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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Intergenerational relationships
The Silence Between Us is a raw and original double memoir tracing
a mother and daughter as they try to understand and rebuild their
relationship after the daughter's suicide attempt. Because Oceane
had just turned eighteen when she tried to end her life, the
hospital had to respect her request: to not notify her parents.
Years later, when Oceane asked her mother, Cecile, to write
something together about this period of their lives, she never
expected that Cecile would already have so many pages hidden away,
filled with words that she began to write when she eventually
learned of Oceane's suicide attempt. In The Silence Between Us,
Oceane pieces together her story through old diary entries, emails,
hospital records and psychiatric reports, interspersed with
Cecile's own intense account of caring for her fiercely independent
daughter. Slowly we learn about the intergenerational trauma that
forced the chasm between Oceane and Cecile, as well as the campus
sexual assault that pushed Oceane over the edge. As Oceane lets
Cecile back into her life and they attempt to negotiate both the
mental health and legal systems, we also see the fractures start to
mend. At once delicate and unflinching, The Silence Between Us
dares to say all the things we'd rather avoid when it comes to
mental health, women's voices and family relationships. Includes
foreword by psychiatrist Pat McGorry AO, professor of youth mental
health and former Australian of the Year.
Missing, dead, disappeared, or otherwise absent mothers haunt us
and the stories we tell ourselves. Our literature, from fairytales
like Cinderella and The Little Mermaid to popular narratives like
Cheryl Strayed's recent book Wild, is peopled with motherless
children. The absent mother, whether in literature or life, may
force us to forge an independent identity. But she can also leave a
mother-shaped hole and a howling loneliness that dogs us through
our adult lives. This anthology explores the theme of absent
mothers from scholars and creative writers, who tell personal
stories and provide the theoretical framework to recognize and
begin to understand the impact of motherlessness that ripples
through our cultures and our art.
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