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Books > Social sciences > Sociology, social studies > Social institutions > Family & relationships > Adoption & fostering
'I was made in Coffee Bay. Right there on the beach, in the sand.'
From the opening lines, we are drawn in and engrossed by this
startling memoir of a singular childhood. Suzan is adopted as a
newborn in the late 1960s into a seemingly loving and welcoming
family living in Pietermaritzburg. But Suzan is set on a collision
course with, most particularly, her adoptive mother, and society,
from her very beginning. Suzan's relationship with her mother is
fraught with drama, which veers over into a level of emotional
abuse and needless cruelty that is shocking.
At the age of thirteen, Suzan is sent to a place of safety as
a ward of the state, effectively 'orphaning' her. From there, she
spirals out of control – fighting to survive in a world of other
neglected, abandoned and abused children. She becomes a
'runner', escaping at every opportunity from her various places of
confinement, grabbing her schooling in snatches, living on the
edges of a drug and prostitution underworld, finding love
wherever she can.
Suzan’s young life was the stuff of movies, but it is her
writing, in a voice that is unforgettable and true, that transforms
her memories into something magical rarely matched in South
African literature. A new classic.
This book is an account of the authora s experiences as a Foster
carer, and in particular as a Foster carer of teenage children,
over a period of more than twenty years. It is intended to dispel
the notion set out over the years in the many recruitment
advertisements that Fostering is a life of enduring happiness and
contentment for both carers and children. It is never that
glamorous. It can, however, over time, be a rewarding and
fulfilling experience for both. The author and his wife have been
Foster carers since 1997 and are still Foster carers to this day.
Little Jamey, 21/2 years old, is placed with experienced foster
carer, Cathy Glass, as an emergency. The police and social services
have no choice but to remove two-year-old Jamey from home after his
mother leaves him alone all night to go out partying. When he first
arrives with foster carer Cathy Glass, he is scared, hungry and
withdrawn, craving the affection he has been denied for so long. He
is small for his age and unsteady on his feet - a result of being
left for long periods in his cot. Cathy and her family find Jamey
very easy to love, but as he settles in and makes progress, a new
threat emerges. Coronavirus and lockdown change everything.
The true story of 2 year-old Anna, abandoned by her natural
parents, left alone in a neglected orphanage. Elaine and Ian had
travelled half way round the world to adopt little Anna. She
couldn't have been more wanted, loved and cherished. So why was she
now in foster care and living with me? It didn't make sense. Until
I learned what had happened. ... Dressed only in nappies and ragged
T-shirts the children were incarcerated in their cots. Their large
eyes stared out blankly from emaciated faces. Some were obviously
disabled, others not, but all were badly undernourished. Flies
circled around the broken ceiling fans and buzzed against the grids
covering the windows. The only toys were a few balls and a handful
of building bricks, but no child played with them. The silence was
deafening and unnatural. Not one of the thirty or so infants cried,
let alone spoke.
This book, which updates and expands the third edition published by
Springer in 2015, explains, compares and evaluates the social and
legal functions of adoption within a range of selected
jurisdictions and on an international basis. From the standpoint of
the development of adoption in England & Wales, and the changes
currently taking place there, it considers the process as it has
evolved in other countries. It also identifies themes of
commonality and difference in the experience of adoption in a
common law context, comparing and contrasting this with the
experience under civil law and in Islamic countries and with that
of indigenous people. This book includes new chapters examining
adoption in Russia, Korea and Romania. Further, it uses the
international conventions and the associated ECtHR case law to
benchmark developments in national law, policy and practice and to
facilitate a cross-cultural comparative analysis.
Normally, our relationships with our brothers and sisters are
the longest relationships in our lives, outlasting time with our
parents, and most marriages today. The sibling relationship is
emotionally powerful and critically important, giving us a sense of
continuity throughout life. So what happens when a child loses
contact not only with his or her parents, but with siblings too?
That is what happens in thousands of cases each year inside the
child welfare system. Children are surrendered by parents - or
taken by the government - and placed in the foster care system.
There, they are often separated and sent to different foster
families, or adopted by different couples. In this work, a team of
top experts details for us how this added separation futher
traumatizes children. This stellar team of internationally known
researchers - some of whom are themselves adoptees - shares with us
hard, poignant, and personal insights, as well as ways we might act
to solve this widespread problem.
Contributors address not only the importance of nurturing
sibling bonds and mental health strategies to support those
relationships, but also the legal rights of siblings to be
together, as well as issues in international adoptions. Emerging
and standing programs to encourage and facilitate adoptions that
keep siblings together are featured, as are programs that at least
enable them to stay in contact.
Beneath the Tapestry devotional walks alongside hopeful adoptive
parents and families through the process of adoption and beyond.
Natalie Schram shares her family's stories of completing their
first home study, finding adoption experts to support them, walking
through the tangled mess of fear and unknowns, battling through
spiritual warfare, experiencing unsightly beauty, and navigating
life after placement. Beneath the Tapestry shares many details of
how God weaved four adoptions into the masterpieces that they are.
It's through these honest stories that many have found hope and
healing. Natalie shares how each adoption holds unique details all
their own, but the universal characteristic in every adoption is
that it comes from a broken place and therefore carries that
brokenness with it. Beneath the Tapestry reveals as many details
about the Schram's adoption journeys as possible and in a very
real, honest, unique, and vulnerable way. Natalie Schram draws you
in and speaks to you directly. You will feel as if you are in an
actual conversation with her. You will be guided and supported
through scripture, real life stories, and prayer as Natalie teaches
you to love and live selflessly through the process. Journeying
through adoption four times has allowed the Schram family the joy
of growing deeper in Christ while seeking God's Will for expanding
their family. Beneath the Tapestry goes beyond offering support
during the adoption journey and seeks to reach the heart of the
reader. Through Beneath the Tapestry Natalie's hopeful prayer is
for each reader to seek a deeper relationship with Christ, grow in
their faith, and learn how to love and support others selflessly,
in the midst of their journey
This book draws on archival, oral history and public policy sources
to tell a history of foster care in Australia from the nineteenth
century to the present day. It is, primarily, a social history
which places the voices of people directly touched by foster care
at the centre of the story, but also within the wider social and
political debates which have shaped foster care across more than a
century. The book confronts foster care's difficult past-death and
abuse of foster children, family separation, and a general public
apathy towards these issues-but it also acknowledges the resilience
of people who have survived a childhood in foster care, and the
challenges faced by those who have worked hard to provide good
foster homes and to make child welfare systems better. These are
themes which the book examines from an Australian perspective, but
which often resonate with foster care globally.
This comprehensive resource offers a detailed framework for
fostering resilience in families caring for their older members.
Its aim is to improve the quality of life for both the caregivers
themselves as much as for those they support. Robust interventions
are presented to guide family members through chronic and acute
challenges in areas such as emotional health, physical comfort,
financial aspects of care, dealing with health systems, and
adjusting to transition. Examples, models, interviews, and an
extended case study identify core concerns of caregiving families
and avenues for nurturing positive adaptation. Throughout,
contributors provide practical applications for therapists and
other service providers in diverse disciplines, and for advancing
family resilience as a field. Included in the coverage: Therapeutic
interventions for caregiving families. Facilitating older adults'
resilience through meeting nutritional needs. Improving ergonomics
for the safety, comfort, and health of caregivers. Hope as a coping
resource for caregiver resilience and well-being. Perspectives on
navigating care transitions with individuals with dementia.
Planning for and managing costs related to caregiving. Family
Caregiving offers a new depth of knowledge and real-world utility
to social workers, mental health professionals and practitioners,
educators and researchers in the field of family resilience, as
well as scholars in the intersecting disciplines of family studies,
human development, psychology, sociology, social work, education,
law, and medicine.
The 'mixed race' classification is known to be a factor of
disadvantage in children's social care and this fastest growing
population is more likely than any other ethnic group to experience
care admission. How does knowledge of 'mixedness' underpin policy
and practice? How, when and why is the classification 'mixed' a
disadvantage? Through narrative interviews with children currently
in foster care, Fostering Mixed Race Children examines the impact
of care processes on children's everyday experiences. Peters shows
how the 'mixed race' classification affects care admission,
including both short and long term fostering and care leaving, and
shapes the experiences of children in often adverse ways. The book
moves away from the psychologising of 'mixedness' towards a
much-needed sociological analysis of 'mixedness' and 'mixing' at
the intersection of foster care processes. This book will be of
interest to academics and practitioners working with families and
children. Peters presents a child-centred narrative focus and
offers unique insights into a complex area.
"The book chronicles not only the adoption of their three children
abroad, but follows each of their children (including their
biological son) into young adulthood. It vividly depicts their
difficulties in raising teenagers in a cross-cultural, transracial
home, and also exposes the frightening conditions facing today's
kids in our public schools, including gang issues, drop outs, and
culture clashes. It provides valuable insights to parents and
non-parents as well. This book was a real eye-opener and awakened
me to the harsh realities our teens must face in what I would have
thought were quality schools. Although told from a parent's point
of view, they very effectively explored the emotions, indeed the
angst, of their teenage children."
--Jo-Anne Weaver, adoptive parent of a Chinese daughter placed by
Los Ninos International, and Senior Acquisitions Editor of
Education and Developmental Psychology for Harcourt Brace.
This book looks at the simultaneous processes of making and
un-making of families that are part of the adoption practice.
Whereas most studies on transnational adoption concentrate on the
adoptive family, the author identifies not only the happy occasion
when a family gains a child, but also the sorrow and loss of the
child to its family of origin. Situating transnational adoption in
the context of the Global North-South divide, Hogbacka investigates
the devastating effects of unequal life chances and asymmetrical
power relations on the adoption process and on the mothers whose
children are adopted. Based on unique primary material gathered in
in-depth interviews with South African families of origin and
Finnish adoptive families, the book investigates the
decision-making processes of both sets of parents and the
encounters between them. The first mothers' narratives are
juxtaposed with those of the adopters and of the adoption social
workers who act on the principles of the wider adoption system.
Concluding with a critique of the Global Northism that exemplifies
current practices, Hogbacka sketches the contours of a more just
approach to transnational adoption that would shatter rather than
perpetuate inequality. The book can also be read as an expose of
the consequences of current inequalities for poor families. Global
Families, Inequality and Transnational Adoption will be of interest
to students and scholars of adoption studies, family and kinship,
sociology, anthropology, social work and development.
International media regularly features horrific stories about
Chinese orphanages, especially when debating international adoption
and human rights. Much of the popular information is dated and
ill-informed about the experiences of most orphans in China today,
Chinese government policy, and improvements evident in parts of
China. Informal kinship care is the most common support for the
orphaned children. The state supports orphans and abandoned
children whose parents and relatives cannot be found or contacted.
The book explores concrete examples about the changing experiences
and future directions of Chinese child welfare policy. It is about
the support to disadvantaged children, including abandoned children
in the care of the state, most of whom have disabilities; HIV
affected children; and orphans in kinship care. It identifies how
many orphans are in China, how they are supported, the extent to
which their rights are met, and what efforts are made to improve
their rights and welfare provision. When our research about Chinese
orphans started in 2001, these children were almost entirely
voiceless. Since then, the Chinese government has committed to
improving child welfare. We argue that a mixed welfare system, in
which state provision supplements family and community care, is an
effective direction to improve support for orphaned children.
Government needs to take responsibility to guarantee orphans'
rights as children, and support family networks to provide care so
that children can grow up in their own communities. The book
contributes to academic and policy understanding of the steps that
have been taken and are still required to achieve the goal of a
child welfare system in China that meets the rights of orphans to
live and thrive with other children in a family.
Norway, Sweden, and Denmark are home to more than 90,000
transnational adoptees of Scandinavian parents raised in a
predominantly white environment. This ethnography provides a unique
perspective on how these transracial adoptees conceptualize and
construct their sense of identity along the intersection of
ethnicity, family, and national lines.
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