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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting
If you have ever wished teens weren't so rebellious, you won't
after reading this book. It is an explanation of spirited youth and
the heroic roles they struggle to have in society. Rebelliousness
is a part of this struggle, an inborn drive to demonstrate high
self-worth that opposes families, schools, and communities that
restrict them to roles that offer no means of being special,
daring, and invincible. Notions about adolescence create such
restrictions. The book counters them with findings and perspectives
from human and social science, philosophy, myth, and cultural
history to show that spirited youth: innately struggle to realize
potentials of their awakening spiritual intelligence. aren't
adequately supported by modern forms of parenting, family, and
community. respond well to authoritative validation and properly
resist authoritarian control. lose optimism about what they can
become when forced to be obedient and dependent. will become a
Guardian Class that defends and creates good in communities when
they are consistently validated. A validating approach to parenting
that extends beyond one or two adults in a nuclear family is
presented. Guidelines are offered on how it can support youth
spiritual development, which is manifested by behavior that departs
from established norms, encounters trials and tests, and confronts
adversaries and dangers. This pattern of behavior produces positive
change when adults nurture, affirm, and engage what is actually
underway: 1) struggling for freedoms, possibilities, and
opportunities; 2) aspiring to be special, daring, and invincible;
3) seeking to change things through defiance, challenge, and
aggression; and 4) discovering the calling, purpose, and vision for
one's life.
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My Mom is a Nurse
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Candy Campbell; Illustrated by Michael Vincent Fusco
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is a history-breaking book. This important book contains
autobiographies of seven Korean youth in the United States, with
differing immigration experiences. This book provides important
primary source documentation for Korean history, Immigration
history, US history, Ethnic history, and Asian-American studies. No
serious college library can go without this important book.
Furthermore, this book will be a valuable addition to local and
regional libraries with patrons interested in the American
immigration experience and Asian-American studies. The editor of
the book is Francis Won, who is currently at Hackensack Christian
School in Bergen County, New Jersey. His father is the only Korean
Episcopalian priest in the whole state of New Jersey. Contributors
to this book have been identified as future leaders of the Korean
people. Many of the contributing authors are intricately connected
to Korean leadership in politics, business, banking, academics, and
foreign policy. Praise for the book: "I highly recommend this book
and hope that this story along with other stories in this
monumentally important book of Korean youth voices would inspire
many to find hope and courage in their struggles in life." Rev.
Joseph S. Pae, Canon Pastor, Cathedral of the Incarnation, New York
"I am pleased to celebrate the publication of this important book,
which is monumentally important for Korean Studies at the
university level as well as for understanding Koreans at the
popular level." President Bae-Yong Lee of Ehwa Women's University
in South Korea "I highly recommend." Jung-Ho Chang, President,
Korea Daily Sports Newspaper, South Korea "Congratulations "
President Soo-Sung Lee of Seoul National University, South Korea
As a young mother, Caroline Arit O. Thompson was so naive and
frustrated about childrearing that she would start each day crying.
Her own parents raised her with stability, nourishment, and
security-and made it look effortless. Thompson was unaware of the
overwhelming work, sacrifice, and investment involved in parenting.
Today Thompson is a confident, seasoned mother of two, eager to
warm and encourage parents of all ages with the hope, comfort, and
inspiration they need to mold their children for success. She
advises us to recognize the tremendous blessing and privilege of
parenthood and to look, as she does, to biblical principles and to
faith in God for the guidance, direction, and strength to endure
the many challenges of positive parenting. By "training up" our
children with priceless love and values, and by making quality time
to teach, nourish, and discipline, says Thompson, we fuel their
passion to excel and enhance their sense of belonging and identity.
The children reciprocate with gratitude, hard work, respect,
affection, and more. Thompson knows that parenting is no small
task. But she also knows that with God's grace, we can set the
lives of tomorrow's leaders on the right path.
There are two common parenting styles with defined negative
effects at two extremes: rigid and chaotic. Rigid parenting
involves excessive rules, narrow expectations from parents for
their children, and unreasonable punishments. Children raised in
these conditions become adults who frequently suffer from anxiety,
OCD, and perfectionism. They are often defensive and reactive,
seeking out acceptance and approval from others
In contrast, chaotic parenting offers few to no rules, allowing
children to do whatever they want without boundaries or
consequences and failing to help them discover their strengths and
capabilities. These children become adults who have identity
issues, codependency, and poor boundaries. Their relationships
often focus on becoming what they think others want them to be.
By uncovering what kind of parenting you received, you can
better understand who you are and why you do the things you do and
be able to determine what changes you would like to make. Becoming
a healthy person is about being the person God intended you to be.
This guide can help you take the steps necessary to becoming that
person.
ABOUT THE BOOK: It seemed nothing Tracy did for her son would
work-testing, counseling, medication, therapy-and violent meltdowns
were a daily occurrence. She agonized over What is next? What is to
become of my beautiful son? Tracy's struggles were long and hard,
but with a mother's determination, a supportive family, and God's
love and intervention, she found strength, endurance, and
unexpected open doors. To the Land of the Lost is a mom's gripping,
true story account of the trials faced while parenting a child who
has Asperger's syndrome. The story is gut wrenching and
heartbreaking, while at the same time loving, uplifting,
encouraging, and inspirational. To the Land of the Lost is a must
read for any parent, caregiver, teacher, or friend of someone
living with an autism spectrum disorder. **** ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Tracy M. Maguire lives in Dublin, Ireland, with her three children:
Graham, Sophie, and James. Her eldest son, Graham, now almost 19
years old, has Asperger's syndrome. Tracy is passionate about
encouraging parents who are raising a child with Asperger's and
giving them hope in what can often feel like a hopeless situation.
The book is about the relationships between parents and their
children, wife and husband, belonging, and self-knowledge.
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