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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with disability
This insightful book investigates the experiences of seven women
with autism as they transition from childhood to adulthood, and how
they make sense of that journey. Taken from the autobiographies of
women including Liane Holliday-Willey and Temple Grandin, these
accounts shine a light on issues unique to women with autism.
Heather Stone Wodis provides a detailed and thoughtful exploration
of their common experiences, and each story offers a new
perspective that illuminates the diagnosis from a different angle.
This is a fascinating look at how generational differences, such as
access to the internet, can provide more avenues toward
self-expression, political mobilization, and advocacy. It also
explores the idea that, no matter the era, the unyielding support
of family and a diagnosis in childhood can help girls with autism
transition toward adulthood.
Does toxic pollution cause attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder
(ADHD)? What about screen use? Are alternative treatments worth
exploring? Can dietary changes help? From leading ADHD researcher
Joel T. Nigg, this book presents exciting treatment advances
grounded in the new science of epigenetics--how genes and the
environment interact. Distinguishing unsupported, even dangerous,
approaches from bona fide breakthroughs, Dr. Nigg describes
specific lifestyle changes that have been proven to support the
developing brain. Vivid stories illustrate ways to maximize the
positive effects of healthy nutrition, exercise, and sleep, and
minimize the damage from stress and other known risk factors. The
book helps you figure out which options hold the most promise for
improving your child's symptoms and overall well-being--and gives
you step-by-step suggestions for integrating them into daily life.
People with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS)/ME experience extreme
tiredness and a range of other symptoms, including pain, headaches,
impaired concentration and memory, anxiety, sleep problems, and
palpitations. The condition can affect all areas of a sufferer's
life and, in turn, the lives of those who are close to them. This
book provides the families and friends of people with CFS/ME with
an accessible introduction to the condition, and explains what can
be done to support those who have it. It offers useful advice on
how to help a loved one cope with the illness, and suggests ways to
help them with everyday issues such as personal hygeine, nutrition,
finances, and relationships. Recognising that coping with the
impact of CFS/ME can be just as difficult for the relatives and
friends of those with the condition, it addresses the emotional,
social, and practical aspects of having a loved one with CFS/ME,
explains how to understand the changes in their relationship with
the sufferer, how to manage stress, and where to go for further
help and support. The book also includes detailed case studies and
practical advice from a wide range of people with mild, moderate,
and severe CFS/ME, and their loved ones. This book offers
much-needed information and support to the friends, families, and
carers of people with CFS/ME. It will also be a useful resource for
health professionals who wish to deepen their understanding of
CFS/ME, including home helps, care staff, counsellors, therapists,
doctors, and nurses.
In the United States alone, there are roughly three million
individuals living with a developmental disability, but less than a
third are active in the labor market. This book provides a
comprehensive approach to developing a successful jobs program for
persons with developmental disabilities, drawn from the author's
extensive experience and real success. The majority of persons with
developmental disabilities are unemployed, underemployed, or still
work in sheltered programs where it is almost impossible to reach
their full potential. Job success is possible, but it requires a
system based on a business model based on proven economics, rather
than the traditional social services model. By employing a
step-by-step procedure for gaining insight into the client,
analyzing market opportunities, matching the client to a job, and
supporting the client after placement, service providers can help
individuals make a successful transition into good community-based
employment. Job Success for Persons with Developmental Disabilities
will be essential reading for profit and non-profit rehabilitation
service organizations, private job development businesses,
government funding agencies, special education job placement
programs, transition specialists, and families of persons with
developmental disabilities.
Parenting a child with autism can be isolating, draining, and
stressful. Parenting a neurotypical child alongside them is even
more complicated and confusing. Coach Yourself through the Autism
Spectrum offers an opportunity to access your inner creativity,
resourcefulness, strengths, and abilities in order to create
positive change in your family. Short sections on common problems
such as visits to the doctor, community outings, bullying and child
care make this book easy to read from start to finish, or dip into
as needed. There are tips for taking care of your own physical and
emotional health, and each section features relevant examples from
other families in the same situation, and practical and
thought-provoking coaching exercises to help you decide on an
action plan that's right for you. This book offers hope and support
for anyone parenting or caring for a child on the autism spectrum.
In his groundbreaking book, Talmer Shockley (himself a love-shy
individual) presents a thoroughly accessible and motivating read
for those suffering from love-shyness... Pay attention to his words
of wisdom. They will help you find the partner that you so richly
deserve' - Nick Dubin, author of Asperger's Syndrome and Bullying
For many people, romantic and sexual relationships are complex and
cause feelings of anxiety. For people who are love-shy, this
anxiety is so overwhelming that it can make finding a partner feel
like an impossible dream. Although relatively unrecognised, and
therefore often undiagnosed, love-shyness is a condition which
causes an intense phobia of romantic and sexual situations. This
book is designed to help Love-Shys overcome this fear and allow
themselves to meet, date, and eventually maintain romantic
relationships with members of the opposite sex. A self-confessed
Love-Shy, Talmer Shockley explores the condition, its links with
Asperger's Syndrome and how it differs from normal shyness. He
gives candid advice on how to deal with being love-shy, make dating
an enjoyable experience, and survive the "relationship jungle".
While love-shyness is predominately a male problem, it can also
affect women, and the book offers tips on relationship success for
both sexes. Refreshingly honest and insightful, The Love-Shy
Survival Guide provides essential advice for love-shy people
wanting to overcome their anxiety and form successful romantic
relationships.
While paediatric healthcare professionals view play as the
treatment tool of choice for children under school age, the theory
and practice underpinning play-based therapeutic approaches often
remain less clear to individual practitioners. Paediatric
intervention approaches are increasingly being questioned, and
individual practitioners constantly asked to provide evidence-based
practice. In response, a more coherent understanding and fresh
discussion on children's play and utilisation of play for
therapeutic purposes is needed, especially as societal expectations
and lifestyles change. Play as Therapy provides background theory
and practical applications of original research on play assessment
and interventions used in therapy. The book offers a solid
foundation for identifying and assessing play dysfunction,
understanding play in different cultural contexts and
considerations when intervening with play. The practical approach
is underpinned by theory, research and case vignettes to explain
how to utilise play as therapy with challenging children.
Every child's education relies on a partnership between parents,
professionals and, of course, the child. This book gives parents of
children with Asperger syndrome (AS) practical advice on how to
make the most of this important partnership and work with schools
to ensure their child's needs are being met. The book explores how
parents can prepare their child for school life and how they can
work with teachers to improve the classroom environment, as well as
the school environment as a whole, for their child and consequently
for the benefit of all pupils. Strategies include peer education,
the use of visual cues and rules and effective communication
between parents, teachers and teaching assistants. This clear,
accessible book will be an invaluable guide for parents of children
with AS and will also be of interest to the teachers and
educational professionals who work with them.
A harrowing but ultimately inspiring memoir of how one girl's
beautiful face and spirit was destroyed after a vicious acid attack
"I heard a horrible screaming sound, like an animal being
slaughtered . . . then I realised it was me." When Katie Piper was
24, her life was near perfect. Young and beautiful, she was well on
her way to fulfilling her dream of becoming a model. But then she
met Daniel Lynch on Facebook and her world quickly turned into a
nightmare. After being held captive and brutally raped by her new
boyfriend, Katie was subjected to a vicious acid attack. Within
seconds, this bright and bubbly girl could feel her looks and the
life she loved melting away. This""is the moving true story of how
one young woman had her mind, body, and spirit cruelly snatched
from her and how she inspired millions with her fight to get them
back.
People with severe autism experience the sensory information they
receive from the world completely differently to those not on the
spectrum. They feel cut off and overwhelmed, and their behaviour
can become very distressed. This handbook shows how we can engage
with people who are non-verbal or semi-verbal and sometimes even
those who have speech but lose the power to process it when they
are in crisis. We can help them to make sense of the world.
Intensive Interaction uses a person's own body language to make
contact with them and Sensory Integration develops the capacity of
an individual to receive, process and apply meaning to information
provided by the senses through targeted physical activities. These
techniques can be used to develop an environment tailored to the
particular sensory needs of the person with severe autism, reducing
factors that cause distress. With illustrations, case examples and
a wide range of tried-and-tested techniques, this practical guide
provides indispensable tools for parents, carers and other
professionals supporting people with severe autism and other
learning disabilities.
Dyslogical children are commonly labelled as having one or more of
a mix of conditions that include Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity
Disorder, Conduct Disorder, Bipolar Disorder and Oppositional
Defiant Disorder. The number of children who could be described as
dyslogical continues to rise sharply, and society has a tendency to
lay the blame for this trend on poor parenting or bad schooling. In
this ground-breaking book, Bernard Rimland argues that such
'conventional wisdom' is not just mistaken but dangerous. Drawing
on the latest research, Rimland outlines the impact of biological
factors on today's children and exposes the influences of toxins
and dietary deficiencies. Dyslogic Syndrome is full of valuable
advice on the safe, effective treatments that are available to
children, and offers positive strategies for helping parents and
professionals to do the best for their dyslogical child.
Anne's sister Becky was born in 1958, long before most people had
even heard of autism. Diagnosed with "emotional disturbance," Becky
was subjected for much of her childhood to well-meaning but futile
efforts at "rehabilitation" or "cure," as well as prolonged spells
in institutions away from her family. Painting a vivid picture of
growing up in small-town America during the Sixties, Anne describes
her sister's and her own painful childhood experiences with
compassion and honesty. Struggling with the separation from her
sister and the emotional and financial hardships the family
experienced as a result of Becky's condition, Anne nevertheless
found that her sister had something that "normal" people were
unable to offer. Today she is accepting of her sister's autism and
the impact, both painful and positive, it has had on both their
lives. This bittersweet memoir will resonate with families affected
by autism and other developmental disorders and will appeal to
everyone interested in the condition.
Fathers of disabled children can feel overlooked when the focus of
much parenting support is aimed at mothers. Different Dads is a
collection of inspiring personal testimonies written by fathers of
children with a disability who reflect on their own experiences and
offer advice to other fathers and families on the challenges of
raising a child with a disability. The fathers featured represent a
broad spectrum of experience. Their contributions reflect a wide
range of cultures; some are single fathers, others are married
adoptive fathers. What they all have in common are the challenges
that face them and their families in raising a child with a
disability. Issues explored include the reactions of family,
friends and colleagues, how to deal with the organisations and
professionals that support families with a disabled child, and the
difficulty of being open about feelings in a culture that doesn't
always expect men to have a sensitive or nurturing role. Offering
direct and thoughtful perspectives on being a father of a child
with a disability, this book will be a valuable source of support
and information for families with disabled children, and also for
health and social care professionals who work with these families.
All parents want the best for their child, and for parents of
children with special needs, this can mean that their own
well-being is neglected. Drawing from their own experiences of
parenting children with special needs, interviews and workshops
with parents, and research findings, Nancy J. Whiteman and Linda
Roan-Yager explore practical ways in which parents can develop a
resilient and positive attitude towards caring for their child with
special needs. This book considers the challenges of caring for
children with physical, developmental and mental health disorders
and proposes methods such as learning to see events through your
child's own eyes, celebrating their strengths and achievements and
recognising how others can help your child. Chapters deal with key
topics such as coping with a diagnosis, discussing support needs
with a child's teachers and explaining a child's differences to
their peers, and the authors stress the importance of parents
building support systems for themselves and their children. Real
stories from parents and example scenarios illustrate the common
difficulties faced by parents of children with special needs, and
the authors explain how painful thoughts may be identified and
reframed through techniques grounded in cognitive behaviour
therapy. Crucially, Building a Joyful Life warns against parents
neglecting their own needs, and a range of exercises to be
completed by parents will help them to find ways of regaining
balance in their lives.
People with autism spectrum conditions may often behave in ways
that cause difficulties for themselves and those who care for them.
People with Autism Behaving Badly offers effective, long-term
strategies to help resolve common problem behaviors such as
physical aggression, self-injury, verbal abuse, rudeness and
property damage.;The book is organized around the common messages
conveyed by behaviors and some of the underlying issues that drive
these messages. Practical ideas for intervention are provided and
illustrated by case examples. A range of exercises help to build
understanding of the issues and detail appropriate plans. A log
book helps to track what has been tried and what has been learned.
In addition the author explores the role of relationship 'styles'
that can help reduce challenging behaviors and encourage positive
ones. Realistic information about working together with
individuals, families and outside agencies, and about the pros and
cons of medication, is also included.;This hands-on, practical
manual is indispensable for families, carers and anyone involved
with autistic people who need help with behavioral or emotional
challenges.
Communicating Partners, the result of over thirty years of clinical
practice and research work with pre-verbal and verbal children with
language delays, offers an innovative approach to working with late
talking children that focuses on developing relationships through
mutual understanding. Providing detailed maps of what children and
their life partners need to do to ensure effective social
relationships, the program focuses on five key stages of
communication development - interactive play, nonverbal
communication, social language, conversation, and civil behavior -
and five life-long responsive strategies to use every day to build
relationships within the child's own world. Communicating Partners
addresses issues such as: * What does a child need to do before
language? * What are effective ways to help a child socialize and
communicate from early play through civil conversations? * How have
parents successfully helped children learn to communicate at home?
* How can a child develop socially effective language and
conversation skills? * How can a child with an autistic spectrum
disorder, Down Syndrome or other significant delays develop rich
social relationships? * What have families done to build warm
social relationships with their children? * What is developmentally
effective therapy and education when social and communicative
delays are of major concern? Illustrated with personal stories and
research findings, and containing a wealth of practical suggestions
to help parents, teachers, and professionals understand their
child's world, Communicating Partners is an invaluable resource for
all those interacting and working with late talking children.
For parents of children with Asperger Syndrome ordinary parenting
just doesn't always do it - AS kids need a different approach.
Brenda is mother to thirteen-year-old Kenneth, author of Asperger
Syndrome, the Universe and Everything, and since his diagnosis at
the age of eight she has gathered together the parenting ideas and
tips that have had a positive effect on Kenneth's life. Brenda
discusses parents' reaction to their child's AS and gives advice on
how better to understand 'Planet Asperger'. This book helps parents
to respond positively to the challenge of AS and find the
'treasure' in their child's way of being.
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An Asperger Marriage
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Gisela Slater-Walker, Christopher Slater-Walker; Foreword by Dr Anthony Attwood
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Chris and Gisela have been partners for twelve years. Four years
ago Chris was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome. For Chris, this was
an explanation of why he had always regarded himself as 'socially
handicapped'. For Gisela, it meant coming to terms with a marriage
in which there would never be an intuitive understanding despite
Chris's good intentions. For the couple it was the beginning of a
long and still unfinished process of learning to live with a
disability regarded by some as incompatible with marriage.
This little book does exactly what it sets out to do. It spells out
all you need to know about different methods and strategies for
treating dyslexia. So, if you want to know more about the many
approaches to helping someone with dyslexia, then read this book.
At the end of the day, you will be better informed to choose a way
to suit your child. It is encouraging to read her list of famous
people with dyslexia. It includes Hans Christian Anderson, Albert
Einstein, Winston Churchill, Agatha Christie, Jeremy Irons, Jackie
Stewart and Richard Branson. They haven't done too badly, have
they?' - www.family2000.org.uk 'This readable and useful little
book has been written by a mother of two dyslexic sons. She writes
about the hard road she travelled to find help and support for
them. The book covers most of the questions that the parents of a
dyslexic child would want answered, but it is just as useful to
professionals who have a dyslexic child in their classroom or
setting. The importance of early identification is stressed and the
author provides useful information about tests which can be
administered to children as young as four years old. There are
informative chapters about the various successful techniques and
strategies for working with dyslexic children, ranging from the
well-publicised rose-coloured spectacles to the part played by a
special diet.' - Nursery World Over the years, many quick fix
approaches to cure dyslexia have been developed and used. These
'miracle cures' have offered hope to many parents who are left
disillusioned by the school system and health service. With no
other way to turn, many parents spend more and more money on
special glasses, vitamins, exercises and specialist advice, but do
they actually work? Written by a parent of two dyslexic sons, who
herself searched for anything that would 'cure' them, this new book
is a practical guide to dyslexia's many 'miracle cures'. Practical
Strategies for Living with Dyslexia suggests that early
identification of this condition may be the key. Dyslexia is often
not diagnosed until children have started school, yet testing is
now available from the age of four-and-a-half. On top of this many
dyslexics also have eye and ear problems that go undetected, which
further exacerbates the problem. Looking at the possible remedies
available, such as tinted glasses, nutritional supplements and
exercising, and considering the benefits of early identification of
dyslexia, this book will be an essential practical resource for
both the parents of, and the professionals who work, with people
with dyslexia.
Given the daily challenges of raising a child with autism, it's
easy for parents to lose sight of themselves, for their marriages
to weaken or fall apart, and for their overall quality of life to
plummet. Studies indicate high rates of depression among autism
mums and that their depression does not usually subside with the
passage of time. Susan Senator interweaves her own experiences
raising an autistic child with the voices of parents, researchers,
and professionals in the field to offer guidance and encouragement:
Parents can take care of themselves while taking care of their
children. Parents and families can have good lives even if their
children aren't 'cured'. "The Autism Mom's Survival Guide" is
unique among books about autism in that it is not primarily about
how to parent an autistic child. Instead, it is written for the
challenged parents themselves, understanding them to be individuals
who need to find fun, happiness, validation, and fulfillment now -
in the midst of struggle and hardship - in order to be healthy and
whole. Topics include strategies for: handling feelings of despair
and hopelessness, caring for your marriage, finding a good balance
between accepting your child and seeking new treatments,
understanding the challenges of autistic adolescence, and looking
toward your child's adulthood.
Providing expert yet accessible guidance to parents of young
autistic people who are going to college, this book helps parents
support their child from application through to graduation.
Covering social issues, independent living, academic challenges,
student services and emotional wellbeing, this is the one-stop shop
for advice on the transition from school to college or university.
The book examines the skills that students need to live and
function at college, and the skills parents need to let their teens
navigate college without a parent as intermediary. It offers ways
to combat common problems that affect the mental health of people
on the spectrum, such as keeping up with homework, fast-paced
classes, and complex social expectations. This book is for any
parent considering college as an option for their child, disability
service providers in colleges and for autistic students themselves.
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