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Intercountry adoption represents a significant component of
international migration; in recent years, up to 45,000 children
have crossed borders annually as part of the intercountry adoption
boom. Proponents have touted intercountry adoption as a natural
intervention for promoting child welfare. However, in cases of
fraud and economic incentives, intercountry adoption has been
denounced as child trafficking. The debate on intercountry adoption
has been framed in terms of three perspectives: proponents who
advocate intercountry adoption, abolitionists who argue for its
elimination, and pragmatists who look for ways to improve both the
conditions in sending countries and the procedures for intercountry
transfer of children. Social workers play critical roles in
intercountry adoption; they are often involved in family support
services or child relinquishment in sending countries, and in
evaluating potential adoptive homes, processing applications, and
providing support for adoptive families in receiving countries;
social workers are involved as brokers and policy makers with
regard to the processes, procedures, and regulations that govern
intercountry adoption. Their voice is essential in shaping
practical and ethical policies of the future. Containing 25
chapters covering the following five areas: policy and regulations;
sending country perspectives; outcomes for intercountry adoptees;
debate between a proponent and an abolitionist; and pragmatists'
guides for improving intercountry adoption practices, this book
will be essential reading for social work practitioners and
academics involved with intercountry adoption.
This book presents an innovative relational and community based
therapeutic model to ensure children's essential attachment needs
are catered for in intensive mental health care. The text combines
an overview of theory relating to attachment and trauma before
laying out a model for working with children and adolescents in an
attachment-informed way. The approach applies to a diverse range of
settings - from in-patient psychiatric settings, through to
schools-based programs, and provides the reader with the knowledge
and guidance they need to introduce the approach in their own
service. It also addresses the complexities of working with
specific clinical populations, including children with ADHD, ASD,
RAD and psychosis. Accessible for entry level clinical caretakers,
yet sophisticated enough for clinical supervisors, this book is
essential reading for professionals looking to improve the
effectiveness of child and adolescent treatment programs.
Despite a proliferation of legislative action in response to
differential outcomes, the relative educational, employment and
lifecourse disadvantages of individuals who have experienced the
care system remains a pressing issue of widespread international
concern. In Wales, a significant body of work has been produced on
and with care-experienced children and young people. This edited
collection attempts to highlight these valuable insights in a
single volume, with contributions from well-established and early
career scholars working in different traditions - including
education, psychology, policy studies, sociology and social work -
to provide a unique opportunity for reflection across disciplinary
boundaries and shed new light on common problems and opportunities
stimulated by research in the field of social care. The volume
introduces a range of contexts and sites - including the home, the
school, alternative educational institutions, contact centres, and
the natural environment - and reflexively explores changes and
continuities within the political and geographical landscape that
constitutes Wales. Each chapter introduces insights, reflections
and recommendations about the care system and its impacts, which
will be useful for readers across geographical contexts who are
concerned with improving the lives of children, young people and
wider family networks.
Caleb invites you on a journey to learn about attachment and trauma
in this interactive story and workbook intended for children and
the adults who support them. Caleb shares his own story about
healing from his difficult early experiences, and encourages
readers to join him in sharing their stories and completing the
healing activities included in the book. Caleb's Healing Story
identifies the common challenges that children who have experienced
attachment or trauma issues will encounter and offers easy to use
interventions in the form of activities and worksheets. Fully
illustrated, it is suitable for children aged 5-14, as well as
their family, friends and those working with children who present
with these issues. It is the ideal companion to A Safe Place for
Caleb, by the same author, which outlines theories, definitions and
strategies for addressing attachment and trauma-related disorders.
How can we help heal children who have been abused or neglected?
Healing Child Trauma Through Restorative Parenting details how
children can be helped to recover with the use of Restorative
Parenting, an innovative model informed by psychological and
neurological understanding of trauma and its effects. It explains
the critical role that people, relationships and the environment
play in a child's recovery. It shows what constitutes a therapeutic
environment, whereby a child experiences therapy not as one-to-one
sessions but as a lived experience. The authors show how other
components of the model - building therapeutic relationships,
promoting positive education and encouraging clinically informed
life style choices - are intimately linked, each critical to the
re-parenting which the child undergoes. This book will be welcomed
by professionals working with children, including those in
residential, health and foster care, psychology, education and
health, as well as those commissioning services. The models,
concepts and practices are transferable to public, private and
charitable agencies.
Many adopted or foster children have complex, troubling, often
painful pasts. This book provides parents and professionals with
sound advice on how to communicate effectively about difficult and
sensitive topics, providing concrete strategies for helping adopted
and foster children make sense of the past so they can enjoy a
healthy, well-adjusted future. Approximately one of every four
adopted children will have adjustment challenges related to their
separation from the birth family, earlier trauma, attachment
difficulties, and/or issues stemming from the adoption process.
Common complicating issues of adopted children are feelings of
rejection, abandonment, or confusion about their origins. While
many foster and adoptive parents and even many professionals are
reluctant to communicate openly about birth histories, silence only
adds to the child's confusion and pain. This revised and
significantly expanded edition of the award-winning Telling the
Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child equips parents with the
knowledge and tools they need to communicate with their adopted or
foster child about their past. Revisions include coverage of
significant new research and information regarding the importance
of understanding the child's trauma history to his or her
well-being and successful adjustment in his foster or adoptive
family. The authors answer such questions as: How do I share
difficult information about my child's adoption in a sensitive
manner? When is the right time to tell my child the whole truth?
How do I obtain more information on my child's history? Detailed
descriptions of actual cases help the parent or caregiver find ways
to discover the truth (particularly in closed and international
adoption cases), organize the information, and explain the details
of the past gently to a toddler, child, or young adult who may find
it frightening or confusing. Presents age-appropriate, specific
guidelines that make an intimidating and potentially uncomfortable
task straightforward, organized, and manageable Serves to remove
the fear of how to make sense of the past for foster and adopted
children of all ages, allowing parents, teachers, counselors, and
other caregivers to have open, honest, and beneficial dialogues
with children and teens with tough pasts Explains how children's
development is impacted by separation from their birth families and
identifies the issues generated by the trauma occurring before,
during, and after the separation Reveals powerful insights gained
from the story of one of the first African American children to be
adopted in the United States by a white family-an individual who is
now middle-aged
A heartbreaking and inspiring collection of true fostering stories
perfect for fans of Cathy Glass and Rosie Lewis. Contains
previously published stories Too Scared To Cry, The Girl No One
Wanted and A Family For Christmas - brought together in this
heartwarming and inspiring collection for the first time. *****
Maggie Hartley is one of the UK's most prolific foster mothers.
This inspiring collection includes three heartbreaking, true short
stories about the children who have passed through Maggie's care.
TOO SCARED TO CRY When Ben and Damien arrive on Maggie's doorstep,
the two toddlers are too scared to speak. More disturbingly still,
their baby half-brother Noah is completely unresponsive - he
doesn't smile or play or crawl. The three siblings have been
conditioned to be seen and not heard, and it's up to Maggie to
unpick what has caused this terrible void. THE GIRL NO ONE WANTED
Eleven-year-old Leanne is out of control. With over forty
placements in her short life, no local foster carers are willing to
take in this angry and damaged little girl. Maggie is Leanne's only
hope, and her last chance. If this placement fails, Leanne will be
put in a secure unit. Where most others would simply walk away,
Maggie refuses to give up on the little girl who's never known
love. A FAMILY FOR CHRISTMAS A tragic accident leaves the life of
toddler Edward changed forever and his family wracked with guilt.
Maggie must help this family grieve for the son they've lost and
learn to love the little boy he is now. But will Edward have a
family to go home to at Christmas? These heartwarming and inspiring
short stories show the power of a foster mother's love, and her
determination to help the children who come into her care. Note:
These stories have previously been published as individual ebooks.
True stories of foster care and adoption and one foster mother's
attempts to help the children in her care heal from abuse, neglect
and trauma.
'I'm so sorry, Casey,' my link worker John said, sounding weary. 'I
know this is probably the worst time I could ring you, but we
desperately need someone to take a child tonight.' It's the night
before Christmas when Casey and Mike get the call. A twelve year
old girl, stuck between a rock and a hard place. Her father is on a
ventilator, fighting for his life, while her mother is currently on
remand in prison. Despite claiming she attacked him in
self-defence, she's been charged with his attempted murder. The
girl is called Bella, and she's refusing to say anything. The
trouble is that she is also the only witness...
Charley Chatty likes shiny things, especially shiny pennies.
Sometimes Charley thinks her siblings get more than her so she
likes to keep the pennies safe in her pocket. Charley spots some
pennies lying around the house, and puts them in her piggy bank.
But she gets very nervous when her Dad starts looking for the
missing pennies. Luckily, Charley's Dad is good at working out what
might have happened and helps Charley to put it all right again.
Written by a mum who understands and her daughter, who is adopted,
this insightful story will help your whole family to feel a bit
better.
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Young people who leave care with few or no educational
qualifications are at very high risk of social exclusion in
adulthood. Yet in the past their education has attracted little
attention from researchers or professionals. Studies by the editors
and contributors to this volume show that the educational standards
attained by young people in care fall progressively behind those of
their peers living with their own families. This research-based
book looks at the educational experiences of children and youths in
nine different European countries and Canada. It identifies the
obstacles that prevent them from realising their aspirations and
discusses ways of improving their opportunities. How can countries
with different traditions, welfare regimes and administrative
systems learn from each other? What needs to be done at national,
local and individual levels to give children in care equal chances
with those living with their families? At present a child in public
care is five times less likely to go to university than others. How
can teachers, social workers and carers better support their
educational attainment, and enable more of them to succeed and
progress to tertiary education? This book was originally published
as a special issue of the European Journal of Social Work.
An exploration of how ordinary U.S. Christians create global
connections through the multibillion-dollar child sponsorship
industry Child sponsorship emerged from nineteenth-century
Protestant missions to become one of today's most profitable
private fund-raising tools in organizations including World Vision,
Compassion International, and ChildFund. Investigating two
centuries of sponsorship and its related practices in American
living rooms, churches, and shopping malls, Christian Globalism at
Home reveals the myriad ways that Christians who don't travel
outside of the United States cultivate global sensibilities. Kaell
traces the movement of money, letters, and images, along with a
wide array of sponsorship's lesser-known embodied and aesthetic
techniques, such as playacting, hymn singing, eating, and fasting.
She shows how, through this process, U.S. Christians attempt to
hone globalism of a particular sort by oscillating between the
sensory experiences of a God's eye view and the intimacy of human
relatedness. These global aspirations are buoyed by grand hopes and
subject to intractable limitations, since they so often rely on the
inequities they claim to redress. Based on extensive interviews,
archival research, and fieldwork, Christian Globalism at Home
explores how U.S. Christians imagine and experience the world
without ever leaving home.
Sharing the daily struggles of children and families residing in
transitional situations (homelessness or because of risk of
homelessness, being connected with the child welfare system, or
being new immigrants in temporary housing), this text recommends
strategies for delivering mental health and intensive
case-management services that maintain family integrity and
stability. Based on work undertaken at the Center for the
Vulnerable Child in Oakland, California, which has provided mental
health and intensive case management to children and families
living in transition for more than two decades, this volume
outlines culturally sensitive practices to engage families that
feel disrespected by the assistance of helping professionals or
betrayed by their forgotten promises. Chapters discuss the Center's
staffers' attempt to trace the influence of power, privilege, and
beliefs on their education and their approach to treatment. Many
U.S. children living in impoverished transitional situations are of
color and come from generations of poverty, and the professionals
they encounter are white, middle-class, and college-educated. The
Center's work to identify the influences or obstacles interfering
with services for this target population is therefore critical to
formulating more effective treatment, interaction, and care.
When I am ready, I need you to talk to me and help me understand my
feelings...' This reassuring story helps children aged 5+ with
attachment issues to understand their feelings, open up to a caring
adult and learn how to choose positive behaviours. Ben is made up
of lots of different 'parts' - to name a few, he has happy, caring,
angry, excited, hugging and yelling parts. Ben explains how all
these parts are okay, and that a caring adult can help you to
understand and manage them more easily. This book also features
activities to help children talk about their feelings, and a simple
introduction to attachment theory for adults.
This new book from life work expert Joy Rees explains the value of
effective and meaningful life work with children who are fostered
and adopted, and how best to carry this out. This book will help
social work professionals, foster carers and adopters to understand
the many aspects of life work and to consider the important
contributions they can all make to this task. Life work is about
helping children to know and to understand their personal stories
and the life experiences that have shaped them. Enabling children
to reach their potential and achieve the best possible outcome is
the common goal, and this is best achieved by using the
collaborative approach to life work advocated in this book
Providing an authoritative overview of the growing phenomena of
child to parent violence - a feature in the daily life of
increasing numbers of families - this book outlines what we know
about it, what is effective in addressing it, and outlines a proven
model for intervention. Based on non-violent resistance (NVR), the
model is founded on a number of key elements: parental commitment
to non-violence, de-escalation skills, increased parental presence,
engaging the support network and acts of reconciliation. The book
outlines the theory and principles, and provides pragmatic guidance
for implementing these elements, accompanied by case studies to
bring the theory to life.
Nurturing Attachments Training Resource is a complete group-work
programme containing everything you need to run training and
support sessions for adoptive parents and foster or kinship carers.
Based on attachment theory and developed by expert author and
trainer Kim Golding, this rich resource provides an authoritative
set of ideas for therapeutically parenting children along with all
the guidance you will need to implement the training. The training
resource includes theoretical content and process notes for
facilitators, and a range of activities supported by online
downloadable content with photocopiable reflective diary sheets,
activity sheets and handouts. It is structured into 3 modules with
6 sessions per module. Module 1: Provides an understanding of
attachment theory, patterns of attachment and an introduction to
therapeutic parenting. Module 2: Introduces the House Model of
Parenting, providing guidance on how to help the children
experience the family as a secure base. Module 3: Continues
exploring the House Model of Parenting, with consideration of how
parents can both build a relationship with the children and manage
their behaviour. This will be an invaluable resource and one-stop
guide for any professionals involved in training foster carers and
adoptive parents, as well as residential child care workers and
kinship carers.
While many proponents of transracial adoption claim that American
society is increasingly becoming "color-blind," a growing body of
research reveals that for transracial adoptees of all backgrounds,
racial identity does matter. Rhonda M. Roorda elaborates
significantly on that finding, specifically studying the effects of
the adoption of black and biracial children by white parents. She
incorporates diverse perspectives on transracial adoption by
concerned black Americans of various ages, including those who
lived through Jim Crow and the Civil Rights era. All her
interviewees have been involved either personally or professionally
in the lives of transracial adoptees, and they offer strategies for
navigating systemic racial inequalities while affirming the
importance of black communities in the lives of transracial
adoptive families. In Their Voices is for parents, child-welfare
providers, social workers, psychologists, educators, therapists,
and adoptees from all backgrounds who seek clarity about this
phenomenon. The author examines how social attitudes and federal
policies concerning transracial adoption have changed over the last
several decades. She also includes suggestions on how to revise
transracial adoption policy to better reflect the needs of
transracial adoptive families. Perhaps most important, In Their
Voices is packed with advice for parents who are invested in
nurturing a positive self-image in their adopted children of color
and the crucial perspectives those parents should consider when
raising their children. It offers adoptees of color encouragement
in overcoming discrimination and explains why a "race-neutral"
environment, maintained by so many white parents, is not ideal for
adoptees or their families.
From Torey Hayden, the number one Sunday Times bestselling author of
One Child comes Lost Girl, a poignant and deeply moving account of a
lost little girl and an extraordinary educational psychologist's
courage and determination.
Jessie is nine years old and looks like the perfect little girl, with
red hair, green eyes and a beguiling smile. She even has a talent for
drawing gorgeous and intricate pictures. But Jessie also knows how to
get her own way and will lie, scream, shout and hurt to get just
exactly what she wants.
Her parents say they can't take her back, and her social workers
struggle to deal with her destructive behaviour and wild mood swings.
After her chaotic passage through numerous foster placements, Jessie
has finally received a diagnosis of an attachment disorder. Attachment
disorders arise when children are deprived of the all-important close
bonds with trustworthy adults that allow them to develop emotionally
and thrive. Finally educational psychologist Torey Hayden is called in
to help. Torey agrees to weekly meetings with Jessie to try and uncover
why she is acting out. Torey's gentle care and attention reveal
shocking truths behind Jessie's lies. Can Torey and the other social
workers help to provide the consistent loving care that has so far been
missing in Jessie’s life, or will she push them away too?
Positive and practical, this guide is designed to offer a route to
recovery from grief and loss after adoption or long-term foster
care. Children growing up in adoptive families or foster care often
have complicated feelings about the loss of their birth parents -
feelings which become all the more complex as they gain
independence and become young adults, and which can endure
throughout their lives. Common life events such as entering new
relationships, building a family or losing a loved one can give
rise to difficult questions about their own childhood and identity.
In this book, Renee Wolfs provides an accessible explanation of the
feelings of loss and grief commonly experienced by adults who grew
up in adoptive families or foster care, and how debilitating they
can be. She provides grounded advice and strategies to aid recovery
and provides the reader with a useful tool: The Circle of
Connecting. The Circle provides strategies for healing from loss,
spanning all seven elements of your life: your body, mind, heart,
environment, past, present and future. This book is essential
reading for older teens and adults who need help in addressing
feelings of grief and loss, as well as those who support them
including adoptive and foster parents, social workers, counsellors
and therapists.
* What are attachment difficulties? * How do they affect children?
* How can you help? This book provides clear and concise answers to
these important questions - and more. Much more than just a simple
introduction to the subject of attachment, the book is also full of
advice and practical ideas you can try. It tackles some challenging
questions, such as 'what is the difference between trauma and
attachment?', and explains how having an understanding of
attachment is only part of the overall picture when it comes to
caring for traumatized children. It is an essential read for any
adult parenting or caring for a child who has experienced
attachment difficulties.
Many people say being a parent is the toughest job there is. John
DeGarmo, foster and adoptive parent, tells us just how tough it can
be, having parented over 40 children. At times he and his wife,
Kelly, have cared for up to nine children at a time, many with
severe trauma and learning difficulties. Love and Mayhem is an
honest and open account of the struggles, sadness and joy that
comes with the job of being a parent to a traumatized child. From
the sleepless nights with babies withdrawing from drug-addiction,
to the heartbreak when a child moves on to another home, and the
loving chaos that comes with a large and blended family, John
DeGarmo fights for the many children who have come through his
home. Ideal for foster families, general readers, fostering
agencies and social workers who are looking for a true to life
memoir of what it really is to be a foster parent.
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