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Fathers of disabled children can feel overlooked when the focus of
much parenting support is aimed at mothers. Different Dads is a
collection of inspiring personal testimonies written by fathers of
children with a disability who reflect on their own experiences and
offer advice to other fathers and families on the challenges of
raising a child with a disability. The fathers featured represent a
broad spectrum of experience. Their contributions reflect a wide
range of cultures; some are single fathers, others are married
adoptive fathers. What they all have in common are the challenges
that face them and their families in raising a child with a
disability. Issues explored include the reactions of family,
friends and colleagues, how to deal with the organisations and
professionals that support families with a disabled child, and the
difficulty of being open about feelings in a culture that doesn't
always expect men to have a sensitive or nurturing role. Offering
direct and thoughtful perspectives on being a father of a child
with a disability, this book will be a valuable source of support
and information for families with disabled children, and also for
health and social care professionals who work with these families.
All parents want the best for their child, and for parents of
children with special needs, this can mean that their own
well-being is neglected. Drawing from their own experiences of
parenting children with special needs, interviews and workshops
with parents, and research findings, Nancy J. Whiteman and Linda
Roan-Yager explore practical ways in which parents can develop a
resilient and positive attitude towards caring for their child with
special needs. This book considers the challenges of caring for
children with physical, developmental and mental health disorders
and proposes methods such as learning to see events through your
child's own eyes, celebrating their strengths and achievements and
recognising how others can help your child. Chapters deal with key
topics such as coping with a diagnosis, discussing support needs
with a child's teachers and explaining a child's differences to
their peers, and the authors stress the importance of parents
building support systems for themselves and their children. Real
stories from parents and example scenarios illustrate the common
difficulties faced by parents of children with special needs, and
the authors explain how painful thoughts may be identified and
reframed through techniques grounded in cognitive behaviour
therapy. Crucially, Building a Joyful Life warns against parents
neglecting their own needs, and a range of exercises to be
completed by parents will help them to find ways of regaining
balance in their lives.
Jeanette Purkis spent her early life reacting violently against her
feelings of embarrassment, anger and confusion about her
'difference' from other people. She was unaware until well into
adulthood that everything she found difficult, including her lack
of success in forming relationships, could be a result of having
Asperger Syndrome. Used to being a misfit from a very young age,
Jeanette found that being a member of a group in which she had a
label - Jeanette the Communist; Jeanette, Enemy of the State;
Jeanette the convict; Jeanette the drug addict - gave her a sense
of order she could depend on, particularly in prison, where each
day had a set routine and the inmates accepted her because of her
rebel attitude. Finally diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome at the age
of 20, the author only began to accept her diagnosis some years
later when she felt for the first time that she might learn to cope
with being herself. Jeanette's remarkable life and her journey
towards finding a different kind of normal is compelling and
inspiring reading for people with autism spectrum disorders, and
those living or working with them.
People with autism spectrum conditions may often behave in ways
that cause difficulties for themselves and those who care for them.
People with Autism Behaving Badly offers effective, long-term
strategies to help resolve common problem behaviors such as
physical aggression, self-injury, verbal abuse, rudeness and
property damage.;The book is organized around the common messages
conveyed by behaviors and some of the underlying issues that drive
these messages. Practical ideas for intervention are provided and
illustrated by case examples. A range of exercises help to build
understanding of the issues and detail appropriate plans. A log
book helps to track what has been tried and what has been learned.
In addition the author explores the role of relationship 'styles'
that can help reduce challenging behaviors and encourage positive
ones. Realistic information about working together with
individuals, families and outside agencies, and about the pros and
cons of medication, is also included.;This hands-on, practical
manual is indispensable for families, carers and anyone involved
with autistic people who need help with behavioral or emotional
challenges.
Communicating Partners, the result of over thirty years of clinical
practice and research work with pre-verbal and verbal children with
language delays, offers an innovative approach to working with late
talking children that focuses on developing relationships through
mutual understanding. Providing detailed maps of what children and
their life partners need to do to ensure effective social
relationships, the program focuses on five key stages of
communication development - interactive play, nonverbal
communication, social language, conversation, and civil behavior -
and five life-long responsive strategies to use every day to build
relationships within the child's own world. Communicating Partners
addresses issues such as: * What does a child need to do before
language? * What are effective ways to help a child socialize and
communicate from early play through civil conversations? * How have
parents successfully helped children learn to communicate at home?
* How can a child develop socially effective language and
conversation skills? * How can a child with an autistic spectrum
disorder, Down Syndrome or other significant delays develop rich
social relationships? * What have families done to build warm
social relationships with their children? * What is developmentally
effective therapy and education when social and communicative
delays are of major concern? Illustrated with personal stories and
research findings, and containing a wealth of practical suggestions
to help parents, teachers, and professionals understand their
child's world, Communicating Partners is an invaluable resource for
all those interacting and working with late talking children.
For parents of children with Asperger Syndrome ordinary parenting
just doesn't always do it - AS kids need a different approach.
Brenda is mother to thirteen-year-old Kenneth, author of Asperger
Syndrome, the Universe and Everything, and since his diagnosis at
the age of eight she has gathered together the parenting ideas and
tips that have had a positive effect on Kenneth's life. Brenda
discusses parents' reaction to their child's AS and gives advice on
how better to understand 'Planet Asperger'. This book helps parents
to respond positively to the challenge of AS and find the
'treasure' in their child's way of being.
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An Asperger Marriage
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Gisela Slater-Walker, Christopher Slater-Walker; Foreword by Dr Anthony Attwood
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Chris and Gisela have been partners for twelve years. Four years
ago Chris was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome. For Chris, this was
an explanation of why he had always regarded himself as 'socially
handicapped'. For Gisela, it meant coming to terms with a marriage
in which there would never be an intuitive understanding despite
Chris's good intentions. For the couple it was the beginning of a
long and still unfinished process of learning to live with a
disability regarded by some as incompatible with marriage.
This little book does exactly what it sets out to do. It spells out
all you need to know about different methods and strategies for
treating dyslexia. So, if you want to know more about the many
approaches to helping someone with dyslexia, then read this book.
At the end of the day, you will be better informed to choose a way
to suit your child. It is encouraging to read her list of famous
people with dyslexia. It includes Hans Christian Anderson, Albert
Einstein, Winston Churchill, Agatha Christie, Jeremy Irons, Jackie
Stewart and Richard Branson. They haven't done too badly, have
they?' - www.family2000.org.uk 'This readable and useful little
book has been written by a mother of two dyslexic sons. She writes
about the hard road she travelled to find help and support for
them. The book covers most of the questions that the parents of a
dyslexic child would want answered, but it is just as useful to
professionals who have a dyslexic child in their classroom or
setting. The importance of early identification is stressed and the
author provides useful information about tests which can be
administered to children as young as four years old. There are
informative chapters about the various successful techniques and
strategies for working with dyslexic children, ranging from the
well-publicised rose-coloured spectacles to the part played by a
special diet.' - Nursery World Over the years, many quick fix
approaches to cure dyslexia have been developed and used. These
'miracle cures' have offered hope to many parents who are left
disillusioned by the school system and health service. With no
other way to turn, many parents spend more and more money on
special glasses, vitamins, exercises and specialist advice, but do
they actually work? Written by a parent of two dyslexic sons, who
herself searched for anything that would 'cure' them, this new book
is a practical guide to dyslexia's many 'miracle cures'. Practical
Strategies for Living with Dyslexia suggests that early
identification of this condition may be the key. Dyslexia is often
not diagnosed until children have started school, yet testing is
now available from the age of four-and-a-half. On top of this many
dyslexics also have eye and ear problems that go undetected, which
further exacerbates the problem. Looking at the possible remedies
available, such as tinted glasses, nutritional supplements and
exercising, and considering the benefits of early identification of
dyslexia, this book will be an essential practical resource for
both the parents of, and the professionals who work, with people
with dyslexia.
Providing expert yet accessible guidance to parents of young
autistic people who are going to college, this book helps parents
support their child from application through to graduation.
Covering social issues, independent living, academic challenges,
student services and emotional wellbeing, this is the one-stop shop
for advice on the transition from school to college or university.
The book examines the skills that students need to live and
function at college, and the skills parents need to let their teens
navigate college without a parent as intermediary. It offers ways
to combat common problems that affect the mental health of people
on the spectrum, such as keeping up with homework, fast-paced
classes, and complex social expectations. This book is for any
parent considering college as an option for their child, disability
service providers in colleges and for autistic students themselves.
Having a child who suddenly develops PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune
Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Strep), PANS (Pediatric
Acute-onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) or related conditions such
as encephalitis can be a daunting challenge for parents. This clear
guide explains the symptoms and diagnosis of PANDAS and PANS, with
treatment options and recommended strategies for supporting
children at home, at school, and in community settings. The book
covers key symptoms including OCD, tics, anxiety, sensory issues
and personality changes, with practical advice on medical
management, nutrition, lifestyle, and addressing social and
behavioural needs. Each chapter also includes handy sidebars with
key information to remember, and action steps for overcoming
challenges, managing relapse, family self-care and providing
children with the best possible support.
No alternative to glasses or contact lenses? Improve your vision by
looking at the psychology behind the process of seeing! We do not
only see through our eyes but with our whole being: What appears in
our vision is translated through the knowledge of our brain into
what and how clearly we actually see it. This knowledge of our
world and how we stand in it is the reality we create ourselvesa
reality we are able to change if we choose to.
AS HEARD ON RADIO 4'S 'ABILITY' 'A truly eye-opening book from a
fantastic comedian.' ADAM KAY 'Comedy genius... The funniest book
I've read in years.' DAVID WALLIAMS _______________ Lee Ridley won
the hearts and minds of the nation on Britain's Got Talent. Now the
much-loved comedian opens up about what it's like to be him. I'm
Only In It for the Parking is a wonderful romp through Lee's
extraordinary life, by way of the people who like to pray for him,
the comparisons with Stephen Hawking, some perilous falls, some
epic fails and more information about Lee's private life than you
probably need. This is the wickedly funny story of the stand-up who
struggles to stand up, but who learns to finds his feet. The
Geordie without the accent. The entertainer who really can't speak
at all, but who has something important to say. _______________
What readers are saying: ***** 'Such a brilliant and honest book.'
***** 'The funniest book I've read this year.' ***** 'Written with
poignancy and humour.' ***** 'Had me laughing out loud all the way
from start to finish.'
As an educational advocate, Rebecca Moyes knows that many parents
struggle with designing an individualized education program (IEP)
that addresses the special needs of their child. This book
demystifies special education laws so parents can understand their
legal rights and the rights of their children, including the
development of 504 Service Agreements, getting the most out of
IEPs, and more. Written especially for those dealing with autism
and Asperger's Syndrome, this book also tackles important issues
that will come up during your child's early school experience, such
as developing social skills, addressing challenging behaviors,
encouraging self-esteem, and dealing with teasing and bullying.
Make school a positive experience for your child!
Nicole is 2 years old, and her family, after months of worrying,
has just learned she has mental retardation. In a fast-paced,
engaging story, mother Sandra Kaufman frankly reveals the feelings
of denial, guilt, frustration, and eventual acceptance that result
in a determination to help her child live an independent life. This
edition, revised on the 10th anniversary of the book's original
publication, adds a "progress report" that updates readers on
Nicole's adult years and reflects on the revolutionary changes in
society's attitudes toward people with disabilities since Nicole's
birth. "Retarded Isn't Stupid, Mom " remains a celebration of all
that a child can grow to be.
Yoga therapy is gaining rapid recognition as a form of treatment
that can improve the physical and mental wellbeing of children with
a variety of complex needs. This book contains a specially-designed
yoga program for use with children of all abilities, and provides
both parents and professionals with the knowledge they need to
carry out the therapy themselves. The program consists of a series
of postures, each of which is explained and accompanied by an
illustration. The postures are designed to help children understand
and use their bodies, and work towards positive changes such as
realigning the spine, encouraging eye-contact, and promoting calm
and steady breathing. Consideration is given to creating the right
setting for carrying out the therapy, assessing an individual
child's particular needs, and making the sessions fun using games
and props. Sections on yoga therapy for specific conditions such as
autistic spectrum disorder, Down syndrome, and cerebral palsy are
included, and the book concludes with child and parent reports on
how the program has worked for them, and a list of useful contacts
and resources. This practical book is a must for parents, teachers,
therapists and other professionals, and anybody else who wants to
help a child to develop through enjoyable and therapeutic yoga
sessions.
Written for busy foster carers and adoptive parents, this book
provides a concise introduction to Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD),
and how to support a child with a diagnosis. It emphasises the
common strengths children with ASD have, as well as offering
strategies for any behavioural issues that are likely to arise,
highlighting how these can be exacerbated by the care system and
adoption process. The first part of the book looks at the different
aspects of autism and the challenges it can pose for children and
parents, providing strategies for managing difficulties at home and
at school, using social stories, and reducing sensory input in a
child's environment. The second part looks at issues that arise for
fostered or adopted children, including placement transitions,
contact, and explaining the past. It concludes with helping parents
to think about self-care.
Adults with Autism Spectrum Conditions (ASC) or a suspected
diagnosis often have hidden needs that go unmet by public services.
This book describes and analyses the Kent ASC enablement approach,
a short-term intervention led by occupational therapy to promote
people with ASC becoming more self-aware and self-sufficient
outside of public services. Designed to teach adults with ASC
strategies for controlling their sensory, motor-processing and
social-communication needs and preferences, this person-centred
approach gives them greater self-management over their lives. The
book also provides an overview of a range of both professional and
self-help tools and technologies which can be used by adults with
ASC to increase independence and wellbeing. Case-studies
demonstrate the transformative effects of enablement on daily life
for adults with ASC. The book also provides recommendation for
building on the enablement approach.
From the time he was three or four years old, John Elder Robison
realised that he was different from other people. He was unable to
make eye contact or connect with other children, and by the time he
was a teenager his odd habits - an inclination to blurt out
non-sequiturs, obsessively dismantle radios or dig five-foot holes
(and stick his younger brother in them) - had earned him the label
'social deviant'. It didn't help that his mother conversed with
light fixtures and his father spent evenings pickling himself in
sherry. Look Me in the Eye is his story of growing up with
Asperger's syndrome - a form of autism - at a time when the
diagnosis simply didn't exist. Along the way it also tells the
story of two brothers born eight years apart yet devoted to each
other: the author and his younger brother Chris, who would grow up
to become bestselling author Augusten Burroughs. This book is a
rare fusion of inspiration, dark comedy and insight into the
workings of the human mind. For someone who has struggled all his
life to connect with other people, Robison proves to be an
extraordinary storyteller.
An inspirational story of faith, hope, and healing. Chizor's story
of overcoming disability and personal tragedy will encourage those
facing their own trials to find hope in God
Drawing extensively on personal experiences, this important volume
looks at sexuality and relationships in the lives of people with
intellectual disabilities, painting a genuine picture of the range
of sexualities and relationships people want. Honest and
reflective, it shows how sexuality has been managed and controlled
in different countries. It explores a range of issues such as
rights, resilience, protection, sexual oppression and the lack of
privacy for those living in care institutions. Co-edited and with
contributions by people with intellectual disabilities and allies,
this unique book offers an authentic account of the challenges
people face and what society needs to do to respect people's
rights. Providing insight into a morally, ethically and legally
complex area, this book will be essential reading for people with
intellectual disabilities, their advocates, families and
supporters; social care managers, social workers, and other
professionals working in the field as well as academic researchers
and students.
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