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"To Raise a Boy is a clear-eyed and sometimes shocking view of the
world that we have created for boys, and a call for change." --Peg
Tyre, author of the New York Times bestseller The Trouble with Boys
"A stunning work of investigative journalism that looks at the
systems and structures that have failed our boys." --Soraya
Chemaly, author of Rage Becomes Her A journalist's searing
investigation into how we teach boys to be men--and how we can do
better. How will I raise my son to be different? This question
gripped Washington Post investigative reporter Emma Brown, who was
at home nursing her six-week-old son when the #MeToo movement
erupted. In search of an answer, Brown traveled around the country,
through towns urban and rural, affluent and distressed. In the
course of her reporting, she interviewed hundreds of
people--educators, parents, coaches, researchers, men, and boys--to
understand the challenges boys face and how to address them. What
Brown uncovered was shocking: 23 percent of boys believe men should
use violence to get respect; 22 percent of an incoming college
freshman class said they had already committed sexual violence; 58
percent of young adults said they've never had a conversation with
their parents about respect and care in sexual relationships. Men
are four times more likely than women to die by suicide. Nearly 4
million men experience sexual violence each year. From the reporter
who brought Dr. Christine Blasey Ford's story to light, To Raise a
Boy combines assiduous reporting, cutting-edge scientific research,
and boys' powerful testimonials to expose the crisis in young men's
emotional and physical health. Emma Brown connects the dots between
educators, researchers, policy makers, and mental health
professionals in this tour de force that upends everything we
thought we knew about boys. Johns Hopkins chair of the Department
of Population, Family, and Reproductive Health Robert Blum says,
"The story of boys has yet to be told, and I think it's a really
important story." Urgent and revelatory, To Raise a Boy begins to
tell that story.
This book is written to tell people that Little League Baseball is
more than just a game. In my 36 years of being in Little League
Baseball, I've seen just about everything. I've seen the way some
coaches teach their players to win a game. As Little League
coaches, umpires, and officials, we should always be building good
relationships with the players, their families, and all other
people who are involved. The important thing is to teach the
players the values of sportsmanship, teamwork, and fair play.
Bump to Birthday - a beautifully designed, colour illustrated,
combined pregnancy and first year baby journal - will inspire any
parent-to-be to capture the unique story of the journey of
pregnancy and baby's precious first year. During pregnancy Bump to
Birthday provides week- by-week information on the developing bump
and provides prompts to enable parents to tell their own remarkable
story and record unique, unrepeatable experiences. The pregnancy
journey, hopes and dreams, the birthing experience, and all the
special moments with the new baby - from first movements to first
smile, first Christmas to first birthday - with spaces for photos
and scan images, will all be treasured forever in one beautiful
journal.
On Friday nights many parents want to have a little fun
together--without the kids. But "getting a sitter"--especially a
dependable one--rarely seems trouble-free. Will the kids be safe
with "that girl"? It's a question that discomfited parents have
been asking ever since the emergence of the modern American teenage
girl nearly a century ago. In Babysitter, Miriam Forman-Brunell
brings critical attention to the ubiquitous, yet long-overlooked
babysitter in the popular imagination and American history.
Informed by her research on the history of teenage girls'
culture, Forman-Brunell analyzes the babysitter, who has embodied
adults' fundamental apprehensions about girls' pursuit of autonomy
and empowerment. In fact, the grievances go both ways, as girls
have been distressed by unsatisfactory working conditions. In her
quest to gain a fuller picture of this largely unexamined cultural
phenomenon, Forman-Brunell analyzes a wealth of diverse sources,
such as The Baby-sitter's Club book series, horror movies like The
Hand That Rocks the Cradle, urban legends, magazines, newspapers,
television shows, pornography, and more.
Forman-Brunell shows that beyond the mundane, understandable
apprehensions stirred by hiring a caretaker to "mind the children"
in one's own home, babysitters became lightning rods for society's
larger fears about gender and generational change. In the end,
experts' efforts to tame teenage girls with training courses,
handbooks, and other texts failed to prevent generations from
turning their backs on babysitting.
Praise for Prodigal Sons & Material Girls "Nathan Dungan’s book is for every parent, regardless of wealth or status–it will be the go-to book for a good long time. Its messages about money and values are timeless, and right on time." –Harvey MacKay Bestselling author of Swim With the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive and Dig Your Well Before You’re Thirsty, among other titles "For harassed parents and manipulated children, Nathan Dungan’s book provides a powerful protective shield. I especially appreciated his ‘Share-Save-Spend’ approach, with its emphasis on teaching children the importance of sharing with those less fortunate. It’s a lesson that can help all of us, not only our children, live within our means and make the world a better place." –John de Graaf coauthor, Affluenza: The All-Consuming Epidemic coproducer of the PBS Affluenza series "Nathan Dungan has written a gem. He explains in a clear and engaging way how Madison Avenue has our kids in their cross hairs. What’s even better though is that he gives sound and practical advice about what we can do about it. I urge everyone who cares about kids to read this book." –David Walsh, PhD President, National Institute on Media and the Family "Nathan Dungan exposes the culture of spending that victimizes our children and young people. Nathan helps us learn to lead the young people we care about toward more satisfying values and behaviors. Parents, grandparents, and mentors to the next generation will find this book a must." –Rev. Loren B. Mead Founding President, The Alban Institute "Prodigal Sons and Material Girls is a wake-up call to one of the biggest problems facing kids today: the inability to deal responsibly with money. Mr. Dungan’s practical advice is to reorder our financial priorities . . . to share first, save next, and spend later . . . and then to pass these values on to our children. Only by doing so will we successfully defeat the three-headed monster of consumer products companies, media conglomerates, and advertising agencies." –Bruce Nicholson President and CEO, Thrivent Financial for Lutherans A portion of the author’s proceeds will be donated to charitable causes.
The mental well-being of children and adults is shockingly poor. Marc Brackett, author of Permission to Feel, knows why. And he knows what we can do.
Marc Brackett is a professor in Yale University’s Child Study Center and founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. In his 25 years as an emotion scientist, he has developed a remarkably effective plan to improve the lives of children and adults – a blueprint for understanding our emotions and using them wisely so that they help, rather than hinder, our success and well-being. The core of his approach is a legacy from his childhood, from an astute uncle who gave him permission to feel. He was the first adult who managed to see Marc, listen to him, and recognize the suffering, bullying, and abuse he’d endured. And that was the beginning of Marc’s awareness that what he was going through was temporary. He wasn’t alone, he wasn’t stuck on a timeline, and he wasn’t “wrong” to feel scared, isolated, and angry. Now, best of all, he could do something about it.
In the decades since, Marc has led large research teams and raised tens of millions of dollars to investigate the roots of emotional well-being. His prescription for healthy children (and their parents, teachers, and schools) is a system called RULER, a high-impact and fast-effect approach to understanding and mastering emotions that has already transformed the thousands of schools that have adopted it. RULER has been proven to reduce stress and burnout, improve school climate, and enhance academic achievement. This book is the culmination of Marc’s development of RULER and his way to share the strategies and skills with readers around the world. It is tested, and it works.
This book combines rigor, science, passion and inspiration in equal parts. Too many children and adults are suffering; they are ashamed of their feelings and emotionally unskilled, but they don’t have to be. Marc Brackett’s life mission is to reverse this course, and this book can show you how.
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