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Die eerste drie jaar van 'n kind se lewe is verreweg die
belangrikste onwikkelingsjare omdat dit grondliggend is aan alle
verdere ontwikkeling. Hierdie titel fokus op stimulering gedurende
hierdie kritieke tydperk, en dek onder andere die volgende: Die
leerproses volgens jou kind se potensiaal; 'n Stimulerende
omgewing; brein-, sensoriese en motoriese ontwikkeling;
liggaamsbeeld en selfbeeld; die ontwikkeling van spel; spraak- en
taalontwikkeling; perseptuele en kognitiewe ontwikkeling; emosies;
dissipline en probleemoplossing.
Countering the "Tiger Mother" parenting style, this
research-based, practical guide provides an excellent framework for
raising competent and compassionate children.
In an era of "helicopter" parents-moms and dads who constantly
hover over their children to monitor and manage their lives-and our
culture's focus on personal gain and corporate greed, there is
great need for a parenting guide that outlines how to raise
children who are well adjusted. "A Practical Guide for Raising a
Self-Directed and Caring Child" fills that void. In response to Amy
Chua's recent bestseller, "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother,"
psychologist Louis J. Lichtman, PhD, presents a compelling case for
the notion that children will be more successful if they are
self-directed rather than parent-controlled. Through anecdotes and
research studies, Lichtman illustrates how to build a child's
self-esteem and delves into how parenting styles and disciplinary
practices influence a child's behavior and character.
Lichtman also gives special attention to the topics of
achievement, parenting during the adolescent years, and how family
structure impacts children. In addition, Lichtman discusses how to
avoid common parenting mistakes, issues to consider before deciding
to become a parent, and how to give children the best possible
start in life.
Designed to help parents develop a set of guiding parenting
principles, this guide is applicable to all situations and to
children of all ages. "A Practical Guide for Raising a
Self-Directed and Caring Child" offers a solid, comprehensive
resource for today's parents.
A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of
complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and
bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and
misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the
lives of our children.
Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which
refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers
for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity
and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family
cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an
aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a
powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence;
its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs
and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado;
Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that
has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to
Your Kids. Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the
solutions.
Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural
intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful
preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice
contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy
their children's inborn need to find direction by turning towards a
source of authority, contact and warmth.
"Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just
not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we
remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from
adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of
getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our
parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had
more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting
does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained
about children being less respectful of their elders and more
difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be
that this time it is for real?" -- from Hold On to Your Kids
"From the Hardcover edition."
Your behaviour is the only behaviour over which you have absolute
control. To change your children's behaviour, you first need to
change your own. The culture of any home is determined by the
parents. If you can remain unflappably calm in the face of every
supermarket tantrum and sarcastic eye-roll, order will soon follow.
Here, Paul Dix - Britain's leading children's behaviour expert -
reveals how to build a culture of calm consistency into your home,
starting today. He explains how you really can maintain a sense of
Zen-like serenity in the face of even the most chaotic behaviour,
from school-gate screaming matches to mealtime childmageddon. And
he offers a set of simple strategies for coolly getting the
behaviour you want - without a barked instruction, deranged
punishment or cold, hard cash-bribe in sight. His tried-and-tested
method will change what your child does by first changing what you
do. You will never need to raise your voice again.
Mother, daughter, wife and friend. Maggie Pink is a lot of things
to a lot of people, but have any of them noticed that she's
drowning...Maggie is a mother to a stroppy teenager, a wife to a
befuddled husband, and a daughter to two very different women. She
has always known she's adopted, but has she ever understood what
that means? Not really. Following the death of her mother, Maggie
finally feels able to go in search of her birth mother Morag, and
heads to the Highlands of Scotland with her disgruntled daughter
Roxie in tow, leaving her crumbling marriage to worry about another
day. The family reunion is bittersweet, but everything is blown
wide open when Roxie unearths Morag's explosive teenage diaries.
Why did Morag give Maggie away? What really happened all those
years ago, and how have the echoes of the past resounded through
the generations, like ripples in a puddle? And when all the secrets
and promises are out in the open, will Maggie finally have an
answer to the question - who do you think you are Maggie Pink? In
turns funny, heart-breaking, nostalgic and utterly compelling, one
thing's for sure, Maggie Pink's story will stay with you forever...
Janet Hoggarth is the bestselling author of The Single Mums series.
Perfect for fans of Marian Keyes, Mike Gayle and Jenny Eclair. What
readers are saying about Janet Hoggarth: 'A heart-rending,
heart-warming, heart-stopping and hilarious tale of a mother's love
and a wounded soul rediscovering her awesome potential for life and
(we are left hoping) for lasting love.' 'Sometimes heart-breaking,
frequently laugh-out-loud funny and always searingly honest. The
story is a rollercoaster and one that I was hooked on until the
very end. More from Janet Hoggarth please!' 'Best book I've read
for a long time! An honest and empowering read.' 'A real page
turner! This book is written in a heartfelt and endearing way...
the author manages to create a realistic story full of joy,
heartbreak, tears and laughter.'
"A smart, approachable guide packed with practical advice for
parents who want a science-backed, individualized approach to
pregnancy." -Linda Avey, Co-founder of 23andMe 2020 National
Parenting Award Winner Feeling overwhelmed? Confused by conflicting
advice? Bumpin' will radically transform your pregnancy journey to
one of confidence and optimism. With over a decade of experience
advising women's healthcare and technology companies, Leslie
Schrock distills cutting-edge research into your most comprehensive
pregnancy guide-from conception through the newborn months. Based
on the latest clinical evidence and practical advice from top
experts, Bumpin' enables you to make the best decisions for your
unique family. With a look at the science, it tackles every
pregnancy FAQ and topics like the truth about cleaning up your
cosmetics, nutrition, epidurals, and activity; and the practical,
like putting together a baby budget and navigating work. Bumpin'
also takes you all the way through the postpartum period because
taking your baby home and recovering brings unexpected physical,
mental, and life changes that are too often overlooked for you and
your partner. Inside Bumpin' you'll find: -A trimester-by-trimester
overview from trimester zero (conception) through the postpartum
period and return to work -The truth about age and fertility and
how to manage any issues that arise -Research on topics like
vaccinations, breastfeeding, and exercise -The science behind your
physical changes, leaks, sweats, and every other unexpected
pregnancy symptom - and how to manage them to enhance your long
term health -Birth preferences and preparing for unpredictable
changes -The challenges of navigating parental leave and returning
to work -Unique advice for partners -Budgeting, finance tips, baby
registry, and hospital checklists Every pregnancy is unique and
often unpredictable. For Leslie, this meant handling curveballs
like miscarriage and later a birth that didn't go according to
plan. She turned her personal journey into this book, written while
she was pregnant, with the help of a wide network of experts she
consulted along the way, including doulas, ob-gyns, midwives,
therapists, prenatal trainers, and nutritionists. Warm, funny, and
non-judgemental, Bumpin' will leave you feeling prepared and ready
to tackle anything that comes your way. A portion of proceeds will
be donated to Every Mother Counts and National Birth Equity
Collaborative to support maternal and child health.
Oops The Parenting Handbook empowers you to be the best parent
you can be. Oops is there for you Timeless wisdom (and practical
tools) for parents with kids in all age groups. Oops has a unique
concept, and its advice contains the essence of all best parenting
practices and methods. This parenting handbook has proven to enable
parents to turn their parenting into all they dream of. Oops Is
full of support, loving guidance, and practical, down-to-earth
tools. For parents with children in all age groups. Excellent for
parents-to-be, as it prepares you really well.
My fifteen years of parenting practice has shown me that parents
are extremely well equipped to be great parents, because you love
your child(ren) Couple that with the skills and tips I share with
you, and you are good to go.
"How to Help Children Find the Champion Within Themselves" is an
innovative, accessible and groundbreaking guide that will change
the way adults communicate with children forever. David Hemery
believes that within every young person there is a spark of
greatness and a unique individual keen to fulfil his or her
potential. Every adult is a guardian of that flame of talent. Using
everyday scenarios and cartoons he introduces effective questioning
and attentive listening - powerful and positive communication tools
that deliver extraordinary results. Every parent, teacher and coach
will recognise common pitfalls that are described with astute
comment and humour. Hemery shows how easy it is to transform
conflict into communication, to encourage young people to take
responsibility for their actions, develop their self-esteem and
reach their true potential. David Hemery won an Olympic gold medal
in the 400 metre hurdles in 1968. He works as a coach, teacher and
performance consultant. He is also on the Executive of the British
Olympic Association.
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