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The impact of finding out your child is disabled can be wide
ranging. The author's experience as a psychologist and parent of a
disabled child informs this book which focuses on what helps, and
hinders, parent-carers' emotional wellbeing. Research shows that
mental health, relationships, family life, access to work and
leisure activities, as well as finances can all be affected. For
many parents the focus of those around them is solely on the child
and their own needs become neglected. The author re-focuses
attention onto the wellbeing of the parent. This includes
acknowledging emotions, connecting with positive others, empowering
yourself, regularly engaging in self-care and finding your own
sense of meaning and purpose in life. Identifying the myriad of
different emotions parents may experience as an understandable
reaction to an unexpected situation the book includes quotes from
parent carers. Connecting to psychological theories, such as
positive re-framing and post-traumatic growth, the book applies
these in practical ways to the parent-carer experience.
Acknowledging that the journey is neither linear nor simple and
transitions such as secondary school, puberty and adulthood require
further periods of adjustment. Parents rarely get the time or
support to stop and reflect on how they are feeling as they are
caught up in the day to day busyness of caring. The difficulty is
exacerbated by limited resources and battling for services.
Building on the author's Doctoral research and having supported
parent carers in different roles over the last 13 years this book
provides a compass to ensure parents know they are not alone.
'Grit, twists and great characters. Alex Kane at her finest!' Emma
Tallon, author of Her Payback Being head of a family is what she
knows bestA decade ago, Cara Fraser, wife to one of Glasgow's most
notorious gangsters, was left a widow after Kyle Fraser was slain
on the city streets. The intervening years haven't been easy - not
least as Kyle's murder left her to bring up little Ryan and Sean
alone. Now, Ryan and Sean are adults, and honouring their father's
memory by rising up to become the top gangsters on the dark streets
of Glasgow. Cara's kept her head down, but has spent the last few
years vowing to take vengeance on the crime family who killed her
beloved husband and left her children without a father. Glasgow
gangland is about to discover that a mother will do anything for
her family... even murder. A gritty crime thriller that fans of
Kimberley Chambers and Mandasue Heller won't be able to put down.
Praise for The Mother: 'Another fantastic gritty Gangland thriller
from Alex Kane. Five stars from me!' Gemma Rogers, author of The
Feud 'This is a phenomenal read...perfectly written and paced. You
absolutely cannot predict this one.' Reader Review 'One hell of a
book, full of action... five stars from me, especially for the slap
bang ending that I didn't see coming.' Reader Review 'I love her
ability to make each character likeable, even the bad guys. I'm
counting down the days till the next book by this author. Highly
recommended.' Reader Review 'Another jaw dropping explosive read
from Alex Kane, her writing just gets better and better every
time.' Reader Review 'This was addictive, fast paced and ruthless.
I loved it. A brilliant story line kept me hooked and wanting
more.' Reader Review 'Action packed, gripping and I found it hard
to put the book down. I never saw that ending coming.' Reader
Review 'Fast paced, gritty, exciting, highly recommend' Reader
Review Praise for Alex Kane's utterly unputdownable gangster
thrillers: 'A must read! Highly deserving of all the stars and
completely unputdownable.' Reader Review 'A brilliant read. I
couldn't put it down - the writing is so good you feel like you're
part of the action.' Reader Review 'So gripping and
unputdownable...Fantastic, with loads of full on action. I loved it
all.' Reader Review 'Wow. These books just get better and
better...just brilliant.' Reader Review 'I read this book in one
night and all I have is 3 words. Oh my god.' Reader Review 'I was
gripped from page one and had sleepless nights because I couldn't
put it down. Worth way more than five stars.' Reader Review
Since her early childhood, Angie McHall noticed that there was
something different about her life; although she was surrounded by
a father and a mother figure, there was really no one in the house
to call mom and dad. Angie was fortunate enough to have in her life
her nanny, Liz Santiago. This was the woman who ended up giving her
unconditional love and affection, and who would become the only
mother she ever had. As Angie grew older, she realized that she was
the only person in that household of a different skin color. She
would later discover that the couple with whom she had learned to
share her space was, in fact, her natural parents, who had chosen
to treat her as a perfect stranger, because they did not have much
in common with her. Angie was lost; she was engulfed in a mystery
that she simply could not comprehend. She was mesmerized by what
she considered to be the strange circumstances of her existence.
How did Angie happen to be black when the people responsible for
her birth were white? She was determined to find the answer to that
question, if there were one to be found. Upon her insistence, her
nanny decided that she could no longer remain indifferent to her
cries; so she promised Angie that she would do all she could to
help find the truth that was kept hidden from her all of her life.
Liz meant what she said. She was about to make good on her promise.
The night before she was to travel to Florida, where Angie was
attending school, for a face to face meeting during which she would
reveal to Angie the mystery of Angie's life, she went to bed never
to wake up again. Angie's hope was dashed. The only person on whom
she counted to solve her life's mystery was gone. But wasLiz's
untimely death really an accident of nature, or part of a
Machiavellian plan engineered by an invisible hand to keep Angie
and, perhaps, her parents from finding the truth?
A West Coast college student withdraws from school at the end of
his third year because his class schedule was interfering with his
World of Warcraft gaming sessions. Relationships are deteriorating,
and depression potentially increasing in those extensively involved
in social networking. The accumulated hours of wasted human
potential are staggering.
In some cases, workers spend hours playing games well into the
early hours of the next morning and as a result can barely function
the next day. Many tell me how often they require a caffeine boost
or energy drink to give them the energy to function after spending
half the night playing video or online games.
With full awareness of all of the benefits of technology, John
Kriger takes the risk to examine the negative ways many people are
using technology today. This practical examination takes nothing
away from modern advances but confronts head-on the potentially
negative impact of constant texting, hyper gaming, social
isolation, and other potentially destructive behaviors.
Sue and Lou never had any fears or doubts about raising their three
children. They were not like their parents. They welcomed the
teenage years. They knew their kids might experiment with drugs and
alcohol, just like they had. So they talked with their kids about
their own experiences they had as teenagers. As a family they were
very close. They took their kids camping to Glamis, the desert, the
beach and the Colorado River. They went to Big Bear every winter
and they golfed almost every weekend as a family. By the time their
youngest was in high school, their oldest was already 24 and their
middle child was 19. Their youngest would always tell them not to
worry, that he would never be like his older brother and sister.
Young Adam had witnessed all the trying times his parents had with
his two older siblings; alcohol, drugs, house parties, and
pre-marital sex. Adam's friends always came over to the house and
Sue and Lou knew them all. They were all good kids. But when Adam
told his mom he had smoked marijuana, it was not like when the
older siblings had experimented with it. Sue and Lou would quickly
discover he was using it to escape from the hurt and pain he felt
after his first love broke up with him. But what Sue and Lou didn't
know was that their worst nightmare was growing in their youngest
son. Without having a true understanding of addiction, this family
will go through a hell they could have never imagined. In order to
keep from having a breakdown Sue started writing about how this all
started. It all began with a story Adam wrote in his Freshman
English class titled "The Day I told my Mom I Smoke Pot."
Moments for Mothers is a honest, refreshing story of motherhood
which presents neatly packaged lessons our children unwittingly
teach us.
Imagine a parent's worst nightmare - losing a child. Not to disease
or accident, but to a kidnapping. Randy Anglen's only son was
abducted to South America by his Chilean mother when he was 20
months old. Anglen fought to get his son for 4 years, fighting a
Chilean court system that ignored international law and protected
the mother. Anglen searched the streets of Santiago for his son,
hatched plans to steal his son out of Chile, paid witnesses and
private investigators and made numerous trips to Chile. He was as
close at 10 feet from his son, but physically unable to get to him.
Chilean courts handed him setback after setback, despite the best
efforts of a team of attorneys and U. S. Department of State
personnel. The story does not have a happy ending. Anglen writes
this book so his son will know what happened -what his daddy did to
try to get his son. This is a story of intense grief, fear,
frustration and injustice. A story of a father's fight to save the
bond between him and his son. A story of a father's love for his
child. A story of a corrupt and inefficient South American
bureaucratic system that destroyed the relationship between a
father and his son. After reading this story, you will give your
children an extra hug.
Children can sometimes ask challenging questions like Who created God?
Where is heaven? Why does God let viruses take over? Can God do
anything? Can He bring dinosaurs back to life? If God knows what I
need, why should I pray?
It can be difficult to know exactly what to say to the thoughtful and
sincere questions that children have. Bible Questions and Answers for
Kids is a handy help for those times when it is difficult to know how
to answer. Experienced children’s ministry teacher Dave Strehler
provides age-appropriate and Bible-based answers to more than 80
questions children ask about God, faith and the Bible.
As children explore the answers to their most puzzling questions, they
can answer the quiz questions throughout the book and find the answer
to a mystery message. Get them interested in reading the Bible with
short summaries on each of the 66 books. Each is accompanied by a key
verse that is easy to memorize.
At the back of the book, two fun Word Search activities challenge kids
to find all 66 book names.
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