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For anyone who suffers more anxiety or sadness than is justified by
healthy concern or normal grieving Sticks and stones can break my
bones, but words can never hurt me is an adage we teach our
children to insulate them from the cruel remarks of others. As
adults, however, it's often the words that arise spontaneously from
within-the self-disparagements, disturbing recollections, and
ominous forecasts-that cause us emotional pain and prevent us from
living our fullest and most productive lives. The human brain has
provided us with the technologies that allow us to dominate our
planet, but it is also the source of much unnecessary emotional
distress. Even when we have no good reason to be upset, our brains
can spontaneously flood our minds with disturbing thoughts of past
trauma or future disaster. Much of our unnecessary emotional
distress occurs because our attention is involuntarily drawn to
whatever most angers or frightens us, even when no immediate action
is required and the risk is minimal. Our mood tends to be harmed
much more by each negative thought than it is improved by each
positive one. These two findings constitute what researchers call
the negativity bias, and it's one of the reasons we often struggle
to attain peace of mind: that mental equilibrium in which we accept
both ourselves and our circumstances, without experiencing distress
about something from the past or that might happen in the future.
By becoming more mindful of our thoughts, we can learn to recognize
those that distress and impede us unnecessarily. We can then
respond by identifying, and focusing on, more functional
alternatives. Reviewing, discussing, rehearsing, and roleplaying
functional self-talk can strengthen our ability to reshape both our
mood and our self-image. This focused positivity can serve as the
foundation of our efforts to become more assertive, more relaxed,
healthier, and more connected to the world around us. Focused
Positivity presents a comprehensive and accessible approach to
positive thinking, one that is independent of belief system and
consistent with what science has discovered about negativity bias,
automatic behavior, the impact of self-talk on mood and behavior,
habit change, and even the competition that occurs between the two
hemispheres of our brains. Focused Positivity can provide us with
an accessible strategy that can enhance both success and peace of
mind.
First published in 1910, The Science of Getting Rich has never been
out of print. In his classic study, American New Thought pioneer
Wallace Wattles outlines a simple formula for self-actualization,
following his profound belief that "Whatever may be said in praise
of poverty, the fact remains that it is not possible to live a
really complete or successful life unless one is rich."
A New York Times bestseller with over 1.3 million copies sold! Only
a few months ago, he was a successful executive. Now he's a
desperate man. Join David Ponder on an incredible journey to
discover the Seven Decisions for success that can turn any life
around, no matter how hopeless a situation seems.
Forty-six-year-old David Ponder feels like a total failure. Once a
high-flying executive in a Fortune 500 company, he now works a
part-time, minimum wage job and struggles to support his family.
Suddenly an even greater crisis hits: his daughter becomes ill, and
he can't even afford to get her the medical help she needs. When
David's car skids on an icy road, he wonders if he even cares to
survive the crash. But an extraordinary experience awaits David
Ponder. He suddenly finds himself traveling back in time, meeting
leaders and heroes at crucial moments in their lives-from Abraham
Lincoln to Anne Frank. As David speaks with each of these
historical figures, they share their personal philosophies with
him. By the time his journey is over, he has received seven secrets
for success-and a second chance. Among these crucial decisions for
success are: The buck stops here, and I am responsible for my past
and my future I will seek wisdom and be a servant to others I will
greet this day with a forgiving spirit, and I will forgive myself
Today I will choose to be happy and be the possessor of a grateful
spirit The message is simple: Life is about choices. While we have
little control over the events that occur in our lives, success is
determined by the choices we make daily. The Traveler's Gift will
challenge you, inspire you, and give you seven decisions that you
can employ to determine your own personal success. Acclaim for The
Traveler's Gift: Good Morning America's "Read This!" book selection
for May 2003 Hit the New York Times bestseller list and remained
there for 17 weeks Reached #5 on the New York Times Business
Bestseller list Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and Publisher's
Weekly bestseller Translated into nearly 20 languages, including
Braille
The Celebrate Recovery Participant's Guides are essential tools for
the personal recovery journey. In the five lessons in Guide 2:
Taking an Honest and Spiritual Inventory, you will experience an
in-depth look at the 4th principle in the recovery process: 4
Openly examine and confess my faults to God, to myself, and to
someone I trust. "Happy are the pure in heart" (Matthew 5:8). By
working through the lessons and exercises found in each of the four
Participant's Guides you will begin to experience the true peace
and serenity you have been seeking, restore and develop stronger
relationships with others and with God, and find freedom from
life's hurts, hang-ups, and habits. All the scriptures have been
updated to the new NIV 2011 version.
This business book is great for leaders, middle managers, entrepreneurs
and anyone interested in:
- PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
- SOFT SKILLS FOR THE FUTURE
- RESILIENCE & ADAPTABILITY
"Although we are born with these seven skills, it is never too
late to improve the way we use them in life and work. Everyone should
buy this book and keep it by their bedside for reference. This way each
of us can continually increase our happiness, success and well-being.”
- Mark Swindell, Founder and CEO of Rock Rail
"It has been a delight to work with Emma- Sue she has so much passion
for what she does. Her workshop and book are excellent and particularly
fit well with our core company values, definitely 7 key skills we need
for our future!" – Tanya Zuchowski Learning & Development Manager
at CMS Cameron McKenna Nabarro Olswang LLP.“A great CV might open a
door but these 7 skills will determine your future success and
happiness - this gem of a book will help you to develop these essential
work and life skills.” Dr Lisa Day, Director of Studies Online MBA,
University of Liverpool“Life is too important to live without some
guidance – this book is THE guidance all of us need to flourish in work
and beyond.” University Professor Dr Sarah Mercer, Professor of
Language Teaching at the University of Graz, Austria
Feeling in control over your life is crucial to success and wellbeing.
Our world is changing - so fast, so furiously, so ferociously - that to
stand out you need to tap into your own resources and competences.
Doing so puts you firmly back into the driving seat of your own life,
enabling you to be happier, find and do work you love and have a true
sense of purpose. But what are the key competences that you need?
7 Skills for the Future sets the scene for seven new soft skills that
will propel you forward. Through a combination of scientific research,
no-nonsense advice, practical exercises and case studies, this book
shows you how to understand, develop and use:
- Adaptability - respond better to opportunities and change by
being flexible and agile
- Critical thinking - think smarter, more resourcefully, creatively
and collaboratively
- Empathy - nurture all your relationships by learning how to
listen and be present
- Integrity - trust, values and honesty are the name of the game
now as is authenticity
- Optimism - be the most positive person you know
- Being Proactive - respond rather than react and learn to reinvent
yourself
- Resilience - make mistakes, bounce back, learn from experience
and move on to the next challenge
By learning how to tap into these essential skills, and understanding
how to put them into practice each day of our lives, we can be happier,
more effective and abler to cope with change in an uncertain and
exciting future.
In this clever book, bestselling author Richard Templar delivers a
collection of principles, tactics and techniques that will make
sure things always get done, without you ever having to break a
sweat or stay up into the small hours to do it. These pithy,
self-contained ideas are so straightforward that you can even read
the book itself without trying too hard
WHAT'S YOUR GENIUS?
Forget what you think you know about genius. It's not a magical,
elusive gift -- a "lightning bolt from the gods" that strikes
people like Einstein or Mozart, but not the rest of us. Everyone's
got genius, but it's up to you to find it, put it to work, and
watch it change your life. This book will show you how to:
IDENTIFY YOUR GENIUS
"Where do your passions and your talents meet?"
EXPRESS YOUR GENIUS
"What's your story, and how do you share it with others? "
SURROUND YOUR SELF WITH GENIUS
"Who do you need in your tribe? "
SUSTAIN YOUR GENIUS
"How do you feed and care for your genius? "
MARKET YOUR GENIUS
"Why are your contradictions actually your largest competitive
advantage? "
The outcome is a profound revelation: You have the tools and
ability to realize greatness both in and out of the workplace.
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