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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting
Are you trying your best to be a good parent but questioning if
your best is good enough? When it comes to parenting, it's not a
one-size-fits-all world. Just as each child is uniquely created, an
approach can be tailored that is a custom fit for each child. The
keys to forming that perfect fit are reliance on the Holy Spirit
and the Word.
Be assured that there is a spiritual battle being waged for the
lives of believers' children. Remaining oblivious to the war
practically ensures defeat. Children need us to be guardian
warriors who boldly take authority and do what is necessary to
avoid the snares, lures, and landmines that have been set for
them.
The war can be won without instilling fear. In fact, fear is one
of the enemy's favorite weapons, so fearful parents are playing
right into his hands. By discovering the basis for fear, it can be
rooted out and replaced by faith and peace.
The information provided by Dr. Hedberg in this book is excellent
for parents as their children's "first" teacher. The book also
provides helpful guidelines for educators offering parenting
education to their families. Al Sanchez, Retired Principal,
Educational Consultant, parent of three mature children. Dr.
Hedberg presents a thoughtful recipe for healthy family living. He
begins with a candid assessment of desirable ingredients; adds
generous portions of practical training for parents in managing
issues that "happen" in most families; in developing leader
qualities in children; and even practical guidelines for the wise
use of the internet. Let it simmer in your mind and heart, and
enjoy the feast. Dean M. Johnson, D. Min. Retired, Former Minister
and International Family Care Consultant, Trails, British Colombia,
Canada, parent of five mature children. Parenting is like being on
a journey and not knowing where the next corner will be, how high
the next hill will be and how deep the next valley will be. Dr.
Hedberg helps equip parents with goals that are practical and
lessons that effectively give direction. He addresses behavior
patterns that cause negative influences and helps identify
personality problems. You will learn to equip your children to
eventually leave home with a healthy emotional and spiritual
confidence while building their self-esteem. Ron Hendricks, CGPP,
Director of Planned Giving, Trinity Western University, Langley,
British Colombia, Canada, parent of three mature children. Dr.
Hedberg provides understandable parenting advice in an easy to read
book. The "Ask the Teacher" section in each chapter provides
practical questions to integrate a child's home and school life.
Joaquin Partida, Clovis, CA, Teacher of the Year, 2008, parent of
two mature children.
Grant Erikssen likes women, but he doesn't claim to understand
them. He can only chronicle his encounters, and their long-lasting
effects, as he seeks to unlock their secrets. In Adrift on the
River of Love, author Erik Granstrom presents a collection of fi
fteen fi ctionalized short stories as a tribute to many of the
girls Grant knew as a boy, the women he met later as a Lieutenant
in the army and, still later, the women he loves as a man.
In this work, covering more than sixty years, each vignette
illustrates women who changed Erikssen's life forever, as they
kindled his emotions and gave him rare insights into life. Combined
with the themes throughout of affection and desire, Adrift muses
about unrequited love-the kind of love that, as the days dwindle
down, we come to cherish most of all.
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"Just let go " "That's what parents have been told to do when their
kids go to college. But in our speed-dial culture, with
BlackBerries and even Skype, parents and kids are now more than
ever in constant contact. Today's iConnected parents say they are
closer to their kids than their parents were to them--and this
generation of families prefers it that way. Parents are their
children's mentors, confidants, and friends--but is this good for
the kids? Are parents really letting go--and does that matter?
Dr. Barbara Hofer, a Middlebury College professor of psychology,
and Abigail Sullivan Moore, a journalist who has reported on
college and high school trends for the "New York Times, "answer
these questions and more in their groundbreaking, compelling
account of both the good and the bad of close communication in the
college years and beyond. An essential assessment of the state of
parent-child relationships in an age of instant communication, "The
iConnected Parent "goes beyond sounding the alarm about the ways
many young adults are failing to develop independence to describe
the healthy, mutually fulfilling relationships that can emerge when
families grow closer in our wired world.
Communicating an average of "thirteen times a week, "parents and
their college-age kids are having a hard time letting go. Hofer's
research and Moore's extensive reporting reveal how this trend is
shaping families, schools, and workplaces, and the challenge it
poses for students with mental health and learning issues. Until
recently, students handled college on their own, learning life's
lessons and growing up in the process. Now, many students turn to
their parents for instant answers to everyday questions. ""My
roommate's boyfriend is here all the time and I have no privacy
What should I do?" "Can you edit my paper tonight? It's due
tomorrow." "What setting should I use to wash my jeans?" "And Mom
and Dad are not just the Google and Wikipedia for overcoming daily
pitfalls; Hofer and Moore have discovered that some parents get
involved in unprecedented ways, phoning professors and classmates,
choosing their child's courses, and even crossing the lines set by
university honor codes with the academic help they provide. Hofer
and Moore offer practical advice, from the years before college
through the years after graduation, on how parents can stay
connected to their kids while giving them the space they need to
become independent adults.
Cell phones and laptops don't come with parenting instructions.
"The iConnected Parent "is an invaluable guide for any parent with
a child heading to or already on campus.
Christened "charming" and "winning" by the "Washington Post "and
"touching" by "Publishers Weekly, "celebrated author Monica
Holloway's deeply moving memoir shares the unforgettable story of
an extraordinary little boy and the irresistible puppy who
transformed his life.
The day Monica Holloway learns that her lovable, brilliant
three-year-old son has autism spectrum disorder, she takes him to
buy an aquarium. But what Wills really wants is a puppy, and from
the moment Cowboy Carol Lawrence, an overeager and affectionate
golden retriever, joins the family, Monica watches as her cautious
son steps a little farther into the world.
With his new "sister" Cowboy by his side, Wills finds the courage
to invite kids over for playdates, conquer his debilitating fear of
water, and finally sleep in his own bed with the puppy's paws
draped across his small chest. And when Cowboy turns out to need
her new family as much as they need her, they discover just how
much she has taught them about devotion, loyalty, and never giving
up.
Sometimes it's what you don't know to hope for that saves you. For
Monica and Wills, salvation came in the form of a puppy with pale
blond fur, chocolate brown eyes, a fondness for chewing the crotch
out of underpants, and a limitless capacity for love.
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