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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with disability
Fathers of disabled children can feel overlooked when the focus of
much parenting support is aimed at mothers. Different Dads is a
collection of inspiring personal testimonies written by fathers of
children with a disability who reflect on their own experiences and
offer advice to other fathers and families on the challenges of
raising a child with a disability. The fathers featured represent a
broad spectrum of experience. Their contributions reflect a wide
range of cultures; some are single fathers, others are married
adoptive fathers. What they all have in common are the challenges
that face them and their families in raising a child with a
disability. Issues explored include the reactions of family,
friends and colleagues, how to deal with the organisations and
professionals that support families with a disabled child, and the
difficulty of being open about feelings in a culture that doesn't
always expect men to have a sensitive or nurturing role. Offering
direct and thoughtful perspectives on being a father of a child
with a disability, this book will be a valuable source of support
and information for families with disabled children, and also for
health and social care professionals who work with these families.
All parents want the best for their child, and for parents of
children with special needs, this can mean that their own
well-being is neglected. Drawing from their own experiences of
parenting children with special needs, interviews and workshops
with parents, and research findings, Nancy J. Whiteman and Linda
Roan-Yager explore practical ways in which parents can develop a
resilient and positive attitude towards caring for their child with
special needs. This book considers the challenges of caring for
children with physical, developmental and mental health disorders
and proposes methods such as learning to see events through your
child's own eyes, celebrating their strengths and achievements and
recognising how others can help your child. Chapters deal with key
topics such as coping with a diagnosis, discussing support needs
with a child's teachers and explaining a child's differences to
their peers, and the authors stress the importance of parents
building support systems for themselves and their children. Real
stories from parents and example scenarios illustrate the common
difficulties faced by parents of children with special needs, and
the authors explain how painful thoughts may be identified and
reframed through techniques grounded in cognitive behaviour
therapy. Crucially, Building a Joyful Life warns against parents
neglecting their own needs, and a range of exercises to be
completed by parents will help them to find ways of regaining
balance in their lives.
People with autism spectrum conditions may often behave in ways
that cause difficulties for themselves and those who care for them.
People with Autism Behaving Badly offers effective, long-term
strategies to help resolve common problem behaviors such as
physical aggression, self-injury, verbal abuse, rudeness and
property damage.;The book is organized around the common messages
conveyed by behaviors and some of the underlying issues that drive
these messages. Practical ideas for intervention are provided and
illustrated by case examples. A range of exercises help to build
understanding of the issues and detail appropriate plans. A log
book helps to track what has been tried and what has been learned.
In addition the author explores the role of relationship 'styles'
that can help reduce challenging behaviors and encourage positive
ones. Realistic information about working together with
individuals, families and outside agencies, and about the pros and
cons of medication, is also included.;This hands-on, practical
manual is indispensable for families, carers and anyone involved
with autistic people who need help with behavioral or emotional
challenges.
Communicating Partners, the result of over thirty years of clinical
practice and research work with pre-verbal and verbal children with
language delays, offers an innovative approach to working with late
talking children that focuses on developing relationships through
mutual understanding. Providing detailed maps of what children and
their life partners need to do to ensure effective social
relationships, the program focuses on five key stages of
communication development - interactive play, nonverbal
communication, social language, conversation, and civil behavior -
and five life-long responsive strategies to use every day to build
relationships within the child's own world. Communicating Partners
addresses issues such as: * What does a child need to do before
language? * What are effective ways to help a child socialize and
communicate from early play through civil conversations? * How have
parents successfully helped children learn to communicate at home?
* How can a child develop socially effective language and
conversation skills? * How can a child with an autistic spectrum
disorder, Down Syndrome or other significant delays develop rich
social relationships? * What have families done to build warm
social relationships with their children? * What is developmentally
effective therapy and education when social and communicative
delays are of major concern? Illustrated with personal stories and
research findings, and containing a wealth of practical suggestions
to help parents, teachers, and professionals understand their
child's world, Communicating Partners is an invaluable resource for
all those interacting and working with late talking children.
For parents of children with Asperger Syndrome ordinary parenting
just doesn't always do it - AS kids need a different approach.
Brenda is mother to thirteen-year-old Kenneth, author of Asperger
Syndrome, the Universe and Everything, and since his diagnosis at
the age of eight she has gathered together the parenting ideas and
tips that have had a positive effect on Kenneth's life. Brenda
discusses parents' reaction to their child's AS and gives advice on
how better to understand 'Planet Asperger'. This book helps parents
to respond positively to the challenge of AS and find the
'treasure' in their child's way of being.
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An Asperger Marriage
(Paperback)
Gisela Slater-Walker, Christopher Slater-Walker; Foreword by Dr Anthony Attwood
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Chris and Gisela have been partners for twelve years. Four years
ago Chris was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome. For Chris, this was
an explanation of why he had always regarded himself as 'socially
handicapped'. For Gisela, it meant coming to terms with a marriage
in which there would never be an intuitive understanding despite
Chris's good intentions. For the couple it was the beginning of a
long and still unfinished process of learning to live with a
disability regarded by some as incompatible with marriage.
This little book does exactly what it sets out to do. It spells out
all you need to know about different methods and strategies for
treating dyslexia. So, if you want to know more about the many
approaches to helping someone with dyslexia, then read this book.
At the end of the day, you will be better informed to choose a way
to suit your child. It is encouraging to read her list of famous
people with dyslexia. It includes Hans Christian Anderson, Albert
Einstein, Winston Churchill, Agatha Christie, Jeremy Irons, Jackie
Stewart and Richard Branson. They haven't done too badly, have
they?' - www.family2000.org.uk 'This readable and useful little
book has been written by a mother of two dyslexic sons. She writes
about the hard road she travelled to find help and support for
them. The book covers most of the questions that the parents of a
dyslexic child would want answered, but it is just as useful to
professionals who have a dyslexic child in their classroom or
setting. The importance of early identification is stressed and the
author provides useful information about tests which can be
administered to children as young as four years old. There are
informative chapters about the various successful techniques and
strategies for working with dyslexic children, ranging from the
well-publicised rose-coloured spectacles to the part played by a
special diet.' - Nursery World Over the years, many quick fix
approaches to cure dyslexia have been developed and used. These
'miracle cures' have offered hope to many parents who are left
disillusioned by the school system and health service. With no
other way to turn, many parents spend more and more money on
special glasses, vitamins, exercises and specialist advice, but do
they actually work? Written by a parent of two dyslexic sons, who
herself searched for anything that would 'cure' them, this new book
is a practical guide to dyslexia's many 'miracle cures'. Practical
Strategies for Living with Dyslexia suggests that early
identification of this condition may be the key. Dyslexia is often
not diagnosed until children have started school, yet testing is
now available from the age of four-and-a-half. On top of this many
dyslexics also have eye and ear problems that go undetected, which
further exacerbates the problem. Looking at the possible remedies
available, such as tinted glasses, nutritional supplements and
exercising, and considering the benefits of early identification of
dyslexia, this book will be an essential practical resource for
both the parents of, and the professionals who work, with people
with dyslexia.
Given the daily challenges of raising a child with autism, it's
easy for parents to lose sight of themselves, for their marriages
to weaken or fall apart, and for their overall quality of life to
plummet. Studies indicate high rates of depression among autism
mums and that their depression does not usually subside with the
passage of time. Susan Senator interweaves her own experiences
raising an autistic child with the voices of parents, researchers,
and professionals in the field to offer guidance and encouragement:
Parents can take care of themselves while taking care of their
children. Parents and families can have good lives even if their
children aren't 'cured'. "The Autism Mom's Survival Guide" is
unique among books about autism in that it is not primarily about
how to parent an autistic child. Instead, it is written for the
challenged parents themselves, understanding them to be individuals
who need to find fun, happiness, validation, and fulfillment now -
in the midst of struggle and hardship - in order to be healthy and
whole. Topics include strategies for: handling feelings of despair
and hopelessness, caring for your marriage, finding a good balance
between accepting your child and seeking new treatments,
understanding the challenges of autistic adolescence, and looking
toward your child's adulthood.
Providing expert yet accessible guidance to parents of young
autistic people who are going to college, this book helps parents
support their child from application through to graduation.
Covering social issues, independent living, academic challenges,
student services and emotional wellbeing, this is the one-stop shop
for advice on the transition from school to college or university.
The book examines the skills that students need to live and
function at college, and the skills parents need to let their teens
navigate college without a parent as intermediary. It offers ways
to combat common problems that affect the mental health of people
on the spectrum, such as keeping up with homework, fast-paced
classes, and complex social expectations. This book is for any
parent considering college as an option for their child, disability
service providers in colleges and for autistic students themselves.
Having a child who suddenly develops PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune
Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Strep), PANS (Pediatric
Acute-onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) or related conditions such
as encephalitis can be a daunting challenge for parents. This clear
guide explains the symptoms and diagnosis of PANDAS and PANS, with
treatment options and recommended strategies for supporting
children at home, at school, and in community settings. The book
covers key symptoms including OCD, tics, anxiety, sensory issues
and personality changes, with practical advice on medical
management, nutrition, lifestyle, and addressing social and
behavioural needs. Each chapter also includes handy sidebars with
key information to remember, and action steps for overcoming
challenges, managing relapse, family self-care and providing
children with the best possible support.
Why do I have to go to school before the show that I am watching is
over? Why do I have to wear shoes and a jacket when I go outside?
Rules like these can be really frustrating - but they don't have to
be! Why do I have to? looks at a set of everyday situations that
provide challenges for children at home, with their friends, and at
school. Laurie Leventhal-Belfer empathizes with children's wish to
do things their way, explains clearly why their way does not work,
and provides a list of practical suggestions for how to cope with
these challenges and avoid feelings of frustration. This is the
ideal book for children who have difficulty coping with the
expectations of daily living, as well as for their parents and the
professionals who work with them.
Do you find it hard to make friends? Do you struggle to know what
to say to start a conversation? In this book, Paul Jordan, who is
on the autism spectrum, explains how to make sense of everyday
social situations you might encounter at school, university or in
other group settings. He reveals how, with the use of just 65
simple words, it is possible to create 'scripts for thinking' that
break conversations down into small chunks and help you to think of
what to say, whether you are speaking to a fellow student, starting
a conversation with a new friend, calling out bullies or answering
a teacher's question. These small words will be a big help for all
teenagers and young people with ASD.
Combining medical knowledge with sympathetic common sense, this
handbook offers help and advice to all parents and carers of
children with Down's Syndrome, and shows them how to help their
children flourish and reach their full potential The text addresses
the questions, practical or otherwise, that parents will often find
themselves asking, and also offers information on a wide variety of
related issues. These include current medical knowledge about the
condition, advice on the special care of babies and young children,
education and training and emotional and sexual development.
As an educational advocate, Rebecca Moyes knows that many parents
struggle with designing an individualized education program (IEP)
that addresses the special needs of their child. This book
demystifies special education laws so parents can understand their
legal rights and the rights of their children, including the
development of 504 Service Agreements, getting the most out of
IEPs, and more. Written especially for those dealing with autism
and Asperger's Syndrome, this book also tackles important issues
that will come up during your child's early school experience, such
as developing social skills, addressing challenging behaviors,
encouraging self-esteem, and dealing with teasing and bullying.
Make school a positive experience for your child!
Nicole is 2 years old, and her family, after months of worrying,
has just learned she has mental retardation. In a fast-paced,
engaging story, mother Sandra Kaufman frankly reveals the feelings
of denial, guilt, frustration, and eventual acceptance that result
in a determination to help her child live an independent life. This
edition, revised on the 10th anniversary of the book's original
publication, adds a "progress report" that updates readers on
Nicole's adult years and reflects on the revolutionary changes in
society's attitudes toward people with disabilities since Nicole's
birth. "Retarded Isn't Stupid, Mom " remains a celebration of all
that a child can grow to be.
Yoga therapy is gaining rapid recognition as a form of treatment
that can improve the physical and mental wellbeing of children with
a variety of complex needs. This book contains a specially-designed
yoga program for use with children of all abilities, and provides
both parents and professionals with the knowledge they need to
carry out the therapy themselves. The program consists of a series
of postures, each of which is explained and accompanied by an
illustration. The postures are designed to help children understand
and use their bodies, and work towards positive changes such as
realigning the spine, encouraging eye-contact, and promoting calm
and steady breathing. Consideration is given to creating the right
setting for carrying out the therapy, assessing an individual
child's particular needs, and making the sessions fun using games
and props. Sections on yoga therapy for specific conditions such as
autistic spectrum disorder, Down syndrome, and cerebral palsy are
included, and the book concludes with child and parent reports on
how the program has worked for them, and a list of useful contacts
and resources. This practical book is a must for parents, teachers,
therapists and other professionals, and anybody else who wants to
help a child to develop through enjoyable and therapeutic yoga
sessions.
Written for busy foster carers and adoptive parents, this book
provides a concise introduction to Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD),
and how to support a child with a diagnosis. It emphasises the
common strengths children with ASD have, as well as offering
strategies for any behavioural issues that are likely to arise,
highlighting how these can be exacerbated by the care system and
adoption process. The first part of the book looks at the different
aspects of autism and the challenges it can pose for children and
parents, providing strategies for managing difficulties at home and
at school, using social stories, and reducing sensory input in a
child's environment. The second part looks at issues that arise for
fostered or adopted children, including placement transitions,
contact, and explaining the past. It concludes with helping parents
to think about self-care.
Adults with Autism Spectrum Conditions (ASC) or a suspected
diagnosis often have hidden needs that go unmet by public services.
This book describes and analyses the Kent ASC enablement approach,
a short-term intervention led by occupational therapy to promote
people with ASC becoming more self-aware and self-sufficient
outside of public services. Designed to teach adults with ASC
strategies for controlling their sensory, motor-processing and
social-communication needs and preferences, this person-centred
approach gives them greater self-management over their lives. The
book also provides an overview of a range of both professional and
self-help tools and technologies which can be used by adults with
ASC to increase independence and wellbeing. Case-studies
demonstrate the transformative effects of enablement on daily life
for adults with ASC. The book also provides recommendation for
building on the enablement approach.
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Parenting a Dyslexic Child
(Paperback)
British Dyslexia Association; Contributions by Lindsay Peer, Katrina Cochrane, Helen Ross, Pennie Aston, …
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Drawing on the expert knowledge and research gathered by the
British Dyslexia Association, this is a complete guide to parenting
a child with dyslexia. Covering assessment, diagnosis, home and
school support, emotional development and more, this empowering
book has everything you need to help your child reach their full
potential. With accessible guidance on reading, writing, spelling,
organisation and study skills, this book will also help you to
build self-belief in your child whilst ensuring that you care for
yourself along the way. This book provides clear information on how
dyslexia affects children and families at all stages of life, with
insights on communicating with schools and ensuring the best
support in all environments.
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