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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Advice on parenting
Jane Dwinell has written an important book using real-life
scenarios to illustrate her unique philosophy of childbirth, one
that can only inspire women to take greater control over how and
where they give birth. From her vantage point as a birth attendant,
Dwinell recounts the moving birth experiences of twenty different
women. Thus the reader learns that there are no right or wrong ways
to give birth. In fact, the author shows how satisfying it can be
for women to exercise their own strength, power and choice in the
birth process instead of yielding to unnecessary technological and
medical interventions. Birth, she says, is a process of wellness,
not illness. Hence, most women don't need medication to help them
deal with normal birth pains if they have the proper empowering
support during labor.
When women give birth in a comfortable setting of their choice,
the medical wrongs against them, committed in hospitals in the name
of safety and technology, are prevented. In the face of opposition
from an entrenched segment of the medical establishment, Dwinell
dares the view that hospital care should not be routine but should
be given only with good reason and the women's permission. For
pregnant women and their partners, "Birth StorieS" makes a
convincing argument that under normal circumstances wach women's
intuitive knowledge and individual resources can help her to labor
and deliver successfully in her own way. Nurses, midwives, doctors,
and birth educators will find it useful to realize that there are
many ways to give birth . . . that it is important for the family
to be together and make their own choices . . . and that pregnant
women can have safe births without excessive medical intervention.
This book can also serve as a guide for professionals who want to
develop this type of birthing model within their own
institution.
Is it true that children are as vulnerable and innocent as we think
they are? Adults view themselves as children's teachers, mentors,
counselors, overseers, and guides. In Intentional Connections, a
marriage and family therapist explores a different paradigm-one
that supports the belief that children are capable of not just
learning from us, but teaching us as well. Gloria O'Brien's
extensive professional background has included counseling parents
with concerns that range from common behavioral problems to rare
disabilities. She shares psychological theories, case studies, and
real-life vignettes that suggest when we observe our interactions
with our children more attentively, we uncover the many life
lessons children provide. While including step-by-step instructions
on how adults can avoid the obstacles that interfere with our
ability to hear our children and achieve greater personal growth,
O'Brien provides specific guidance on how parents can distinguish
their own identity from their child's identity; recognize emotional
triggers from the past; separate emotions from logic and enhance
decision-making; learn to empathize with children; identify and
stop button-pushing behaviors. "Intentional Connections" helps
adults to recognize roadblocks, develop more satisfying adult-child
relationships, and embark on a journey of self-improvement.
Reflections of Mamie-A Story of Survival is a sad and joyous
personal account of growing up under the worst kind of adversity.
It is a story of survival during times of extreme suffering and
deprivation that will leave you feeling Mamie's anguish. A must
read for anyone with a difficult childhood or anyone wanting to
understand the cycles of abuse ...S. Allan Kane, MD The story
begins in the early 1950's suburbs of Houston, Texas. Mamie is a
young child of four who was unwanted, afraid, abused and with
nowhere to turn, learned that she had to stand alone. Her only
friends were her older brother, an abused child himself, and her
nanny, who begged their mother to stop beating them. The father,
though he loved his children, remained passive to the end. A victim
himself, the only protection he offered was a warning to stay out
of their mother's reach. This story shares Mamie's heroic battle to
keep her dreams alive and hold on to her spirit. How she finds her
way out of fifty-four years of abuse is yours to discover in her
fascinating memoirs.
The New York Times Bestseller 'Blows your mind on every page'
Caitlin Moran 'Should be mandatory reading for anyone who cares
about the next generation' Lori Gottlieb, New York Times
bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone Peggy
Orenstein broke ground with her bestselling Girls & Sex,
exploring young women's right to pleasure and agency in sexual
encounters. Now she turns her focus to boys with an examination of
how young men are navigating sexual culture in these changing times
- and what we need to do to help them. Drawing on comprehensive
interviews with young men, psychologists and experts in the field,
Boys & Sex dissects 'locker room talk'; pornography as the new
sex education; the role of empathy; boys' understanding of hookup
culture and consent; and their experience as both perpetrators and
victims of sexual assault. By presenting young men's experience in
all its complexity, Orenstein unravels the hidden truths, hard
lessons and important realities of young male sexuality in today's
world. The result is a provocative and paradigm-shifting work that
offers a much-needed vision of how boys can truly move forward as
better men.
This book celebrates some of the most memorable moments of
motherhood. The joy, laughter, and even embarrassment that only a
mother can love.
Every adult I have ever worked with has identified a broken, hurt
or disillusioned child memory within; "The Children in my Chair."
Susie had an intense phobia, Lucy was a compulsive over eater,
Valerie believed women are subservient and had no voice, Noreen
grew up with a lack mentality and was always broke, Erin never felt
good enough, Julie believed she was unlovable, Doug was angry all
the time and Katie distrusted her feelings and hide them inside.
How did this happen? We are living in a world full of people living
with shame, guilt, self blame, unhappiness, unworthiness, fear and
obligation that was originally put upon them' unconsciously
by their mentors and role models in early life. How we, as
innocent children, learn about and what we come to believe about
ourselves and about life are the teachings of this book.
We've been conditioned Conditioning begins with words we hear,
think and speak. This book is a simple call to presence for all
because everyone was once a child themselves. Take this
opportunity to; recognize your own conditioning; break the chains
of the past; learn what it is to be present; and learn how to
consciously use words that empower, inspire, support and encourage
both yourself and the children in your life now.
The Parental Brain: Mechanisms, Development, and Evolution presents
a comprehensive analysis of how the brain regulates parental
behavior in nonhuman animals and in humans, how these brain
mechanisms develop, and how such development can go awry, leading
to faulty parental behavior. Further, the proposal is examined that
the maternal brain served as a foundation or template for the
evolution of other types of strong prosocial bonds in mammals, such
as the hyper-prosociality that occurs in humans. Unique aspects of
this book are its multilevel perspective and the integration and
comparison of animal and human research in order to create a
complete understanding of the parental brain. Topics covered
include the following: * Maternal, paternal, and alloparental
behavior * Hormonal regulation of parental behavior * Oxytocin and
parental behavior * Subcortical neural circuits regulating parental
behavior in nonhuman mammals * The interactions between cortical
and subcortical neural circuits that are associated with parental
cognitions, emotions, and behavior in humans * How maternal care
directed toward one's infants influences the development of the
parental brain in the affected infants * The intergenerational
transmission or continuity of normal and abnormal maternal behavior
* The involvement of epigenetics and gene by environment
interactions in the development of the parental brain *
Evolutionary perspectives on the parental brain, particularly with
respect to alloparenting and cooperative breeding that have
provided a framework for appreciating how the parental brain could
have provided a foundation for the hyper-prosociality that occurs
within human social groups This book will be a valuable resource
for behavioral neuroscientists and neuroendocrinologists, social
neuroscientists, developmental psychobiologists and psychologists,
anthropologists, and evolutionary psychologists with an interest in
parental behavior, mother-infant relationships, child development,
and the evolution of prosocial behavior.
Poet and scholar Thomas W. Pierce, using his spiritual name
"Chandra Lal" from seventeen incarnations ago, presents a
fascinating study on how we can eliminate war, crime, and violence
from our world in The Revenge of the Child.
Using a combination of intuition and research, Pierce delves
into the history of the twentieth century and focuses primarily on
two high and two low points as a framework for his argument. The
high points include the discovery of cold fusion and the Marshall
Plan and the low points include the atomic bombing of Japan and the
Holocaust in Europe.
Pierce argues that human progress is dependent upon human
understanding. With the continued improvement of communication, the
world has become a global village, which in turn has contributed to
the slow increase of mass human understanding that all are entitled
to help and protection. By harnessing this powerful element, we are
better prepared to acknowledge the constructive forces of light and
the destructive forces of darkness in the human psyche, enabling us
to improve our world.
By combining this knowledge with historical studies, Pierce
shows how we desperately need to use this enlightened understanding
to keep from repeating the mistakes of our history, particularly
when it comes to child abuse. Only then can we transform Earth into
the Paradise it is rightly destined to become.
The Revenge of the Child aptly demonstrates what we as a people
need to do to prevent tragedy from overtaking our beloved
world.
This book will guide you to establish a great relations with your
kids. The book will show step by step process to make your child a
better person. There are topics on expectations, communications,
safety, money, etc. which will help you to understand the newborn,
teens, all the way to adolescent. The book will teach you how to
communicate with your child as they grow up and make them your best
friend. Teens go through mental, physical, social, etc. changes as
they grow and sometimes parents do not understand their behavior.
This book will help parents to understand their behavior but also
to change them. You will be able to teach good habits without
violating your kids rights and make them respect you. Children are
like a growing seed. You need to cultivate it with love, water it
care to get the fruit you want. The main purpose of this book is to
make your child a better person in life.
As a first time writer my book Pick up the Phone and Listen/Wake up
Call is about (The Reality and Actuality of Youth Violence: Family,
Community, & Prison). The book brings attention to the rise of
youth violence, bullying, recognizing changes in attitude and
behavior that affects youths mentally, physically, socially
emotionally and educationally.
My book addresses the needs of youths lacking responsible parents,
living in a single/two parent family, peer pressure and role models
that they can trust and confide in. Their dire need of respect for
their personal opinions having someone to listen to what they have
to say, the lack of passion and compassion. (Parents and youth need
to communicate). In my book there are comments from incarcerated
and discharged inmates who became imprisoned at an early age as a
juvenile and adult offender, and now wants to share their
experiences to help make a difference by giving something back.
Opinions from professionals, parents, and other adults who work
with or have youths at risk/at promise are discussed. Pick up The
Phone and Listen stresses the need to educate and make our children
aware as young as toddlers and preschoolers regarding violence,
hate, prison, crime and bullying by having volunteers during
presentation in our schools and communities. I also express my
concern of holding adults accountable for their actions and non
actions when being irresponsible for our children's, safety,
health, welfare and education. In my book I share the importance of
my family foundation, Parents for Prevention.
A section of my book is a autobiographical, describing my childhood
growing up in the 60s, my "Vietnam" experience, my 25 years of
employment as a Operation's Officer with the Department of
Corrections at the Erie County Prison and my introduction and
training into Martial Arts. As a result of this experience I gained
mind and body Discipline.
I was the first karate instructor who trained and promoted my
student Billy Blanks, the "Tae Bo" founder and Martial arts movie
star, to his first- and -second - degree black belts as an inner
city youth growing up in Erie Pennsylvania during the early 70s. I
talk about the Billy Blanks I use to know. (Photos are included in
my book).
Founder of the following programsThe Karate Fighting School of Self
Defense- 1969Women on Guard Program- Self Preservation-
1974Children on Guard Program-Self Preservation- 1979Erie County
Prison Juvenile Awareness Program-prevention-1986Youth on a Mission
Team Inc.- Youth Service-1990Victims of Bullies ALLY Group
Exposure- Support Group-(V.O.B.A.G.E)
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