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Hierdie ideesboek bevat waardevolle raad en voorstelle vir ouers en
versorgers wat wil seker maak dat hul kinders van kleins af lief is
vir boeke - eers as babas, dan eerste lesers, laerskoollesers, die
tusseninners en tieners. Bekende boekresensent Jay Heale verslind
boeke en deel die kennis wat hy in 'n leeftyd van noue
betrokkenheid by boeke opgedoen het met aansteeklike entoesiasme.
Die boek sluit 'n skatkis van aanbevole boeke vir die boekrak in,
met spesifieke verwysings na oorspronklike Afrikaanse boeke en
stories deur Lona Gericke (afgetrede hoof van Bellville Openbare
Biblioteek se kinderafdeling). Daar word ook deurgaans in die
hoofteks voorbeelde gegee van spesifieke leesstof en klassieke
keuses. Verder word boeke oor boeke en inligting oor biblioteke
bespreek, asook elektroniese leesstof en die manier waarop
tegnologie die manier waarop ons lees, beinvloed het.
Losing Love, Having Faith, and Finding Hope is a must read This
book is an empowering story for all parents. It is about three main
characters: Love, the father; Faith, the mother; and Hope, their
son. Their story will touch you, making you think about
relationships and whether it would be healthier to walk away, even
if children are involved. Losing Love, Having Faith, and Finding
Hope gives parents an inside view of how their actions can have a
negative impact on their child. The book shows how easily things
can spiral out of control if the right type of communication is not
present within the family. Parents will get some harsh realities
about the consequences to their actions, along with very helpful
personal and parenting tips. They will also learn the importance of
working together for the benefit of their child. Children that
relate to this story will be encouraged not to give up on
themselves when they feel others have given up on them. Together,
families can be restructured and functional despite all parties not
living under the same roof; and children do not have to suffer the
consequences of their parent's actions.
In June 2005 the Lord purpose in my heart to learn more about His
word. Having a thirsty for knowledge the Spirit led me to Virginia
Baptist College (seminary school). Been obedient to the Spirit of
God He blessed me to receive my Master degree in Ministry
(Theology) May of 2008. It was during my training there I was lead
to write this book "Marriage, Seeing it God's way." Many times I
prayed asking God to show me how to be a good husband according to
his word. While writing this book the Lord helped me achieve the
desires of my heart by becoming a loving husband. After so many
years of doing things wrong in the marriage I had a yearning to do
it God's way and fulfilled my purpose as a husband. My soul purpose
was to please God and my wife (help mate) of 30 years. The Lord
revealed many things to me one particular characteristic about me
He showed me stood out more than all others. Love her as Christ
loved me with longsuffer and forgive. Out of the process of time
through many hours of seeking the Lord in pray, fasting and
studying the Scriptures, the Lord opens up my mind to put these
thought in the form of a book. I am thankful for the fellowship He
allow me to share with Him, the many conversations we had, the
tears I shed and the long hours of research. Two things I learned
about God during this process, (1) He will meet you where you are,
(2) He will always tell you what you don't want to here. Be careful
what you ask for. Writing this book also allowed me to achieve many
other goals; To come a certify Sunday school teacher ETA (Standard
& Advance courses), Ordained Elder PCAF, Inc., Aug. 2011 and a
graduate of ESSC Ministerial Training Course and a new career. I
truly thank my wife for her patient and love she was the motor that
kept me going but God was the source. I pray this book be a
blessing to all who reads it. God bless.
A clinical psychologist with 19 years of experience working with
kids from all walks of life-from deeply troubled children mired in
LA's child welfare system to the privileged scions of the Beverly
Hills elite-Dr. Dolin delivers a practical, compassionate guide for
parents that will help children thrive through their most difficult
passages. For it is when our children are at their worst-depressed,
anxious, defiant, angry or fearful-that we are called upon to do
our best. More than just a guide to mindful parenting, "Privilege
of Parenting" provides a veritable toolkit for parents dealing with
problem behaviors ranging from everyday sadness and fears to severe
clinical issues. In every case, Dr. Dolin frames each behavior,
discusses causes and contributing factors, and then distills the
essence of what helps. He illustrates his advice with
extraordinary-and moving-anecdotes of the children and families
with whom he has worked. This is a book that is inspiring,
instructive and a pleasure to read. Dr. Dolin's approach represents
a kind of "yoga of parenting." Not surprisingly, yoga is among Dr.
Dolin's various prescriptions. All parents love their children.
"Privilege of Parenting" will help readers transform the abiding
love they have for their children into compassionate, insightful
and consistent parenting. Privilege of Parenting is a psychological
guide that helps parents build-and repair-nourishing and empathic
relationships with their children. "Privilege of Parenting" equips
parents with deeper insights into the fears and blind-spots that
hinder us as parents and gives guidelines, approaches and
strategies for getting it right with our kids as well as tools for
personal growth in the service of better parenting. "Privilege of
Parenting" is not only a "how-to" but ultimately a "why to" book
that likens parenting to yoga and helps the reader realize that in
parenting as their best Self, they are inherently following an
often overlooked path to potential happiness, wellness and spirit.
Samuel and Rebecca Rainey, preteens themselves not many years ago,
add their perspective as young adults who vividly recall their own
successes and failures as teenagers. Covering such topics as
friends, peer pressure, boundaries, dating, and sex, the Raineys
address the most common traps of adolescence and teach young people
how to avoid making poor choices. Short, concise chapters are
filled with engaging illustrations and practical applications. This
book is essential reading for preteens.
As we face the complexities of the dawning age, spiritually
advanced souls are being born to usher in a prophesied time of
peace and enlightenment. In this perceptive guidebook, Dr. Marilyn
Barrick discusses the Indigo, Crystal and Spirited children, their
mission to help Earth fulfill her divine destiny and the special
challenges to the parents raising these extraordinary children. Dr.
Barrick also reveals the "cycles of life" we all pass through and
shows how we can deal with their corresponding life lessons. She
gives valuable insights into how karma and past-life records
influence our marriages and families - and teaches us ways to
master these important relationships.
Top 10 bestseller . In 2004 Stephanie Nimmo was a career-focused,
suburban mother of three, happily married to the love of her life,
Andy. In December that year their fourth child was born and life as
Steph knew it changed dramatically. From having to give up a
successful career to care for her fragile, life-limited daughter,
to learning how to cope with the challenges of her sons' autism
diagnoses and the cruel blow of Andy's terminal cancer, Steph
learned very early on that it's not the cards you are dealt in life
but how you play them. Far from being a misery memoir, Was This In
The Plan?, is a frank, open and no-holds-barred account of how a
family was determined not just to survive but to thrive when the
odds were against them. It will make you question your own attitude
to life and how you choose to respond when unexpected events throw
you off course. From a family of six to four in just over a year,
losing her husband to cancer and then 14 months later, her
12-year-old daughter Daisy, following life-long illness, Stephanie
writes with such powerful, raw honesty that it is impossible to not
be moved and inspired by her story. Resilience is a hot topic right
now and Steph is the epitome of inner strength. A regular in the
press opening up the conversation about death and grief.
Boys pose special challenges for today's stressed parents. In
"Raising A Son," the Eliums embrace the challenges--and the
joys--of raising boys with compassion, commitment, experience,
patience, and humor. This fully updated and expanded edition
follows the psychological development of boys from infancy to young
adulthood. Look for new sections on:
- media and violence
- the "boy code"
- age-appropriate morality
- the out-of-control son
- triggers for aggression
- when and how to get help
- coping with guilt
- the highly sensitive son
- triggers for withdrawal
- why he gets overwhelmed
- hypersensitivity and ADD
- the right role models
For this generation of Moms, there is no cookie-cutter mold for how
motherhood should be or, more importantly, how it should appear to
be. These days, whether we moms have a career or stay at home with
our kids, whether we are single, married, divorced, or widowed, we
are forging a new path in motherhood. Perhaps most importantly,
this generation of moms is releasing the need to be perfect all the
time, and is embracing the notion that we can have balance in our
life (most days). This new breed of moms understands that this
frees up the time and energy necessary to pursue growth in
ourselves outside motherhood. Furthermore, we are learning to shake
off guilt and celebrate the imperfections in our daily lives. This
empowers us to redefine ourselves, to use our gifts and talents to
create a purposeful vision for our lives outside motherhood.
Finally, we are becoming champions of our own lives, awakening the
"champreneurs" within ourselves. We are grateful for the sacrifices
our mothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers made to get us to
this point. We are merely standing on their shoulders. Without them
we are nothing; our gratitude to them is everything. But rather
than looking behind us for affirmation, today's mothers lean on,
support, and empower each other. No guilt allowed. Mommy Magic
gives these moms an encouraging pat on the back, a good laugh, and
affirmation that being real is important. It gives moms permission
to admit that motherhood is not perfect; it is, in fact, a journey.
Mommy Magic is meant to be a humorous and inspirational guide to
living in chaos, an empowering and easy read to squeeze in while
waiting in the carpool line. Most of all, Mommy Magic is meant as a
vehicle for mothers to share, talk and laugh over the fact that
nobody is perfect all the time.
"At the Mercy of Externals: Righting Wrongs and Protecting Kids"
deals extensively with adult roles and responsibilities and the
damage done when these obligations are not met. David Roberts'
FLAGS Model graphically reveals how adults tend to act out
emotion-based anxiety and depression, which is rooted in negative
emotions associated with a history of abuse and victimization.
A number of lists critical to understanding the FLAGS model
enable you to relate to the material on a personal level, and
customize the subject matter to your own situation. While much of
the focus is on parenting, other types of adult roles are
addressed.
Of particular interest is the impact of abuse on kids outside
the home or family. "At the Mercy of Externals" offers solutions
found through critical thinking and by challenging myths accepted
as truth.
Dr. Roberts specializes in working with at risk youth including
juvenile offenders and gang members. He views his work as a form of
spiritual outreach to misunderstood kids. His concepts are widely
accepted and easily applicable to groups regardless of cultural and
ethnic differences.
I would encourage all adult readers to read our (mine and my
daughter's) point of view which provides an individual and personal
point of view. I add a few of my experiences here to the rich
wealth of information we share as we create a pool of stories
of/for single parents. This story just adds to that rich wealth of
information. I have learned to understand certain circumstances
that are part of our lives; birth, love, learning and life and
death. My story reflects on episodes of our lives; my marriage and
divorce, my daughter's birth and development up until her second
grade in school and hints of her life as an adult now. My
perspective is different from others because I am an individual
with unique experiences. I touch on decision making. I touch on
emotions. I touch on sex and love. I am opinionated. I am
culturally diverse. I grew up with two cultures which I have taken
to heart. Both cultures offered what I think was best for me and my
daughter. My father was an officer in the United States Army. My
mother is a retired teacher with 35 years of experience. I was born
in San Juan, Puerto Rico, so were two of my sisters and the
youngest was born in Massachusetts. learned two languages, Spanish
thanks to my mom, and English, thanks to my dad. I am a teacher and
I have taught since 1974. I have taught high school, elementary
school, middle school and adult education. I have also learned from
my students. I am old enough to know better. And most importantly
of all, I share something graceful.
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