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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
Do you have a parent who is invalidating, critical, demanding, or
hateful? In this important and much-needed guide, you'll learn how
to set boundaries; uncover the hidden motives behind your parent's
behavior; put a stop to repetitive, hurtful interactions; and
foster healthier relationships. There's no sugarcoating it-if you
grew up with a parent who made you feel invalidated or unloved as a
child, your pain is very real. In some cases, you may decide that
you want to remove this parent from your life, and that is a valid
choice. But for many people, dealing with a problem parent becomes
a necessary part of life, for whatever reason. If you're one of
these people, this book can help. Written by a psychotherapist and
expert in relationships, Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Toxic
Parents will help you develop unique assertiveness strategies based
on the characteristics of your own family dynamics. You'll learn
powerful communication skills to help you build boundaries and put
a stop to your parent's hurtful behavior. And, most importantly,
you'll learn to advocate for your own needs. If you've "had it up
to here" with a parent who makes you feel as though you're just not
good enough, this invaluable guide can help you put an end to toxic
interactions while maintaining peace in your family.
Even under the best circumstances, it takes time and intention to
disciple grandchildren and pass on a legacy of faith. So how much
harder is the assignment in a family experiencing fractures such as
divorce, estrangement, or prodigals? How are grandparents to reach
grandchildren for Christ when there are such barriers? In
Overcoming Grandparenting Barriers, Larry Fowler, founder of the
Legacy Coalition, offers a helpful guide to influencing
grandchildren's spiritual lives even in the most discouraging and
hurtful situations, such as when * an adult child is not following
the Lord * grandchildren are not being raised by the adult child
and access to them is limited * grandparents are prohibited from
addressing spiritual matters when they visit their grandchildren
Overcoming Grandparenting Barriers provides guidance and strategies
along with encouragement for grandparents to persevere--to
understand that they are not alone and that their role is too
crucial to give up on reaching the next generation for Christ.
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