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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > Coping with eating disorders
Now with new material, including a new foreword by Kate Manne, a reading guide, and an afterword from the author.
By the time they reach kindergarten, most kids believe that “fat” is bad. By middle school, more than a quarter of them have gone on a diet. What are parents supposed to do?
Kids learn, as we’ve all learned, that thinness is a survival strategy in a world that equates body size and value. Parents worry if their kids care too much about being thin, but even more about the consequences if they aren’t. And multibillion-dollar industries thrive on this fear of fatness. We’ve fought the “war on obesity” for over forty years and Americans aren’t thinner or happier with their bodies. But it’s not our kids―or their weight―who need fixing.
In this illuminating narrative, journalist Virginia Sole-Smith exposes the daily onslaught of fatphobia and body shaming that kids face from school, sports, doctors, diet culture, and parents themselves―and offers strategies for how families can change the conversation around weight, health, and self-worth.
Fat Talk is a stirring, deeply researched, and groundbreaking book that will help parents learn to reckon with their own body biases, identify diet culture, and empower their kids to navigate this challenging landscape. Sole-Smith draws on her extensive reporting and interviews with dozens of parents and kids to offer a provocative new approach for thinking about food and bodies, and a way for us all to work toward a more weight-inclusive world.
A fact-filled guide to coping with compulsive overeating problems
by an experienced addictions doctor who draws on many patients'
stories of recovery. Overeating, binge eating, obesity, anorexia,
and bulimia: Food Junkies tackles the complex, poorly understood
issue of food addiction from the perspectives of a medical
researcher and dozens of survivors. What exactly is food addiction?
Is it possible to draw a hard line between indulging cravings for
"comfort food" and engaging in substance abuse? For people
struggling with food addictions, recognizing their condition - to
say nothing of gaining support and advice - remains a frustrating
battle. Built around the experiences of people suffering and
recovering from food addictions, Food Junkies offers practical
information grounded in medical science, while putting a face to
the problems of food addiction. It is meant to be a knowledgeable
and friendly guide on the road to food serenity.
Most people who knew Catherine Garceau during the early years of
this century were struck by just how much she had going for her.
The tall blonde with a body to kill for had won a Bronze medal at
the 2000 Olympic Games as part of Canada's synchronized swimming
team. But no one knew that Catherine, having lost her main outlet
for her obsession with perfection, was floundering in her
post-Olympic life. Performing in Las Vegas and building a career in
business and marketing weren't fulfilling. In fact, part of her
felt she was losing it all: her athletic body, her high-achieving
mind and most humiliating, her image of excellence.
Now, in Swimming Out of Water, Garceau goes beneath the surface of
her life. From the lens of a life-changing experience she had while
hiking in the Red Rock National Park outside Las Vegas. Stuck on a
cliff, alone, for twenty-four hours, she flashes back to moments of
fear, failure, loss, triumph, and breakthrough, which all decorated
her journey with valuable lessons. Written in the journal she took
with her that day, Garceau realizes and reveals the negative
effects of sugar and many chemicals found in our food and
environments, including the chlorine she had bathed in for so many
years.
Alas, with no one coming to her rescue, how did she get herself up
from the ledge? How has her dream of a chlorine free swimming
evolved? And how has she turned the stubborn eating disorders she
faced into programs to help free other women from emotional
eating?
Birthed from the edge of the Red Rocks and brought to completion in
her continued years of integration, education and healing, Swimming
Out of Water's raw nature takes on the transparent quality of
water, the very element Garceau is here to both defend and
embody.
Spend this day on the rocks with her...and discover the grace of
swimming out of water.
""I wish to be the thinnest girl at school, or maybe even the
thinnest eleven-year-old on the entire planet,"" confides Lori
Gottlieb to her diary. "I mean, what are girls supposed to wish
for, other than being thin?"
For a girl growing up in Beverly Hills in 1978, the motto "You can
never be too rich or too thin" is writ large. Precocious Lori
learns her lessons well, so when she's told that "real women don't
eat dessert" and "no one could ever like a girl who has thunder
thighs," she decides to become a paragon of dieting. Soon Lori has
become the "stick figure" she's longed to resemble. But then what?
"Stick Figure" takes the reader on a gripping journey, as Lori
struggles to reclaim both her body and her spirit.
By turns painful and wry, Lori's efforts to reconcile the
conflicting messages society sends women ring as true today as when
she first recorded these impressions. "One diet book says that if
you drink three full glasses of water one hour before every meal to
fill yourself up, you'll lose a pound a day. Another book says that
once you start losing weight, everyone will ask, 'How did you do
it?' but you shouldn't tell them because it's 'your little secret.'
Then right above that part it says, "'New York Times" bestseller.'
Some secret."
With an edgy wit and keenly observant eye, "Stick Figure" delivers
an engrossing glimpse into the mind of a girl in transition to
adulthood. This raw, no-holds-barred account is a powerful
cautionary tale about the dangers of living up to society's
expectations.
We Are Being Lied To It's time to get honest with ourselves.
Culture's beauty standards are messed up. We all know it, and we
all think we can resist the pull to look a certain way. Yet most of
us--our daughters and nieces too--still strive for a broken kind of
beauty and feel I'm. not. good. enough. For Melissa Johnson, a
marriage and family therapist, this lie eventually led to battling
an eating disorder. Through that experience, she saw that chasing
broken beauty breaks women in so many ways. She also realized that
true, soul-deep beauty is not impossible--it abounds in us and all
around us. And now Melissa's on a mission to help you · uncover
the hidden damage cultural lies about beauty have on your mind and
soul · reconnect with God, in whose image you are made · walk
away from shame and striving · love yourself--and
others--unconditionally True beauty is the fullness of life we are
longing for. It's the reality that blows our minds, affirms our
true worth, and invites us into an adventure that meets our deepest
longings. And it's true beauty that will save us if we open our
eyes to it. "Nothing is more shattered or more misunderstood in our
lives than beauty. On our own, we are unable to recapture God's
vision for it, and every generation needs guides who can
reintroduce it to us again for the first time. In Melissa Johnson,
we have such a guide."--CURT THOMPSON, MD, author of The Soul of
Desire and The Soul of Shame
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