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They go by many names: helicopter parents, hovercrafts, PFHs
(Parents from Hell). The news media is filled with stories of
well-intentioned parents going to ridiculous extremes to remove all
obstacles from their child's path to greatness . . . or at least to
an ivy league school. From cradle to college, they remain
intimately enmeshed in their children's lives, stifling their
development and creating infantilized, spoiled, immature adults
unprepared to make the decisions necessary for the real world. Or
so the story goes.
Drawing on a wealth of eye-opening interviews with parents
across the country, Margaret K. Nelson cuts through the stereotypes
and hyperbole to examine the realities of what she terms "parenting
out of control." Situating this phenomenon within a broad
sociological context, she finds several striking explanations for
why today's prosperous and well-educated parents are unable to set
realistic boundaries when it comes to raising their children.
Analyzing the goals and aspirations parents have for their children
as well as the strategies they use to reach them, Nelson discovers
fundamental differences among American parenting styles that expose
class fault lines, both within the elite and between the elite and
the middle and working classes.
Nelson goes on to explore the new ways technology shapes modern
parenting. From baby monitors to cell phones (often referred to as
the world's longest umbilical cord), to social networking sites,
and even GPS devices, parents have more tools at their disposal
than ever before to communicate with, supervise, and even spy on
their children. These play important and often surprising roles in
the phenomenon of parenting out of control. Yet the technologies
parents choose, and those they refuse to use, often seem
counterintuitive. Nelson shows that these choices make sense when
viewed in the light of class expectations.
Today's parents are faced with unprecedented opportunities and
dangers for their children, and are evolving novel strategies to
adapt to these changes. Nelson's lucid and insightful work provides
an authoritative examination of what happens when these new
strategies go too far.
Raven's Roost is a story about Halloween. A mother and her three
children relocate to a small town on the eastern seaboard to be
closer to her parents and sister who live in the small town. It is
fall and Halloween is fast approaching. The relocated children
become friends with the two little boys who live next door to them.
The two little boys harbor a dark secret about the old house on top
of a hill called Raven's Roost. The two little boys have already
discovered a secret cave and tunnel under the old house and they
believe from what they have discovered that the house is haunted.
There is further evidence that something mysterious is going on up
at the old house and the children believe it is haunted. A
mysterious floating light appears sometime after dark and there are
sounds coming from the top of the hill that suggests a ghost does
live at the house. The children set out to discover exactly what is
going on up at the old house. On Halloween night they sneak off to
go up to the old 'haunted' house under the guise of trick or
treating the occupants of the house if there are any. Much to the
dismay of the children's parents, the children have found a gold
coin in the cave beneath the old mansion. The children's plot to
trick or treat the house goes awry when a monstrous form appears at
the house and an apparent ghost does appear during their Halloween
night trip to the house.
The book deals with the generation gap which exists between elders
and youngsters and how the same can be bridged through a genuine
introspection which can help in taking remedial action in daily
life. With the fast-changing times, it is vitally important to be
able to solve these differences through self-change. The book gives
specific examples of differing mind-sets as well as unusual
situations which keep occurring and how they are ultimately solved.
The dismal relationship which existed between the parents and the
daughter ultimately changes due to self-realization. There are
specific examples highlighting the positivity and negativity of
such situations.
In "If I Knew it Was Going to Be This Much Fun, I Would Have Become
a Grandparent First Willard Scott, along with celebrities and
ordinary people, will write about all the joys of becoming a
grandparent. "If I Knew it Was Going to Be This Much Fun will be
similar in format to "The Older the Fiddle, The Better the Tune-a
long introduction by Willard, followed by shorter pieces by each
contributor. This is a great follow-up book for Willard who was
married for almost 50 years and has two grandchildren.
A mother's worst fears are almost always centered on her
children. Gifts Of Grace is the compelling and true story of Deb
Marcotte's worst nightmare becoming an unimaginable reality. As Deb
anxiously awaited the results of the CT scan, she had almost
convinced herself that her four-year-old daughter, Allie, was fine.
A glance at the medical chart showed otherwise. Deb's heart sank as
reality was confirmed by the doctor with words that sent her world
spiraling - "It looks like she has had a stroke. But there are
older strokes that are present as well." Guilt, fear, panic and an
avalanche of other emotions erupted as Deb began to tearfully
attempt some level of control. As she had done so many other times,
Deb turned to God. Deb prayed for strength and understanding. She
prayed that her faith would overcome her questions. This was the
beginning of countless medical procedures in hospitals around the
country. Allie would endure multiple brain surgeries and endless
tests as medical experts worked to find a cure. Deb remained strong
in prayer and even stronger as Allie's advocate. Gifts Of Grace is
an unforgettable story of a young girl's inspiring strength, a
mother's unbreakable faith and indomitable spirit, and a loving
God's everlasting gifts.
To anyone who is not a new mother, babyhood may seem like a
nanosecond long--a quick blip on the radar of life. But to a new
mother, it feels never-ending. A child is born, a thunderstorm
comes barreling in, and the idea of buckling down to raise said
baby seems like an eternity--and feels totally impossible. How will
I ever make it through? This is especially true for women today,
who are raised to foster strong personal and professional
identities. Becoming a mother is a complete restructuring of one's
life, and there's a necessary psychic reckoning that gets buried
under dirty diapers and lost amid the nipple shields and mashed
peas. Loaded with unfettered support from a mom who has been
through it, You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom offers a welcome
acknowledgement that motherhood is a mind f*ck--and that women
deserve more than trite oversimplifying and sugarcoating about the
miracles of child-rearing. It is not a parenting book, it's a mama
book, one with an irresistible, irreverent voice, sharp insight,
and some welcome doses of "truth salad," plus a few experts thrown
in for good measure. It's You Are a Badass for new mothers, and a
long-awaited life raft for all the mothers drowning in maternal
confusion and terror.
Kaci's children have craniosynostosis, a condition where the infant
skull sutures (openings) fuse early and a secondary condition,
chiari malformation, caused by the growing brain pushing its way
down the spinal column. With 13 surgeries between the children, the
Kings are often asked how they manage daily life along with the
difficult diagnoses and seemingly endless trips to the operating
room. Finding help did not come easily. Kaci trusted her instincts
and pushed on, focusing on the children's health and leaning on
sources of strength. The conditions could be fixed once they found
a doctor who knew how to help. Their continued search led to Dr.
Ben Carson, Chief of Pediatric Neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins
Hospital: an angel in disguise. The children would have suffered
gravely without the treatment they so desperately needed. As Dr.
Carson states in his foreword, "In Light Will Emerge, Kaci King has
provided a wonderful mechanism to gain foreknowledge of the
difficulties of navigating the medical system..." There is hope
even in the worst of situations, blessings when most aren't sure
any exist. Life is about attitude. Kaci was taught that for every
action, there is a reaction, good or bad. She shares her family's
journey: how they coped; how they found their inner strength; and
how not knowing what else to do, they prayed. Kaci offers a wealth
of information explaining the medical conditions, websites and
online support groups. Through this book, she sheds light on what
helped them overcome obstacles, how they found strength during
difficult times, and encourages others who may feel hopeless. Kaci
shares the heartache and many blessings received throughout this
journey. Light Will Emerge enables parents and caregivers to push
on to find help in a medical crisis and hopefully to help medical
professionals understand their very real story.
A true story of a beleaguered mother's experience with an
angry/troubled child This is a dramatic case-study of a child gone
awry...with a full etiology, plus the reluctant causations
inherent. This is a vivid expose of the traumas and tragedies of a
family unit in turmoil; and, within that, the consequence of a
mother having to bear the constancy of abuse and pain, silently and
all-but-alone It is a harsh example of an ever-increasing measure
of dysfunction in our youth; and, as part of that, the residual
effects to us all It is a real and warranted indictment of the
system, on virtually all levels, in both the private and public
sectors, for it's well-evidenced failures and lacking particles to
adequately deal with an all-bit-forgotten sector It provides a
revelation of a real answer/solution, as relevant to all that is
now known and/or has been experienced, in Time-Out, For Kids
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