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It is a challenge for parents to raise children in one home even
when everyone is getting along. After a divorce-when all the
mediators, attorneys, evaluators, and judges have moved on to other
families-parents are left with the most difficult task of all:
moving past their own conflicts and learning to raise their child
in two homes.
Divorced parents often begin with the best of intentions,
seeking to protect their children from hurt; even so, they often
feel overwhelmed with the seemingly complex array of tasks and
decisions that must be made after the dissolution of a marriage.
Dr. Frank Leek is an experienced clinical and forensic psychologist
(Now retired) who relies on his years of experience working with
divorcing and divorced parents to offer parents twenty essential
co-parenting tasks that encourage joint decisions, conflict
reduction, and a focus on the well-being of children. While guiding
parents through a process that often tests emotion and patience,
Leek shares practical advice that helps parents effectively deal
with the initial transition and the often complicated issues that
follow.
The insight offered in "Shared Parenting: Beyond the Great
Divide" leads divorcing parents on a healing journey where they
learn to communicate effectively, share parenting responsibilities,
and find workable systems that encourage a peaceful future for
everyone.
If you have ever wished teens weren't so rebellious, you won't
after reading this book. It is an explanation of spirited youth and
the heroic roles they struggle to have in society. Rebelliousness
is a part of this struggle, an inborn drive to demonstrate high
self-worth that opposes families, schools, and communities that
restrict them to roles that offer no means of being special,
daring, and invincible. Notions about adolescence create such
restrictions. The book counters them with findings and perspectives
from human and social science, philosophy, myth, and cultural
history to show that spirited youth: innately struggle to realize
potentials of their awakening spiritual intelligence. aren't
adequately supported by modern forms of parenting, family, and
community. respond well to authoritative validation and properly
resist authoritarian control. lose optimism about what they can
become when forced to be obedient and dependent. will become a
Guardian Class that defends and creates good in communities when
they are consistently validated. A validating approach to parenting
that extends beyond one or two adults in a nuclear family is
presented. Guidelines are offered on how it can support youth
spiritual development, which is manifested by behavior that departs
from established norms, encounters trials and tests, and confronts
adversaries and dangers. This pattern of behavior produces positive
change when adults nurture, affirm, and engage what is actually
underway: 1) struggling for freedoms, possibilities, and
opportunities; 2) aspiring to be special, daring, and invincible;
3) seeking to change things through defiance, challenge, and
aggression; and 4) discovering the calling, purpose, and vision for
one's life.
As a young mother, Caroline Arit O. Thompson was so naive and
frustrated about childrearing that she would start each day crying.
Her own parents raised her with stability, nourishment, and
security-and made it look effortless. Thompson was unaware of the
overwhelming work, sacrifice, and investment involved in parenting.
Today Thompson is a confident, seasoned mother of two, eager to
warm and encourage parents of all ages with the hope, comfort, and
inspiration they need to mold their children for success. She
advises us to recognize the tremendous blessing and privilege of
parenthood and to look, as she does, to biblical principles and to
faith in God for the guidance, direction, and strength to endure
the many challenges of positive parenting. By "training up" our
children with priceless love and values, and by making quality time
to teach, nourish, and discipline, says Thompson, we fuel their
passion to excel and enhance their sense of belonging and identity.
The children reciprocate with gratitude, hard work, respect,
affection, and more. Thompson knows that parenting is no small
task. But she also knows that with God's grace, we can set the
lives of tomorrow's leaders on the right path.
Have fun, create, learn, and help the planet with the young kids in
your life through 50 colorful, enriching activities made from stuff
you already have. With Recycle and Play, learn how to transform
cardboard, bubble wrap, lids, containers, egg cartons, and other
things that might otherwise be headed to a landfill into hours of
engaging play at home. The fun, process-oriented projects invite
children to be creative, explore senses, develop skills, and
discover how things work, all while reinforcing the importance of
reducing waste as part of a sustainable lifestyle. In this book,
you'll find tips on how to extend play and learning for each
project as well as helpful hints to engage your kids to come up
with fun additions and extensions of their own. While each of the
projects includes clear step-by-step instructions and materials
lists, you should feel free to adjust to your child's interests and
the materials you have on hand. Organized by the type of material
used, the zero-waste projects include: Car Garage and Ramp made
from toilet paper tubes and cardboard (Learning Skills: Fine motor
skills, creative play, and color recognition) Mess-Free Bubble Wrap
Painting (Learning Skills: Art, sensory exploration, creative
skills, color recognition) Busy Board Lid Activity (Learning
Skills: Fine motor skills, cognitive skills) Alligator Letter Feed
made from egg cartons (Learning Skills: Letter recognition, fine
motor skills) Milk Carton School Bus with family photos (Learning
Skills: Social development, cognitive skills) Matching Memory Game
made from wipe lids (Learning Skills: Cognitive skills, fine motor
skills, memory, object recognition) Bond with your child, help them
learn through play, and instill a lifelong respect for the
environment with Recycle and Play.
There are two common parenting styles with defined negative
effects at two extremes: rigid and chaotic. Rigid parenting
involves excessive rules, narrow expectations from parents for
their children, and unreasonable punishments. Children raised in
these conditions become adults who frequently suffer from anxiety,
OCD, and perfectionism. They are often defensive and reactive,
seeking out acceptance and approval from others
In contrast, chaotic parenting offers few to no rules, allowing
children to do whatever they want without boundaries or
consequences and failing to help them discover their strengths and
capabilities. These children become adults who have identity
issues, codependency, and poor boundaries. Their relationships
often focus on becoming what they think others want them to be.
By uncovering what kind of parenting you received, you can
better understand who you are and why you do the things you do and
be able to determine what changes you would like to make. Becoming
a healthy person is about being the person God intended you to be.
This guide can help you take the steps necessary to becoming that
person.
The book is about the relationships between parents and their
children, wife and husband, belonging, and self-knowledge.
This book is a MUST read for all of baseball nation. Baseball,
politics, money grabbers, and the people that have almost ruined
the game. Critical, sarcastic, funny, and factual. Trendsetting,
rule changing, mind boggling ideas from a lover of the game. Family
informative. Learn how to save big bucks and still watch the game
in comfort. Mantle, Pujols, Bonds, Gibson, Musial and many more.
Read about the 28 million dollar man, 16 million DH? Are we talking
playing just for the money or the love of the game? You decide
after reading this very riveting, controversial book. Your mind
will be changed about many things. Should Bud Selig or Bob Costas
be in the Commissioner's office? Wrong people voting in wrong
places!! Yogi Berra ran thru it a couple of times. Help campaign
for the new Commissioner. You the FAN decide what is best.
'A moving portrait of a mother's love for her son ... fiercely
intelligent, humane and necessary' NATHAN FILER, author of THE
SHOCK OF THE FALL 'At its heart a story about love ... an
astonishing new voice' ALI MILLAR, author of THE LAST DAYS 'I'm
scared the bad people will hear me talking to you.' I watch him
take his notebook and a marker pen from his bag. As he zips the
compartment back up I see the tip of our large, serrated kitchen
knife, the one that went missing last night. Zach was nineteen when
Tanya discovered him rerouting the wires of their landline, sure
that the phone was bugged, that his friends were Mafia, that the
helicopters swirling above were deployed by spies, that he couldn't
trust anyone - her included. That moment upturned and unmoored
everything. It would strand them both in a profound and terrifying
isolation the way that perhaps only a psychotic break - or loving
someone who is experiencing one - can. Zig-Zag Boy is a journey
along the tough frontiers of love and madness. As Tanya fights for
answers and understanding - coming up against broken healthcare
systems in the UK and the US - she is forced to question whether
there were warning signs she missed, whether Zach will be able to
have a normal life, and what 'normal' really means.
The increased prevalence of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity
Disorder (ADHD) among Canadian and American children has introduced
a surge in 'self-help' books marketed toward mothers. The perceived
necessity for this has been shored up by scholarly and popular
belief that raising an ADHD child is a stressful, burdensome and
over-whelming responsibility. The perception is that these mothers
are in need of advice and guidance in order to rise to the
challenge. ADHD, marked by impulsivity, inattention and
hyperactivity, is frequently misinterpreted as a result of poor
mothering despite professional efforts to define it as a
biologically predetermined disorder independent of socialization.
Despite professional allegiance to the biological definition of the
disorder, much academic focus has been directed toward discovering
maternal pathology and dysfunction. This book provides a much
needed counter perspective to current stereotypes about mothers of
ADHD children as ill-quipped or pathological. Relying on
large-scale quantitative data, Patricia E. Neff provides a detailed
analysis of the impact of raising an ADHD child, as compared to a
non-ADHD child, on maternal well-being. This is the first book of
its kind to address the subject of mothering an ADHD child using
two nationally representative and cross-cultural samples of
Canadian and American mothers and children. A unique picture of how
Canadian and American mothers are influenced by the ADHD status of
their child, as well as their child's behavior and use of
medication is revealed. This research is also concerned with the
role of social support in mediating the effects of ADHD on maternal
well-being. While numerous studies have examinedthe influence of
social support in families of children experiencing an illness or
handicap, this is the first to systematically explore the
utilization of social support among mothers of ADHD children.
According to Neff, the use of small, homogenous and clinically
referred samples has contributed to negative characterizations of
mothers of ADHD children. This is a timely piece of work as ADHD is
now the most frequently diagnosed and treated disorder among school
age children across Canada and the United States. ADHD and Maternal
Resiliency provides a critical new perspective on mothering an ADHD
child that will be of interest to sociologists, psychologists,
clinicians, and educators, as well as mothers and families of ADHD
children. Recommendations are advanced to increase research efforts
toward gaining a greater understanding of the strengths and
resources which enable mothers to successfully cope with the
associated difficulties of mothering an ADHD child.
Se explica que para la salud humana la satisfacci n de ""Las
Hambres B sicas"" de Caricias, Tiempo y Reconocimiento es tan
importante como la ingesta de alimentos, ox geno y agua.
Comprenderemos qu son las Endorfinas -la droga de salud, la alegr
a, el bienestar y el bienhacer. Conoceremos variadas formas de
producirlas en nuestro organismo, pero ante todo la que nos
proporciona las cinco ganancias m s codiciadas: envejecer despacio,
mantener un sistema inmunol gico invencible, disponer de una gran
energ a, vivir alegremente, y poder superar cualquier dolor f sico
o corporal. Esta forma nica es la pr ctica de las Virtudes:
Prudencia, Justicia, Fortaleza, Templanza, Fe, Esperanza y Caridad.
Queda demostrado que para educar a nuestros hijos en la Virtud, la
receta no consiste en ""hacer que ellos hagan lo que creemos que
ellos deben hacer"," ni mucho menos en lograr que ""ellos hagan lo
que los padres queremos"," sino algo muy distinto: que dentro de un
"Sistema Incondicional" de Caricias, Tiempo y Reconocimiento, les
hagamos vivir la fuerza de nuestro Amor, para que ""ellos quieran
hacer habitualmente lo que conviene al Bien Com n y al Bien
Integral"" de todos los involucrados en el proceso educativo. Para
esto hace falta desarrollar un Liderazgo Transformador: s lo quien
se siente amado puede ser educado. Se propone el justo medio entre
los dos extremos en pugna: ni moralismo r gido, ni naturalismo
hedonista o utilitario, sino del equilibrio entre esos dos
extremos. Como estrategias auxiliares se plantea lo que es la
Reingenier a de Valores y Virtudes, se analizan las Bases Filos
ficas para Jerarquizar los Valores Operantes, Reales; y se propone
la sana jerarqu a de los Nueve Valores Universales, as como el
rechazo de los Contravalores. El libro concluye con una explicaci n
apasionante: Qui n Soy Yo? A la vez que se exponen los Fundamentos
Filos ficos de la Dignidad de la Persona.
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