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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Adoption & tracing birth parents
All'inizio del suo viaggio a Pechino per adottare un bambino
cinese, Roberto G. Ferrari non pensava che i venticinque giorni
trascorsi in Cina avrebbero rappresentato un'occasione unica per
osservare da un punto di vista non usuale il grande Paese asiatico.
Ferrari esplora alcune tra le localita piu famose della Cina e si
trova ad interpretare la cultura di quel Paese anche attraverso gli
occhi e le esperienze personali di suo figlio. L'autore racconta la
sua esperienza nel tentativo di rielaborare le proprie emozioni e
nello stesso tempo dare senso alle differenze culturali che si
trova ad osservare. Sia informativo che riflessivo, questo
dettagliato racconto del processo adottivo porta il lettore ad
esplorare la Cina moderna, nel momento in cui la stessa si apre al
mondo occidentale. Via dalla Cina e una preziosissima guida
all'adozione internazionale ma nello stesso tempo offre anche una
rappresentazione non usuale di alcune famose localita cinesi, dai
monumenti dello Shanxi a Piazza Tienanmen. Via dalla Cina descrive
un Paese affascinante ed in rapido cambiamento, visto attraverso
gli occhi di un padre adottivo, per sempre legato alla Cina
attraverso suo figlio.
An Affair with My Mother by Caitriona Palmer: a moving and gripping
story of love, denial and a daughter's quest for the truth.
Caitriona Palmer had a happy childhood in Dublin, raised by loving
adoptive parents. But when she was in her late twenties, she
realized that she had a strong need to know the woman who had given
birth to her. She was able to locate her birth mother, Sarah, and
they developed a strong attachment. But Sarah set one painful
condition to this joyous new relationship: she wished to keep it -
to keep Caitriona - secret from her family, from her friends, from
everyone. Who was Sarah, and why did she want to preserve a
decades-old secret? An Affair with My Mother tells the story of
Caitriona's quest to answer these questions, and of the intense,
furtive 'affair' she and her mother conducted in carefully chosen
locations around Dublin. By turns heartwarming and heartbreaking,
An Affair with My Mother is a searing portrait of the social and
familial forces that left Sarah - and so many other unwed Irish
mothers of her generation - frightened, traumatized and bereft. It
is also a beautifully written account of a remarkable relationship.
'Caitriona Palmer has called out the false shame of her origins,
with a kind of anguished courage that is incredibly moving. An
Affair With My Mother is a forensic account of how it feels to be -
in the interests of Catholic "respectability" - excluded from the
facts of your own life. In its commitment to family love, to joy
and truth, it is a gift.' Anne Enright, winner of the Man Booker
Prize
Susan Silverman grew up with parents who were, both before and
after a devastating loss, atheists. Yet, as a young adult, she
shocked everyone who knew her ( But you were elected Class Flirt in
high school!" ) and became a rabbi. What was not surprising,
however, was that she built her own big, unwieldy family through
both birth and adoption, something she had intended from childhood.
With three daughters and two sons ( We produce girls and import
boys" ), this unique family becomes a metaphor for the world's
contradictions and complexities,a microcosm of the tragedy and joy,
hope and despair, cruelty and compassion, predictability and
absurdity of this world we all live in. A meditation on identity,
faith, and belonging,one that's as funny as it is moving, Casting
Lots will resonate with anyone who has struggled to find their
place in the world and to understand the significance of that
place.
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