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Experiencing the provision of God concerning conception and
delivery.
A beautifully simple guide to the relationship skills we all so
deeply need, but most of us don't know how to access. This book
belongs firmly on the curriculum for creating a more peaceful
world. Dr Scilla Elworthy, three times Nobel Peace Prize nominee
This book is a tool box. Keep it close at hand and dip in often.
Jim Carter OBE and Imelda Staunton CBE, actors Brilliant, easy to
understand, and applies with equal force in personal and
professional contexts. Sharif Shivji QC, barrister specialising in
commercial law Why weren't we taught this at school? introduces
Needs Understanding, a fresh approach for finding creative
solutions and building relationships at home and at work. It's
based on one simple idea: we're all on a quest to meet our
underlying human needs - such as belonging, knowing we matter, and
fun. Whether you are trying to make a tricky decision, communicate
more effectively, parent the way you want to, or make a difference
in the world, Needs Understanding can help. Understand the
'fingerprint needs' that drive your behaviour Discover 10 ways you
listen that alienate other people, and what to do instead Stop
blaming yourself and others, and fix what's going on underneath
Find creative solutions to difficult problems by 'walking around
the mountain' Empower yourself to change the world. Alice Sheldon
is the creator of Needs Understanding and shares it globally with
individuals and organizations. www.needs-understanding.com
Pregnancy won't be the same after reading What's Your Pregnant Man
Thinking?. It presents the similarities and differences between
expectant Moms and Dads. It explains that knowing these differences
can produce a lasting relationship..that will endure for 50 years.
This book describes the expectations, changing, challenging and
sometimes baffling behaviors, of first time expectant fathers, a
foreign and often misunderstood territory filled with myth and
misunderstanding. What do men think about during the nine months of
pregnancy? What are their concerns and worries? Are they worried
about "real" things related to the birth of the baby? Why do some
men stray from their relationship and have affairs during this
time? Why do some men lose themselves in work, to old friends,
hobbies, habits, and almost anything to avoid pregnancy which is
when their partner needs them most. How can you detect and avoid
your spouse or partner's destructive behavior? Are men more prone
to violence with their partners during pregnancy? What changes in
behavior are normal for fathers during pregnancy? How frequently do
pregnancies result in separation or divorce? Are there early
warning signs that a couple's relationship may be in trouble? How
can you test and know the strength of your personal relationship?
How can you make the pregnant relationship the best you've every
enjoyed in your life? What's Your Pregnant Man Thinking? provides
readers with a roadmap to understanding the windfalls and pitfalls
of their new adventure of having a family. It will help every
expectant couple understand their needs during pregnancy and give
them a commanding lead toward achieving their dreams as parents. As
every pregnancy begins with hope, Dr. Rodriguez fulfills this hope
by opening new insights, encouraging tolerance, and providing an
understanding of the signs and steps to follow for a blissful
tomorrow. Studying the behavior of expectant fathers and couples
for over 25 years, the author presents the yearnings, dreams,
exploits, confessions, and challenges of expectant fathers during
pregnancy. As he clearly writes, they feel deep emotions about the
pregnancy. Couples feel deep emotions toward one another. They feel
passion for their lives and futures. Each father and couple
expressed the wish that they had known more about themselves, their
expectations, and how to meet their partner's needs. What's Your
Pregnant Man Thinking? grants their request.
This book explores the relationship between middle-class fathers
and sons in England between c. 1870 and 1920. We now know that the
conventional image of the middle-class paterfamilias of this period
as cold and authoritarian is too simplistic, but there is still
much to be discovered about relationships in middle-class families.
Paying especial attention to gender and masculinities, this book
focuses on the interactions between fathers and sons, exploring how
relationships developed and masculine identities were negotiated
from infancy and childhood to adulthood and old age. Drawing on
sources as diverse as autobiographies, oral history interviews,
First World War conscription records and press reports of violent
incidents, this book questions how fathers and sons negotiated
relationships marked by shifting relations of power, as well as by
different combinations of emotional entanglements, obligations and
ties. It explores changes as fathers and sons grew older and
assesses fathers' role in trying to mould sons' masculine
identities, characters and lives. It reveals negotiation and
compromise, as well as rebellion and conflict, underlining that
fathers and sons were important to each other, their relationships
a significant - if often overlooked - aspect of middle-class men's
lives and identities.
An umbrella offers protection and covering from the outside
elements. An umbrella shields one from what you don't want to
experience. Dads can picture themselves as an umbrella over their
daughters as they grow up. A dad's role is to protect, cover and
shield his daughter from unwanted and outside elements. My prayer
is that the reader would stand above the rest in their parenting
efforts. Be the kind of dad that rises to the challenge and
embraces the battle. This book examines the tumultuous culture that
girls are growing up in and will help dads begin to understand
their role in the battle. There are firsthand testimonies from
quality young women who will report what their fathers did that
cultivated a close father/daughter relationship. In addition, you
will hear from dads who worked hard at being great fathers and
learn by their example. I will share personal experiences that have
shaped my parenting and provided me with the insight, conviction
and motivation I needed to be the right kind of dad for my
daughter. God bless you in the sacred task of raising a daughter. I
pray this book will empower you in the process. Alan Smyth
This seemingly simple but truly complex question" True or false:
"My mother was a good woman." This item has appeared in one form or
another on countless psychological inventories over the years. The
culturally-prescribed answer is, of course, "True." Even the people
most abused by their mothers tend to rise to defend "Mom." The
rationale varies: "She was basically good"; "She was never cut out
to have children"; "She simply had no idea how to be there for me";
"Perhaps if she hadn't had me..."; "Maybe it was I who turned her
into a bad mother?" As early as 1954 in his work with abused
children, psychoanalyst Ronald Fairbairn observed that a child
acknowledging to herself or anyone else that she had a bad mother
or that her mother was a bad woman was tantamount to admitting that
the child was, by association, a bad person --and so it becomes an
act of self-preservation to hold that one's mopther is good, never
mind all evidence to the contrary. In Horrible Mothers,
pshychotherapist Alice Thie Vieira takes us into the world of
individuals who have endured devastating damage at the hands of
society's most sacrosanst icon: the Mother. Vieira does so with
four chief aims: 1. to label abuse so as to be able to acknowledge
it; 2. to recognize that the sanctification of motherhood is a
burden that society has foisted upon them; 3. to help mothers
understand how their mothering may have hurt their children; 4. to
help victims of horrible mothering grasp the unfairness of what was
done to them, to comprehend how it affected their lives, and
acknowledge what they have endured so as to break free from
unhealthy attachments to their inadequate mothers, and thus move
forward and better realize their potentiality.
An all-in-one resource for every working mother and father. Sure,
there are plenty of parenting books out there. But as working moms
and dads, we've never had a trusted, go-to guide all our
own—one that coaches us on how to do well at work, be the
loving and engaged parents we want to be, and remain true to
ourselves in the process. Enter Workparent. Whether you're planning
a family, pushing for promotion during your kids' teenage years, or
at any phase in between, Workparent provides all the advice and
assurance you'll need to combine children and career in your own,
authentic way. Whatever your field or family structure, you'll
learn how to: Find a childcare arrangement you fully trust Build a
strong support team, at home and on the job Advocate for
advancement—and flexibility Step up at work while keeping
your family healthy and whole Tame guilt, self-doubt, worry, and
other difficult emotions Navigate big transitions: the return from
leave, a promotion or job change, or the arrival of a second child
Manage day-to-day pressures, like scheduling, mealtimes, homework,
and more Find—and really use—time off Feel more
capable, calm, and in control Written by Daisy Dowling, a top
executive coach, talent expert, and working mom, Workparent answers
all of your questions and feels like a good talk with your favorite
mentor. Finally, the handbook you need to thrive as a working
parent.
The daily grind of the modern professor can be stressful, chaotic,
and at times seemingly impossible to organize! In her book, The
Organized Academic, award-winning scholar, pedagogue, and former
Dean Elizabeth Wells offers realistic day-to-day techniques that
promise to transform your academic life. With so much going on,
organization is your best weapon against the burnout and disarray
of scholarly living. A guidebook like this is an essential addition
to any serious achiever's collection.
The daily grind of the modern professor can be stressful, chaotic,
and at times seemingly impossible to organize! In her book, The
Organized Academic, award-winning scholar, pedagogue, and former
Dean Elizabeth Wells offers realistic day-to-day techniques that
promise to transform your academic life. With so much going on,
organization is your best weapon against the burnout and disarray
of scholarly living. A guidebook like this is an essential addition
to any serious achiever's collection.
Many grandparents experience a surge of joy with the birth or
adoption of a grandchild. For years afterward, time together is
eagerly coveted, pictures are treasured and displayed, and multiple
gifts along with various kinds of support are gladly provided.
Richard Olson, a retired minister, professor of theology, and
grandparent many times over, presents the unconditional love of a
grandparent as indicative of a vocation, a calling from God. He
explores the vocation of grandparent in all of its multiple
dimensions of being and doing. Informed by a biblical perspective,
the book explores the author's personal journey of grandparenting
and includes conversations with a diverse set of other
grandparents. Olson examines biblical examples of grandparenting
and suggests that the grandparent vocation has possibilities that
often go unnoticed. These include care, enjoyment, and response to
issues throughout a grandchild's growth. He also addresses concerns
for our grandchildren's future world, and how grandparents can
engage in mutual conversation about faith, morals, and values in a
changing world. In addition, Olson discusses increasingly common
relationship types such as grandparents serving as primary
caregivers, adults becoming step-grandparents through marriage,
interreligious family systems, and grandparents handling children
with special needs. The book includes questions for personal or
group reflection.
This brilliantly original and practical system for parenting children is the brainchild of John Gray, whose Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus books and seminars have helped millions of adults communicate more effectively and lovingly with each other. Based on this idea that children respond better to positive rather than negative reinforcement, the Children Are from Heaven program concentrates on rewarding, not punishing, children and fostering their innate desire to please their parents. Central to this approach are the five positive messages your children need to learn again and again: It's okay to be different. It's okay to make mistakes. It's okay to express negative emotions. It's okay to want more. It's okay to say no, but remember Mom and Dad are the bosses.
Analyzes the influence of technology and social media on human
development with parents and families in mind. This is a story
about a family coming of age at the same time as smartphones and
social media; a multiracial family coming into its own as windows
into social injustice opened up before our very screens; and a
multi-parent multi-professional family with children living
differently depending on which house and which combination of
family members happen to be home. While it is a story about a
family, it is really the story of technological and global changes
unfolding on our doorsteps. While many revile the ascendance of
smartphones and social media and the way they suck us into the
vortex of cyberspace, there are cultural touchpoints that reflect
deeper human and technology development patterns, patterns which we
would all do well to understand, no matter whether or how we choose
to engage in the ever-innovating digital frontiers. Informed by
research and interviews with leaders in policy, human development,
ethics, and technology Loretta Brady helps readers understand the
complex systemic challenges and findings related to technology and
human development. We do not have to hate or fear technology. It is
neither friend nor foe. But understanding its impact on our daily
lives is paramount to cultivating a healthier relationship both
with our digital lives and our real, lived ones.
'The best piece of nature writing since H is for Hawk, and the most
powerful work of biography I have read in years' Neil Gaiman
'Wonderful - I can't recommend it too highly' Helen Macdonald 'One
of those rare, enchanted books' Isabella Tree 'Beautiful - it made
me cry' Simon Amstell 'I was entranced' Cathy Rentzenbrink This is
a story about birds and fathers. About the young magpie that fell
from its nest in a Bermondsey junkyard into Charlie Gilmour's life
- and swiftly changed it. Demanding worms around the clock,
riffling through his wallet, sharing his baths and roosting in his
hair... About the jackdaw kept at a Cornish stately home by
Heathcote Williams, anarchist, poet, magician, stealer of
Christmas, and Charlie's biological father who vanished from his
life in the dead of night. It is a story about repetition across
generations and birds that run in the blood; about a terror of
repeating the sins of the father and a desire to build a nest of
one's own. It is a story about change - from wild to tame; from
sanity to madness; from life to death to birth; from freedom to
captivity and back again, via an insane asylum, a prison and a
magpie's nest. And ultimately, it is the story of a love affair
between a man and a magpie.
The perfect Mother's Day gift, birthday gift for mom from her adult
daughter, or sweet treasure for a daughter of any age! Show Mom
your appreciation with this classic mom book from New York Times
bestselling author Greg Lang. Why a Daughter Needs a Mom has been
bringing together mothers and daughters for years, and makes the
perfect gift for moms everywhere. As a girl's most trusted friend,
her mom is the one who understands best. She's been there through
it all: the triumph and heartache, the skinned knees and the broken
hearts. A Daughter Needs a Mom... To soothe the pain of a broken
heart To nurture her imagination To teach her that class never goes
out of style To teach her to make thankfulness a habit To give her
the courage to stand up for herselfWhy A Daughter Needs a Mom
celebrates 100 reasons why Mom's steadfast love is the guiding
light her daughter needs to become the wonderful woman she's meant
to be. For new moms with their first daughter, mothers-to-be, or
for any mom and daughter out there, celebrate how a mother helps
her girl grow.
- Applies a perspective rooted in popular music studies to
understanding music in the parent-child relationship, offering a
fresh take on the study of early childhood music - By bringing
together popular music and early childhood, appeals across
disciplines to popular music, media studies, and music education -
Includes both case studies and broad analysis that draws together
insights from across the literature, making this an engaging
overview that can readily be used by students as well as
researchers
Perfect for Father's Day, a critical read for all dads seeking to
connect with their daughters and raise confident young women in
today's increasingly complicated world. Drawing on her thirty
years' experience practicing pediatric and adolescent medicine,
teen health expert Dr. Meg Meeker explains why an active father
figure is maybe the single most important factor in a young woman's
development. In this invaluable guide, Meeker shows how a father
can be both counsel and protector for his daughter as she grows
into a spiritually and mentally strong young woman. From cradling
his newborn to walking her down the aisle, a father must relish his
paramount responsibility-guiding the course of his daughter's life.
Meeker reveals * How a man can become a "strong father" * How a
father's guidance influences every part of a woman's life, from her
self-respect to her perspective on drugs, alcohol, and sex * How to
lay down ground rules that are respected without creating distance
in your relationship with your daughter * Why you need to be your
daughter's hero * The mistakes most fathers make-and the serious
consequences * How to help daughters make their own good decisions
and avoid disastrous mistakes * How a father's faith will influence
his daughter's spiritual development * How to get through to you
daughter, even during her toughest don't-talk-to-me years * True
stories of daughters who were on the wrong path-and how their
fathers helped to bring them back Learn how to grow, strengthen, or
rebuild your relationship with your daughter to better both your
life and hers in the bestselling Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters:
10 Secrets Every Father Should Know.
FROM THE BESTSELLING PARENTING EXPERTS BEHIND THE WHOLE-BRAIN CHILD
COMES A HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL PLAN FOR HELPING YOUR CHILD BECOME MORE
INDEPENDENT AND RESILIENT. 'This unique book shows us how to help
our children embrace life with all of its challenges. It's a
treasure chest of parenting insights and techniques' CAROL DWECK,
bestselling author of Mindset Children can often act out or shut
down when faced with a setback or a tricky issue like homework,
food or screen time. This is what acclaimed parenting experts Dr
Siegel and Dr Bryson call the 'No Brain' response. But you can help
your child develop the ability to cope, solve their own problems
and thrive by nurturing their 'Yes Brain'. Drawing on their
successful work with thousands of parents and children from all
backgrounds, Dr Siegel and Dr Bryson provide the advice, tools and
activities to help parents with children of all ages. This is what
the 'Yes Brain' approach looks like in action: *A 5-year-old boy
thinks about his first day at school and says, 'I'm nervous but
I'll give it a try.' *An 8 year-old girl says, 'I'd like to join
the football team, even though none of my friends like football.'
*A 14 year-old boy looks at a test he's earned a D- for and says,
'That's not the mark I wanted but it's not the end of the world.
I'll ask the teacher how I can improve.'
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