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Books > Fiction > True stories > Endurance & survival
Joanne Phillips' ordeal began aged 13 when she was gang-raped in
her bedroom by local boys. Following the trauma, she dropped out of
school, was befriended by an older man and was forced into
prostitution aged 16. Over the next six years, she was raped by
over 500 men, starved, beaten, and transported around the country
to brothels. Forced to have sex with men from all walks of life
including lawyers, stockbrokers, doctors, a parish councillor,
Joanne was even made to have sex with her former school headteacher
- who didn't recognise her. Every attempt to flee failed. Police
warned her mother and stepdad she had chosen the lifestyle and even
threatened to charge her parents with living off immoral earnings
if they allowed her to move back. Escape seemed impossible, until
one day she couldn't take any more. Just before her 21st birthday,
Joanne eventually escaped her enslavement. After being left alone
briefly in a London flat, where she was expected to work, she took
a chance after finding a bag of money and a handgun. Fearing for
her life, she fled into the night with nothing but a plastic bag of
cash. After catching a train to Northern Ireland, she found her
real dad and hid at his home from her pimp. Desperate to readjust
to normal life, she found a job and went on to study at university.
But when she tried to explain to a new boyfriend about her past, he
didn't believe any of it was true, so she vowed to keep the abuse a
secret - until years later, a conversation with one of her own
teenage daughters changed her life...
"Yeah, I've gone through some rough times in my life, but was it
really trauma?" You may have found yourself thinking something
along these lines, and you wouldn't be alone. Trauma comes in many
shapes and sizes, and on some level, we have all experienced it.
The unfortunate reality is that many of us pass off or downplay
situations or circumstances in our lives that are, in fact,
emotionally traumatic. Left unattended, this trauma can wreak havoc
on our minds and bodies, bringing about physical symptoms of pain
and rendering us unsafe, anxious, and feeling unfulfilled. In The
Unspoken, author Ashley Haseotes shares her story of hitting rock
bottom and finally coming to grips with the reality of her trauma.
Suffering deeply and feeling overwhelmed, she becomes
debilitatingly ill with chronic migraines and vertigo that leave
her confined to her bed for months. Unable to work and take care of
her children, lost and disconnected from her life purpose, she
stares down feelings of unbridled failure and unsurmountable
stress. Through Ashley's journey of chronic pain, a breathtaking
spiritual healing is catalyzed. Her memoir is a story of walking
through the storm to emerge reborn-to be healed. And if you are
willing to do the work, you'll find an opportunity for your own
healing woven into each page.
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