flown out of Taiwan in the early
80s. Babies stolen from their mothers or sold by their families and
adopted out to unsuspecting overseas parents. At 15, Kartya began
to use heroin in an attempt to take away the pain of not knowing
who she was and where she came from. Her distraught parents watched
their beautiful daughter slowly slip away from them, spiralling
towards a tragic and almost inevitable conclusion. Out of
desperation and fired by an unconditional love for her daughter,
Nola Wunderle resolved to find Kartya's birth mother and change the
ending to Kartya's story. An amazing search for one woman in a
country of 22 million began. The result was nothing short of
miraculous, and made Kartya a national hero in her homeland. Lost
Daughter is a moving testament to the power of love and the
strength of the human spirit, one that will humble and inspire all
who read it.
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Lucky Girl
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Mei-Ling Hopgood
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In a true story of family ties, journalist Mei-Ling Hopgood, one of
the first wave of Asian adoptees to arrive in America, comes face
to face with her past when her Chinese birth family suddenly
requests a reunion after more than two decades.
In 1974, a baby girl from Taiwan arrived in America, the newly
adopted child of a loving couple in Michigan. Mei-Ling Hopgood had
an all-American upbringing, never really identifying with her Asian
roots or harboring a desire to uncover her ancestry. She believed
that she was lucky to have escaped a life that was surely one of
poverty and misery, to grow up comfortable with her doting parents
and brothers.
Then, when she's in her twenties, her birth family comes calling.
Not the rural peasants she expected, they are a boisterous, loving,
bossy, complicated middle-class family who hound her daily-by
phone, fax, and letter, in a language she doesn't understand-until
she returns to Taiwan to meet them. As her sisters and parents pull
her into their lives, claiming her as one of their own, the
devastating secrets that still haunt this family begin to emerge.
Spanning cultures and continents, "Lucky Girl" brings home a tale
of joy and regret, hilarity, deep sadness, and great discovery as
the author untangles the unlikely strands that formed her
destiny.
Jessica Keebler, director of the Los Angeles County Bureau of
Adoptions in 1955, faces an almost insurmountable crisis. There's a
logjam of unadoptable babies and a severe lack of adequate foster
homes for these children. The crux of this issues rests with a
statute in California's adoption law stating ..". an interracial
child is a non-white and may be given only to a Negro family."Since
Negro family applications to adopt are as rare as rain in the
Mojave desert, the backlog of interracial babies threatens the
structure of Keebler's department and her mental health. When Paul
and Anne Barlin, a white family, say they will adopt a child "of
any color, any national origin," Keebler believes she may have
found a way to resolve this backlog of babies.To make this unusual
adoption a reality, she must have the courage to flaunt the law or
stand up to the state legislature and ask them to repeal the law.
Her actions will determine if one at-risk child will be placed in a
loving home. This one case has the potential to change the
landscape of adoption forever.
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