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A COLLECTION OF ESSAYS BY MOTHERS WHO STRUGGLE TO BALANCE FAMILIES
AND CREATIVITY With a history of amazing women behind them (Toni
Morrison, Kim Gordon and Diana Arbus to name but a few), the women
in this anthology demonstrate that having a child isn't the end of
creativity, but another beginning. MAMAPHONICS collects confessions
and conversations about the exhilarating, entertaining, and
difficult aspects of remaining creative while raising children.
Essays range from the hilarious, such as "The Rudest Muse" by Lisa
Peet, an illustrator and specialty baker who, by listening to her
teenage son, finds new directions for her work; to the
heart-wrenching "Childish Things" by Lori Pfeiffer, a writer
diagnosed with a terminal illness during her pregnancy, who asks,
"If you had only six months to live, what would you write?"
Including voices as diverse as a transgendered teenage couple, an
academic feminist, a punk rocker, and a poet, this eclectic mix of
musings proves that becoming a mother is not the end but a
beginning. Contributors include Ingrid Wendt, Phoebe Gloeckner, Jen
Thorpe and Gayle Brandeis.
Adolescence can be a challenging period under normal
circumstances, but for five troubled boys, 1963 is a particularly
difficult year. As social worker Airdrie Thompson-Guppy and her
family settle in Waterloo, Ontario, Airdrie's life is about to
dramatically change when those five boys are placed in her home by
the Children's Aid Society.
One by one, the boys cautiously move into the home Airdrie
shares with her husband and one-year-old daughter. Lefty is the
unwitting victim of his father's anger. Bob has endured constant
abuse from his alcoholic parents. Johnny struggles academically, is
fatherless and is clearly troubled. Val sports an impish grin and
is quick to argue. Dan is a cheery lad who is easily led by others.
As Airdrie shares how she cared for the boys despite their inner
turmoil and troubled backgrounds, she provides an eye-opening
glimpse into one family form that focuses on rescuing and
protecting children from the atrocities of a dysfunctional
life.
"Airdrie's Boys" is a poignant story for anyone who cares about
children; for families who need to know that lives can change and
mend; and for all those who dedicate their professional lives to
helping children discover a better life.
From a child development specialist comes a unique guide to
parenting children aged two to six, featuring practical advice on
how to handle the "hard stuff" - from sibling rivalry and the food
wars to questions about death, sex, and "Whyyyy?". "Just Tell Me
What to Say" gives parents sensible language and explanations for
handling specific situations inevitable in raising young
children.Parents are often perplexed by their children's typical
behaviours and endless questions. In this book, down-to-earth
advice is delivered with humour and derived from her expertise as a
child development specialist and parent educator who has worked
with hundreds of children and families. Through her 'Tips and
Scripts,' she offers parents tools and confidence to deal with: How
do I make my child listen? discipline do's and don'ts; How did the
baby get in your tummy? learning about the birds and the bees; Why
is my goldfish floating in the toilet? learning about death; Is the
fire coming to our house? and, talking about natural disasters,
terrorism, and war.
When Molly's and Becca's parents can no longer afford to keep their
house, the family moves into an apartment. The parents try to hide
their pain over the loss of their home, and the girls struggle with
their emotions as they leave behind their friends, bedrooms,
school, and playhouse in the house's beautiful backyard. All too
late, Becca remembers she left her hidden treasure chest in the
tree house. Will another child find her treasure? Would that child
care about it or throw it away? As the family unpacks and adjusts
to their new lives, they find their most valuable possession-a
possession that can never be lost or taken away. With help from an
unexpected source, Becca discovers that even if she never returns
to her old house, the contents of the treasure chest will always be
hers.A story about losing what we love, the upheaval of moving, and
the surprise of delightful discoveries, "The Treasure Chest" helps
both children and adults address difficult issues in today's world.
They go by many names: helicopter parents, hovercrafts, PFHs
(Parents from Hell). The news media is filled with stories of
well-intentioned parents going to ridiculous extremes to remove all
obstacles from their child's path to greatness . . . or at least to
an ivy league school. From cradle to college, they remain
intimately enmeshed in their children's lives, stifling their
development and creating infantilized, spoiled, immature adults
unprepared to make the decisions necessary for the real world. Or
so the story goes.
Drawing on a wealth of eye-opening interviews with parents
across the country, Margaret K. Nelson cuts through the stereotypes
and hyperbole to examine the realities of what she terms "parenting
out of control." Situating this phenomenon within a broad
sociological context, she finds several striking explanations for
why today's prosperous and well-educated parents are unable to set
realistic boundaries when it comes to raising their children.
Analyzing the goals and aspirations parents have for their children
as well as the strategies they use to reach them, Nelson discovers
fundamental differences among American parenting styles that expose
class fault lines, both within the elite and between the elite and
the middle and working classes.
Nelson goes on to explore the new ways technology shapes modern
parenting. From baby monitors to cell phones (often referred to as
the world's longest umbilical cord), to social networking sites,
and even GPS devices, parents have more tools at their disposal
than ever before to communicate with, supervise, and even spy on
their children. These play important and often surprising roles in
the phenomenon of parenting out of control. Yet the technologies
parents choose, and those they refuse to use, often seem
counterintuitive. Nelson shows that these choices make sense when
viewed in the light of class expectations.
Today's parents are faced with unprecedented opportunities and
dangers for their children, and are evolving novel strategies to
adapt to these changes. Nelson's lucid and insightful work provides
an authoritative examination of what happens when these new
strategies go too far.
In "If I Knew it Was Going to Be This Much Fun, I Would Have Become
a Grandparent First Willard Scott, along with celebrities and
ordinary people, will write about all the joys of becoming a
grandparent. "If I Knew it Was Going to Be This Much Fun will be
similar in format to "The Older the Fiddle, The Better the Tune-a
long introduction by Willard, followed by shorter pieces by each
contributor. This is a great follow-up book for Willard who was
married for almost 50 years and has two grandchildren.
Raven's Roost is a story about Halloween. A mother and her three
children relocate to a small town on the eastern seaboard to be
closer to her parents and sister who live in the small town. It is
fall and Halloween is fast approaching. The relocated children
become friends with the two little boys who live next door to them.
The two little boys harbor a dark secret about the old house on top
of a hill called Raven's Roost. The two little boys have already
discovered a secret cave and tunnel under the old house and they
believe from what they have discovered that the house is haunted.
There is further evidence that something mysterious is going on up
at the old house and the children believe it is haunted. A
mysterious floating light appears sometime after dark and there are
sounds coming from the top of the hill that suggests a ghost does
live at the house. The children set out to discover exactly what is
going on up at the old house. On Halloween night they sneak off to
go up to the old 'haunted' house under the guise of trick or
treating the occupants of the house if there are any. Much to the
dismay of the children's parents, the children have found a gold
coin in the cave beneath the old mansion. The children's plot to
trick or treat the house goes awry when a monstrous form appears at
the house and an apparent ghost does appear during their Halloween
night trip to the house.
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